Playful Furry Cuffs by CalExotics

Let your lover take the lead and indulge in sensationally enhanced pleasure with the Playful Furry Cuffs.

These versatile handcuffs are ideal for experienced restraint lovers, blushing beginners or couples looking to experience with dazzling bondage play.

Give yourself over to pure ecstasy when you slip these plush faux fur covered metal handcuffs with lockable design. Explore endless restraint possibilities with the adjustable cuff size and durable design.

Wrap around your back or around bed posts to relinquish total control to your lover and heightened pleasure while the plush faux fur keeps your wrists comfortable. The commanding cuffs are complete with 2 lock keys and a safety release latch in case of an unexpected interruptions.

Features:

  • Metal faux fur covered handcuffs with safety release
  • Soft and comfortable removable faux fur
  • 2 keys included
  • Iron (cuffs) Polyester (faux fur) Zinc Alloy (keys)

More Saffron by Sportsheets!

Saffron is a thoughtfully crafted line of couples-friendly vegan products designed for players at every level of interest and experience. Created with beauty, comfort and safety in mind, Saffron is perfect for anyone who desires to explore a new kind of give-and-take in the bedroom.

The seven additions to the Saffron collection include a mix of bondage cuff sets, floggers and paddles, such as the clear Acrylic Paddle that delivers a unique visual experience, and the impact surface offers an intense sting and satisfying sound like no other. Also joining Saffron is the ever-popular Hog Tie and Cuff Set to bind wrists and ankles now in the collection’s signature red and black vegan leather.

All of the products include Sportsheets’ limited lifetime warranty.

 

Saffron Spreader Bar & Cuff Set

Act out your naughtiest power play fantasies with the Saffron Spreader Bar and Cuff Set.

Four lightly padded adjustable faux leather cuffs in the signature red and black of the Saffron collection buckle comfortably around your wrists and ankles and clip to the spreader bar and each other in any way you can dream up. The strong, solid spreader bar’s rings are firmly welded in place, so there’s no escape…only release.

Imagine your ankles cuffed to the farthest ends of the spreader bar, leaving your most luscious bits on display and accessible for your lover’s wicked pleasure, or your arms spread and immobilized while they tease and torment every inch of you. The spreader bar’s four attachment points and the swivel snap clips on each cuff even make hog-tying or multiple partners play possible. Mix and match with other Saffron collection products for even more forbidden fun!

Features:

  • Adjustable cuffs fit most users
  • Swivel snap clips make any position possible
  • Vegan/vegetarian-friendly faux leather
  • Nickel-free metal
  • Limited Lifetime Warranty
  • 60% stainless steel, 25% polyurethane, 10% polyurethane foam, 5% nickel-free metal

In The Box:

One Solid 24.75” (63.75cm) matte black nickel-free aluminum tube with 4 welded connector O Rings

4 faux leather cuffs with buckle closure and snap hook connector

 

Saffron Hog Tie & Cuff Set

The Saffron Hog Tie and Cuff Set binds your wrists and ankles, but frees your wildest fantasies.

A strong X-shaped hog tie bar with firmly welded O-Rings placed at each end is ready to rule you when connected to four lightly padded adjustable faux leather cuffs in the Saffron collection’s signature red and black.

With heavy duty hardware and firmly fitted cuffs, there will be no wriggling out of this one! Each sturdy connection point can take a wrist, ankle, or combination of the two to properly truss up you or your little plaything. The cuffs can also be clipped together or attached to other bondage gear to maximize your restraint play. Mix and match with other Saffron collection products for even more forbidden fun!

Features:

Adjustable cuffs fit most users

Swivel snap clips make any position possible

Vegan/vegetarian-friendly faux leather

Nickel-free metal

Limited Lifetime Warranty

60% stainless steel, 25% polyurethane, 10% polyurethane foam, 5% nickel-free metal

In The Box:

One 4-way sturdy aluminum tube (length=4.75”)

4 fixed connector O-Rings

4 10” faux leather cuffs with buckle closure and snap hook connector

 

Saffron Acrylic Spanker

Harder. Faster. More.

The Saffron Acrylic Spanker features an impact surface with 13 die-cut holes that reduce air resistance for a faster swing and harder hits. The holes also make a unique impression on the skin, leaving behind a delicious polka dot pattern.

This pleasure tool’s smooth, vinyl handle is easy and comfortable to grip through even the wildest spanking sessions. It is speed-enhanced 4mm acrylic end packs an exceptionally satisfying sting.

A nylon loop at the base of the smooth PVC handle makes this spanker easy to store on a wall or pegboard when you’re finished playing (or just warming up). Mix and match with other Saffron collection products for even more forbidden fun!

Features:

  • Die cut holes for greater intensity
  • 4mm thick acrylic impact surface
  • Loop for easy hanging storage
  • Limited Lifetime Warranty
  • 14” Clear Acrylic Spanker
  • Thickness/Guage: 4mm
  • PVC Handle Length: 5″(12.7cm)
  • Wrist Cord Length: 7” (17.78cm)
  • 65% acrylic, 20% phthalate free PVC, 15% nylon

 

Saffron Acrylic Paddle

Can you make your desires any clearer? We can!

The Saffron Acrylic Paddle’s strong 4mm-thick impact surface delivers an intense sting and a slapping sound like no other. Formed in clear acrylic for a unique visual experience, players wielding this paddle can see the moment its surface meets and marks the skin.

Anticipation builds as you hear your partner’s test swings whistle through the air and strike their palm. Then it’s your turn…they swing and connect sending waves of pain and pleasure with the satisfying crack.

A nylon loop at the base of the smooth PVC handle makes this paddle easy to store on a wall or pegboard when you’re finished playing (or just warming up). Mix and match with other Saffron collection products for even more forbidden fun!

Features:

  • Clear acrylic impact surface
  • Smooth PVC handle
  • Loop for easy hanging storage
  • Limited Lifetime Warranty
  • 12” Clear Acrylic Paddle
  • Thickness/Guage: 4mm
  • PVC Handle Length: 5″(cm)
  • Wrist Cord Length: 7” (cm)
  • 65% acrylic, 20% phthalate free PVC, 15% nylon

 

 

Saffron Studded Spanker

When variety is a must, the Saffron Studded Spanker is the perfect versatile tool.

This spanker’s slim faux leather impact surface—part studded, part smooth— gives players the choice to dial down the intensity and only slap and tap with the smooth end, or take it to new highs and strike including the studded area.

The Saffron Studded Spanker’s split-seam construction adds sound to the excitement, with the firm handle partially reinforcing each punishing and pleasurable slap. The nickel-free studs add weight and heft to every swing.

A generously-sized faux leather loop at the base of the spiral-wrapped handle makes this spanker easy to store on a wall or pegboard when you’re finished playing (or just warming up). Mix and match with other Saffron collection products for even more forbidden fun!

Features:

  • Partially studded impact surface
  • Nickel-free metal details
  • Loop for easy hanging storage
  • Vegan/vegetarian-friendly faux leather
  • Limited Lifetime Warranty
  • Paddle Panel Length and Width: 7″ L (17.78 cm) x 3.25″ W (8.25 cm)
  • Spiral Wrapped Handle Length: 3.75″ (9.52 cm)
  • Wrist Loop Length:  7″ (17.78cm)
  • 65% polyurethane, 20% ABS plastic, 15% nickel free metal

 

Saffron Flogger

Deliver thirty stinging kisses to your lover’s backside—or anywhere else you desire—with every flick of the Saffron Flogger.

Luxuriously long faux leather falls in the Saffron collection’s signature colors flow from a strong, metal handle that requires only a capable lover’s firm hand. Each soft, flexible strand of the Saffron Flogger can whisper across their body or cross it with a biting snap.

A faux leather loop at the base of the nickel-free metal handle makes this flogger easy to store on a wall or pegboard when you’re finished playing (or just warming up). Mix and match with other Saffron collection products for even more forbidden fun!

Features:

  • Thirty black and saffron falls
  • Durable metal handle
  • Loop for easy hanging storage
  • Vegan/vegetarian-friendly faux leather
  • Limited Lifetime Warranty
  • Handle Length: 6″ (15.24cm)
  • Falls Length: 17″ (43.18cm)
  • Total Length: 23″ (58.42cm)
  • 65% polyurethane, 30% nickel free metal, 5% nylon

 

Saffron Braided Flogger

Intensify your impact play with the Saffron Braided Flogger.

Each of this cat-o’-nine-tails faux leather flogger’s thick braided falls ends in a tip reminiscent of riding crops, landing nine perfectly stinging snaps anywhere on your willing partner’s flesh. Heavier falls mean a fiercer bite than standard soft floggers, making the Saffron Braided Flogger the perfect pleasure tool to take punishment play to the next level.

A faux leather wrist loop at the base of the comfort-grip handle makes this flogger easy to store on a wall or pegboard when you’re finished playing (or just warming up). Mix and match with other Saffron collection products for even more forbidden fun!

Features:

  • Nine braided and tipped strands for unique sensations
  • Comfort-grip bubbled handle
  • Loop for added control and easy hanging storage
  • Vegan/vegetarian-friendly faux leather
  • Limited Lifetime Warranty
  • Handle Length: 7″ (17.78cm)
  • Falls Length: 17″ (43.18cm)
  • Total Length: 24″ (60.96cm)
  • Materials:
  • 65% polyurethane, 30% ABS plastic, 5% nylon

Rope Bondage Tips, Tricks and Benefits for Users

I love rope! Rope bondage has been described as gateway kink. Many love experimenting with bondage and sex without playing with pain. Sexual positions can be more comfortable when adding rope bondage to take weight off some spots or add support to others. Rope itself can be a form of sexy accessory. Every pleasure product shop should have some rope for bondage available, and should consider rope bondage classes to bring in more customers.

The only thing better than rope for bondage is a lot of rope for bondage. First-time couples showing up for a bondage class with one small bundle of expensive jute rope can be sad. Bondage newbies are going to have better experiences and be more enthusiastic with at least three to four 30-foot-long bundles of well-priced, user-friendly rope. Working with rope is addictive, and newbs will gravitate towards more expensive rope as they experiment and accessorize.

Braided cotton is the most affordable. Beginners love it because braided cotton is inexpensive, comes in pretty colors, and is easy to find on the internet. It is very forgiving and soft. Those qualities are great, but braided cotton is not safe for suspension. Once you add weight, braided cotton will stretch, cutting off circulation and causing other problems. Only use braided for floor work or where weight will not be added. Like other ropes with natural materials, cotton has a slight tooth to the material, which means knots don’t have to be super tight to hold, just hitched properly. This is important to know because we’ve seen knots on braided cotton so tight, they had to be cut to undo the tie.

Avoid any braided rope with a solid core. We’ve seen braided ropes with plastic, wire, and even lead cores. That’s not safe for bondage and the rope will begin to self-destruct with use.

I prefer to recommend braided multi-filament polypropylene (MFP) synthetic rope for beginners. MFP is a better value, has a great look, is easy to clean and is user-friendly. Unlike braided cotton, MFP can be used for suspension. Beginners and advanced riggers love that unlike with more expensive twisted ropes, MFP doesn’t unravel. Beginners have the advantage that they can get their rope-handling skills down with MFP, like pulling the rope through a tie instead of pushing it through. Advanced bondage enthusiasts love the colors and the low maintenance of the material. Due to the sexy, smooth surface of MFP, an extra hitch or knot may be necessary to lock down your tie, which is easy.

If there’s a bratty escape artist in a couple looking to buy rope, suggest the MFP or braided cotton. The aspiring Houdini may be sexy, but they’re better off picking through a MFP than a more expensive rope while trying to wiggle loose.

There is a twisted cotton and synthetic blend I like to work with. This rope is super soft. For those who love to play in the club scene, it is available in black light reactive colors. This gives it an awesome look in the dark! This blended rope is still not advised for suspension and weight, but is still great for floor work, decorative harnesses, predicament bondage and looks badass when used for a rope corset.

Hemp rope is very popular with advanced players and there are a lot of requests for it. The material is perfect for suspension, and very durable when handled correctly.

However, natural fiber hemp can cause allergic reactions in people who have hay fever and pollen allergies. Hemp is awesome for those who can use it. If you stock it, ask those requesting it if they’ve played with it before and if they’re allergic to pollen or get hay fever.

Twisted jute rope is often considered the gold standard in bondage. Master class bondage experts love jute, and I love it too! You’ll see jute in most of the erotic bondage photography out there. The material is natural and has the traditional look for bondage. Jute is strong and is frequently used for suspension.

I love a particular colored jute that has been conditioned to be softer than usual. The maker has a conductive version for use with a violet wand. While this rope is higher in price, it is worth every penny and the bondage bunnies agree!

Source your hemp and jute carefully. Jute for bondage has to be properly washed and conditioned before it is suitable for tying a partner. Cheap jute that hasn’t been conditioned may also contain pesticides because bugs love it. Some cheap jute is being marketed online as hemp. Know the differences and the sources before offering hemp and jute to customers.

Hemp and jute are not recommended for beginning players. These ropes are quality investments. Jute and hemp need tender loving care to last. Since these ropes are twisted, improper handling and cleaning can cause the ropes to unravel, and the damage can’t be undone. Tossing a bag of jute rope in a washing machine will destroy it. There are some who don’t wash these ropes at all, making them very personal items. Including care instructions with rope is always a smart move.

When stocking rope, don’t forget the accessories! Popular accessories include anal “hooks,” and violet wand kits for conductive rope. There’s also the typical upsell potential of beginners’ kink items like paddles, butt plugs and nipple clamps.

One final accessory my peers and I stock when touring events are paramedic-grade safety scissors. If something goes wrong, it’s not always necessary to cut the rope, but every rope bondage lover’s gear bag should have a durable pair of safety scissors that can cut through any rope.

There are potential rope bondage lovers every day; many are daunted by pricey rope, fancy techniques and complex ties. While we offer great books on bondage, one little secret is much of the bondage you’ll see is actually macramé techniques. Inexpensive macramé craft books are a good start for newbies.

When selling rope for bondage, don’t forget to point out that rope is a great fetish fashion accessory. While a lot of latex and fetish gear can be prohibitively expensive for curious fetishists, rope is an inexpensive alternative that turns heads. There are a number of easy-to- learn decorative rope harnesses that look great over a bodysuit.

If you’re running a brick-and-mortar store and haven’t tried rope bondage, we recommend learning more. It’s great fun, and you get to know more about your product. Consider reaching out to a local club on Fetlife.com to see if some of their rope enthusiasts would like to offer classes or workshops at a spot in your store. This makes for a great way to sell rope and additional gear.

Rope bondage is easy to start and a lifetime of kinky fun to master. Don’t miss out on this enjoyable way to grow your customer base, sell more products, and have a lot of fun.

Rope Bondage Tips, Tricks and Benefits for Users by Anne B. originally appeared in XBIZ

Fifty Shades of Grey Play Nice Bondage Essentials by Lovehoney

“Game on, Miss Steele.” – Fifty Shades Freed

In celebration of a decade of erotic discovery and fulfilment, the Fifty Shades of Grey Official Pleasure Collection invites you to immerse yourself in the Fifty Shades experience.

Curated by E L James, the silver satin and black lace Play Nice Bondage Essentials are all yours to explore for your very own intense, intimate and thrilling experiences in the bedroom and beyond.

The Satin & Lace Blindfold feels soft and sensual against your skin – perfect for wearing all night long.

Satin & Lace Collar & Nipple Clamps prove that bondage play can be elegant.

Satin & Lace Wrist Cuffs show you can be kinky and fashion-forward.

Part of the Fifty Shades of Grey Official Pleasure Collection approved by author E L James.

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Play Nice Satin & Lace Blindfold

Whether you’re looking to tease and please, or simply catch some Zs, add this beautiful blindfold into the mix.

Made from silver satin with black lace for added sex appeal, it feels soft and sensual against your skin – perfect for wearing all night long.

Inspired by Ana and Christian’s kinky adventures, this luxurious blindfold allows you to dip your toe into the wonderful world of bondage.

Use it to tantalize your lover’s senses, enhance stimulation and explore sensory deprivation.

Features:

  • Shimmering silver satin blindfold with delicate black eyelash lace trim
  • Lightly padded to feel sensual against the skin
  • Elegant shape fits snugly and prevents peeking
  • Elasticated headband provides secure comfort for prolonged wear

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Play Nice Satin & Lace Collar & Nipple Clamps

Proving that bondage play can be elegant, this satin collar is super chic.

Wear the silicone-tipped nipple clamps under your clothes to give you and your lover a kinky secret to share. Enjoy the glorious pinch and build up the sexual anticipation.

The collar is made from soft satin, for enhanced comfort and prolonged wear. Fastened via a quick-release lobster clasp are two adjustable nipple clamps with silicone tips. Simply slide the metal ring up or down to increase or decrease the pinch.

To enhance your pleasure, add a drop of water-based lubricant to each clamp.

Features:

  • Shimmering silver satin collar with delicate eyelash lace trim
  • Discreet clasps on collar offer a secure, comfortable fit
  • Adjustable stainless steel nipple clamps with silicone tips
  • Weighted beads and chain for delicious pull

 

Fifty Shades Of Grey Play Nice Satin & Lace Wrist Cuffs

Keep your lover exactly where you want them with these stylish restraints, inspired by the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy.

Made from sensual, soft satin, with a delicate black lace trim, these wrist cuffs prove you can be kinky and fashion-forward.

Inspired by Ana and Christian’s kinky adventures, these luxurious cuffs allow you to dip your toe into the wonderful world of bondage.

Cuffs adjust between 8.5 and 12.5 inches.

Features:

  • Shimmering silver satin wrist cuffs with delicate eyelash lace trim
  • Clasps on each cuff secure them in place
  • Connected together by a silver-colored metal chain

The GLO Glow-in-the-Dark Bondage Collection from NS Novelties

Tie, spank, and GLO from NS Novelties.

Add a new twist to your fetish adventures with the GLO collection of glow-in-the-dark restraints.

These BDSM essentials are easy to clean, simple to care for, and deliver stunning visual stimulation for your playtime when the sun goes down.

The stylish pieces are crafted in soft black and white PU Leather with black hardware. When exposed to a light source, the white material will glow in the dark.

 

GLO offers all the gear you desire:

Blindfold

7.2” x 2.6” x  0.1”

Collar and Leash

115.5” x 6.5” x 0.1”

 

Wrist Cuff

15.2” x 2.5” x 1.8”

 

Ankle Cuff

15.9” x 1.9” x 1.8”

 

Paddle

11.7” x 2.2” x 0.2”

 

Hog Tie

9.3” x 1.6” x 0.2”

 

Ball Gag

13.5” x 1” x 1.6”

 

Flogger

24” x 0.7” x 0.7”

Liberator Bondi Portable Playscape With Cuffs

 

The Liberator Bondi Portable Playscape Board is the cream of the crop when it comes to erotic restraint play. Expertly crafted with a solid Baltic birchwood base, the Bondi creates a stable platform for couples to explore bondage play – whether on a floor or on a bed.

This weighted, tri-fold bondage platform comes equipped with a total of 16 reinforced D-ring and clip attachment points to give you complete control and access to your partner. Easy to straddle and maneuver, this playscape makes any posture or position a breeze.

The premium faux leather cover feels buttery smooth and amazing against bare skin, while the high-density foam insert provides supremely plush comfort and support for longer play sessions.

The ingenious tri-fold hinge design lets couples integrate their favorite Liberator Shapes such as the Wedge, Ramp or Hipster for added fun and excitement and can also be used as a low-profile bondage bench when folded together.

Whether you long to be tied up or want to be the one doing the cuffing, this ingenious product is the perfect addition to any erotic bedroom collection. Includes a nylon carrying case with reinforced handle for discreet travel and easy storage.

Features:

  • Trifold, portable playscape design for erotic restraint play
  • Crafted with premium high-density foam and Baltic Birchwood Base
  • 16 reinforced attachment points: each with D-rings and female clips
  • Multiple applications, can be used flat or folded, or used against a wall
  • Integrates well with Liberator Ramp, Wedge or Hipster
  • Works with Liberator Cuffs, leather restraints, rope or silk sashes
  • Durable black nylon sides and bottom prevent slipping
  • High-density polyurethane foam maintains shape
  • Premium faux leather cover is soft, breathable, antimicrobial, non-staining, and easy to wipe clean
  • Flattened: 24”L x 48”W x 3”H | Folded: 24”L x 16”W x 9”H
  • Comes with black nylon carrying case for convenient and discreet travel and storage
  • Vacuum compressed packaging

Unleashed Play Sets by CalExotics

Give yourself over to the thrilling world of submission and dominance with the Unleashed Play Sets by CalExotics.

Each set comes complete with everything you need to explore your fantasies:

  • Surrender is an 8 piece everything needed to give yourself over to pleasure and your lover’s every erotic whim.
  • Adventure is a 7 piece set includes everything needed to tease the lines between pleasure and pain.

Both include a hanging travel and storage bag trimmed in coordinating animal print fabric with a place for everything, extra pocket, and a satin ribbon closure.

 

Unleashed Surrender Set Complete Restraint Kit 

Give yourself over to the thrilling world of submission and dominance with the Unleashed Surrender Set.

This travel-ready set includes everything needed to give yourself over to pleasure and your lover’s every erotic whim. This 8-piece kink kit includes a set of 2 fabric ties, double padded eye mask, 2 sets of fully adjustable universal cuffs, collapsible spreader bar, breathable ball gag and roll up travel case with hook.

No matter how you like to bind, a set of sensual fabric ties and two sets of totally adjustable cuffs can be used on ankles or wrists for versatile restraint play.

Dive deep into sensuous pleasure with the double-layer eye mask and the plush cuffs keep you comfortable, no matter how much you squirm. With a plush interior and wild leopard exterior, even the most experienced or freshest fetishist can indulge in sensational pleasure play with this intense breathable gag.

Leave yourself wide open to sensational pleasure with the fully adjustable collapsible spreader bar. No matter how much you squirm, two sets of fully adjustable cuffs can be used to bind and restrain into almost any position. From hot honeymoons to nightly adventures, the discreet roll up travel case is sure to hold onto all your dirty secrets between sessions.

Features:

  • 8 piece bondage set
  • Leopard print fabric
  • Roll up travel and storage bag with hanger top and satin ties included
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics

Set includes:

  • Set of 2 sensual fabric ties
  • Double-padded eye mask
  • 2 sets of totally adjustable, universal cuffs with Velcro style closures
  • Collapsible spreader bar with adjustable Velcro ankle and wrist cuffs
  • Breathable ball gag with adjustable buckle closure
  • Roll up travel case

 

Unleashed Adventure Set Complete Sensory Play Kit

Give yourself over to the thrilling world of submission and dominance with the Unleashed Adventure Set.

This travel-ready set includes everything needed to tease the lines between pleasure and pain. The designer 7-piece kit includes a faux leather flogger, sturdy dual-sided paddle, fluffy feather tickler, padded collar, chain leash, over the door restraint system and roll up travel case with hook.

Lose yourself to pleasure with the versatile cuffs with adjustable Velcro style enclosure, wrap around wrists or ankles for sensual submission. Tease as you build up the anticipation with the flirty feather tickler. Wrap the adjustable collar around your lover, clip on the durable chain leash and lead them towards pure pleasure as you take command. From every teasing tickle down their body to stinging slap, the flogger with tickling tassels is sure to thrill. From rewards to punishment, the sturdy dual sided paddle is made to plant powerful smacks.

No matter how much you squirm, the over the door restraint system with adjustable straps will hold you just right when paired with the adjustable cuffs. From hot honeymoons to nightly adventures, the discreet roll up travel case is sure to hold onto all your dirty secrets between session.

Features:

  • 7 Piece bondage and sensory play set
  • Leopard print fabric
  • Roll up travel and storage bag with hanger top and satin ties included
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics

Set includes:

  • Flogger with soft teasing tassels
  • Dual sided, sturdy paddle
  • Teasing feather tickler
  • Totally adjustable cuffs with Velcro style closures for use on wrists or ankles
  • Dual sided collar with universal buckle closure and leash with sturdy chain
  • Over the door restraint system with adjustable strap and bar hook for secure over the door placement
  • Roll up travel case

Fifty Shades Bound to You by Lovehoney

In celebration of a decade of erotic discovery and fulfillment, the Fifty Shades of Grey Official Pleasure Collection invites you to immerse yourself in the Fifty Shades experience.

“I try to squirm but I can hardly move, and it makes the torture all the more intense.” – Fifty Shades Freed

Curated by E L James, the collection of stylish, high quality toys, bondage accessories and essentials are all yours to explore for your very own intense, intimate and thrilling experiences in the bedroom and beyond.

Each item in the collection is made from sensually soft faux leather and antiqued gold hardware and comes with a branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting.

Indulge in the full Bound to You collection or mix and match with your favorite toys to create a new erotic tale.

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Blindfold

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Heighten the senses with the luxury Bound to You blindfold. An essential bondage accessory, it’s perfect for beginners and beyond. While the softly padded lining provides sublime comfort, the faux leather and antique gold hardware are undeniably erotic.

Indulge in the full Bound to You collection or mix and match this blindfold with your favorite toys to create a new erotic tale.

In celebration of a decade of erotic discovery and fulfillment, the Fifty Shades of Grey Official Pleasure Collection invites you to immerse yourself in the Fifty Shades experience.

Features:

  • Faux leather blindfold with antique gold buckle fastening for deluxe sensory deprivation play
  • Buckle fastening adjusts between 20.5 and 25.25 inches for secure, comfortable wear
  • Furry lining ensures comfort for the wearer
  • Faux leather is a vegan-friendly alternative to leather
  • Comes with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting
  • Length: 25.5 inches

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Ball Gag

Silence is golden, and this handcrafted faux leather and silicone ball gag lets you achieve it in style. Beautifully designed in faux leather with antique gold hardware, this deluxe ball gag features a silicone ball, for extra-comfortable restraint play.

The secure buckle fastening and matching D-rings offer a totally unique BDSM look, while also making this gag compatible with a plethora of chains and leads for customized play.

Indulge in the full Bound to You collection or mix and match this ball gag with your favorite toys to create a new erotic tale.

In celebration of a decade of erotic discovery and fulfillment, the Fifty Shades of Grey Official Pleasure Collection invites you to immerse yourself in the Fifty Shades experience.

Features:

  • Faux leather ball gag with silicone ball and antique gold hardware for indulgent bondage play
  • Medium-sized 5.5 inch silicone ball to silence moans and groans
  • 8-hole buckle-fastened straps adjust between 19.5 and 25.5 inches around
  • Faux leather is a vegan-friendly alternative to leather
  • Comes with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting
  • Length: 29 inches

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Wrist Cuffs

Lavishly combining style and function, these sumptuously padded wrist cuffs combine faux leather with antique gold finishing to bring style and luxury to your bondage adventures. Perfect for inspiring a little Ana-and-Christian-inspired exploration.

Lined with soft, furry fabric, these exquisite wrist cuffs feel as gorgeous as they look. Strong antique gold buckles and durable faux leather ensure reliable restraint in a variety of positions, while the quick-release clips give you peace of mind.

Pair your cuffs with other accessories from the Bound to You collection, for undeniably erotic adventures. Simply remove the chain and attach them to the Bound to You spreader bar or hogtie to discover new ways to tie and tease.

Features:

  • Soft and sensual faux leather wrist cuffs for deluxe bondage play
  • Black faux leather and antique gold metal detailing combine for a sophisticated finish
  • Buckle fastenings adjust between 4 and 8 inches via 9-hole buckle fastening to fit most
  • Faux leather is a vegan-friendly alternative to leather
  • Comes with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Ankle Cuffs

Create your own Fifty Shades mise en scène with these exquisite ankle cuffs. Exceptionally comfortable with sumptuous padding and a soft, furry lining, these faux leather cuffs are finished in antique gold for opulent Ana-and-Christian-inspired play.

Lined with soft, furry fabric, these ankle cuffs feel as gorgeous as they look. Strong antique gold buckles and durable faux leather ensure reliable restraint in a variety of positions, while the quick-release clips give you peace of mind.

Pair your cuffs with other accessories from the Bound to You collection, for undeniably erotic adventures. Simply remove the chain and attach them to the Bound to You spreader bar or hogtie to discover new ways to tie and tease.

Features:

  • Soft and sensual faux leather ankle cuffs for deluxe bondage play
  • Black faux leather and antique gold metal detailing combine for a sophisticated finish
  • Buckle fastenings adjust between 5.5 and 9.5 inches via 9-hole buckle fastening to fit most
  • Faux leather is a vegan-friendly alternative to leather
  • Comes with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Hog Tie

Full-body restraint is yours with the Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You hogtie. Crafted from sumptuous vegan-friendly faux leather and beautifully finished with antique gold details, it’s your stylish and sensual gateway to a whole world of bondage play.

Team up with the Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You ankle and wrist cuffs, and enjoy total submission and enhanced bondage fun. Perfect for use in a number of positions, this hogtie is sure to keep your sub restrained throughout play.

Each of the four quick-release clips swivels in place for comfortable full-body restraint, while the sensual feel of faux leather adds a little something extra to your fun.

Pair your cuffs with other accessories from the Bound to You collection, for undeniably erotic adventures.

Features:

  • Hogtie restraint for full-body bondage with a luxurious feel
  • Black faux leather and antique gold metal detailing combine for a sophisticated finish
  • Faux leather is a vegan-friendly alternative to leather
  • 4 x sturdy clips allow you to attach your choice of cuffs
  • Comes with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Spreader Bar

Explore the delights of bondage with the Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You spreader bar. Made from vegan-friendly faux leather and beautifully finished with antique gold hardware, this opulent restraint is perfect for Ana-and-Christian-style indulgence.

With four quick-release clips offering you versatility in how and where you choose to attach your lover’s restraints, this sumptuous faux leather spreader bar ensures a sensual in-the-moment experience.

For an authentic Fifty Shades of Grey experience, pair with the matching Bound to You wrist and ankle cuffs (they’re equally exquisite).

Features:

  • 20 inch lightweight spreader bar for luxurious restraint play
  • Black faux leather and antique gold metal combine for a stylish sensual finish
  • Compatible with matching Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You wrist and ankle cuffs
  • Faux leather is a vegan-friendly alternative to leather
  • Comes with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Small Flogger

Add a touch of Ana-and-Christian-inspired indulgence to weekends away with this mini flogger. With sumptuously soft faux leather fronds, this ever-so-versatile accessory is perfect for tickling your lover’s fancy, and first-time forays into impact play.

Featuring a textured handle for extra grip, this petite, travel-friendly flogger allows for confident swings with plenty of impact.

Try running the fronds slowly over your lover’s skin to arouse their desires, then bring them down with a little more force for spine-tingling spanks.

Made from luxurious vegan leather and printed with gold lettering, this exquisite accessory gives your BDSM play a touch of elegance.

Features:

  • Mini vegan leather flogger for Ana-and-Christian-inspired impact play
  • Vary the strokes, switching between sensual tickles and firm slaps to tailor your partner’s experience
  • Petite, travel-friendly size is perfect for bondage on the go
  • Comes with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting
  • Length: 11.5 inches

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Flogger

Add a touch of Ana-and-Christian-inspired indulgence to the bedroom with this exquisite flogger. With sumptuously soft faux leather fronds, this ever-so-versatile accessory is perfect for tickling your lover’s fancy, as well as thrilling impact play.

Featuring a textured handle for extra grip, this flogger allows for confident swings with plenty of impact.

Try running the fronds slowly over your lover’s skin to arouse their desires, then bring them down with a little more force for spine-tingling spanks.

Made from luxurious vegan leather and printed with gold lettering, this exquisite accessory gives your BDSM play a touch of elegance.

In celebration of a decade of erotic discovery and fulfillment, the Fifty Shades of Grey Official Pleasure Collection invites you to immerse yourself in the Fifty Shades experience.

Features:

  • Vegan leather flogger for Ana-and-Christian-inspired impact play
  • Switch between sensual strokes and firm slaps to tailor your partner’s experience
  • Comes with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting
  • Length: 25 inches
  • Fabric: Faux Leather

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Small Paddle

Enjoy audible spanks and enticing sting with this dual-sided paddle from the Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You collection. Inspired by the adventures of Ana and Christian Grey, this vegan leather paddle is perfect for your first foray into impact play.

Made from luxuriously soft vegan leather and printed with gold lettering, this elegant paddle will add a touch of style to your spanking sessions.

Featuring a wrist loop for confident swings and two sides to choose from (smooth faux leather and soft, furry fabric) it could be the ideal next step in your bondage adventures.

For an authentic Fifty Shades of Grey experience, pair with the Bound to You wrist and ankle cuffs (they’re equally exquisite).

Features:

  • Dual-sided spanking paddle for custom stimulation – choose between smooth faux leather and soft, furry fabric
  • Mini size (10 x 2.25 inches) is perfect for slipping into your suitcase for weekends away
  • Wrist loop for confident swings and control
  • Switch between sensual strokes and firm slaps to tailor your partner’s experience
  • Supplied with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting
  • Length: 10 inches
  • Fabric: Faux Leather

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Paddle

Enjoy audible spanks and enticing sting with this sturdy paddle from the Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You collection. Inspired by the adventures of Ana and Christian Grey, this vegan leather paddle is perfect for your first foray into impact play.

Made from luxuriously soft vegan leather and printed with gold lettering, this elegant paddle will add a touch of style to your spanking sessions.

Featuring a wrist loop for confident swings and two sides to choose from (smooth faux leather and soft, furry fabric) it could be the ideal next step in your bondage adventures.

For an authentic Fifty Shades of Grey experience, pair with the Bound to You wrist and ankle cuffs (they’re equally exquisite).

Features:

  • Dual-sided spanking paddle for custom stimulation – choose between smooth faux leather and soft, furry fabric
  • Wrist loop for confident swings and control
  • Switch between sensual strokes and firm slaps to tailor your partner’s experience
  • Comes with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting
  • Length: 15 inches
  • Fabric: Faux Leather

 

Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Riding Crop

Whip your lover into a frenzy with this luxurious riding crop. Crafted for precise impact play, this slender beauty is cream of the crop from tip to handle, with a folded faux leather tip delivering audible cracks and tingling pleasure for the receiver.

When lightly traced across the skin, the tip of the crop stimulates the nerve-endings for increased sensitivity. Blend with sharp slaps for a deeply satisfying sting that will leave your lover shivering with anticip…ation.

Features:

  • Faux leather riding crop with antique gold details for deluxe impact play
  • Combine this statement piece with the Bound to You blindfold and paddle for erotic adventures
  • Supple leather tip with flexible spine offers up satisfying stings
  • Flexible, lightweight and easy to wield for intense sensation
  • Comes with branded Fifty Shades of Grey envelope for stylish gifting
  • Length: 22.5 inches

 

What is BDSM really about? Your Guide to Debunking the Scary Stories Behind This Fun Way to Play

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Does the (in)famous acronym BDSM stir thoughts of spike-tipped whips, heavy-duty chains, and a stony medieval dungeon lit by torches that illuminate an array of ancient torture devices? If so, you’re not alone.

But depending on what sort of kinky folks you speak to, this sort of outrageous fantasy could be right on the money, or so far from the truth that your kink-friendly conversation partner bursts into laughter.

What is BDSM?

BDSM, which stands for Bondage, Domination/Submission, Sadism, and Masochism, is a broad-reaching category of bedroom play that can range from the mild to wild, all depending on what each couple finds a sexy, hot turn-on.

People who regularly practice BDSM in any form (or many forms!) are known as “lifestylers”, especially when they heavily interact and socialize with other BDSM lovers, often forming a community of like-minded individuals who discuss kinky play and sometimes get down with other partners or couples.

The BDSM label can apply to many types of sexual play that fall outside of the vanilla genre. Vanilla generally refers to sexual intercourse in the most simplistic manner — sans even the most beginners’ sort of kink toys, like furry handcuffs or a silky blindfold. Yes, this means that if you’ve ever blindfolded your partner with a soft tie or used your lacy panties to bind their hands above their head, you’ve engaged in a light version of BDSM.

Some couples actually enjoy the full Hollywood-style dungeon, complete with a wooden St. Andrew’s Cross to tie up their partner spread-eagle while they excitedly await an endorphin-releasing whipping. That’s because BDSM hinges on negotiation and consent, and the sexual variations can vary wildly from couple to couple.

BDSM and Consent

When couples’ practice active consent, it means they never attempt a sexual act without asking first, and they listen closely to their partner during sex just in case something that usually feels good happens to feel bad.

In BDSM, part of practicing consent involves negotiating the terms of the sexual encounter before any clothes come off and candles are lit.

These negotiated rules can be as firm as, “I don’t like being spanked, so please don’t ever spank me on any part of my body,” or someone can decide to give certain activities a try with the option to stop the scene if they become uncomfortable, either physically or mentally, like “Sometimes I like being penetrated with large sex toys, but I’ve never tried vaginal fisting before. Please go slow, use lots of lube, and I’ll tell you to stop if I don’t like it.”

Because exhilarating, consensual BDSM can take many forms, let’s look at some common aspects of this often misunderstood sexual niche that debunks all those scary and untrue stories you’ve probably heard over the years. Once you get past the rumors, you open up your partnership to a whole lot of kinky fun!

What is Bondage?

A tied-up tart is probably what immediately springs to mind when you think of BDSM. The B stands for Bondage, and it plays an undeniably huge role in most lifestylers’ playbooks.

Bondage can range from a loosely-wrapped tie around the wrists to those gorgeously intricate Shibari rope designs that you might have seen on the internet.

If you’re new to bondage, start simple with silk ties, easy-release handcuffs, or super-soft rope. If you’re both dying for more and want to make art with your rope work, get in touch with a professional rigger — a person who has had years of experience in safely tying and binding with a working knowledge of how anatomy plays into the whole thing.

If done incorrectly, super tight or otherwise body-bending bondage can cause serious injury and long-term nerve damage. We recommend staying away from the rougher stuff until you really know what you’re doing and have been supervised by a pro.

What is Domination & Submission?

The big D in BDSM stands for Domination, one of the core aspects of kinky play.

As you might have guessed, someone who identifies as a sexual dominant – referred to as a Dom with a capital D in vernacular – likes to be the person in charge in the bedroom.

The S stands for Submission, and unsurprisingly still, these folks like to be on the receiving end of domination. Some submissives – also called “subs” for short – simply like a partner that enjoys being on top or tying their hands to the bedposts.

Others need something more extreme to get off, like engaging in breath play or being bent over and spanked. Dominants can be just as expansive in their play preferences, and their favorite sex acts can range from using a sex toy on their partner while they writhe in ecstatic orgasm, or tightly cuffing their wrists and ankles and screwing them silly.

No matter how dominant and submissive partners choose to play, consent and proper communication underline everything that goes on from the moment both people decide that their play session, commonly called a “scene”, begins. The key is to only engage in  BDSM play with a partner you can trust and feel comfortable communication exactly how you feel.

Switching During BDSM

Not everyone feels drawn to only one category of BDSM identity. Many lifestylers switch back and forth between dominant and submissive roles, hence the basic term “switch”.

For monogamous kink couples, partners will swap bedroom roles depending on the day of the week, how they’re feeling at the moment, or sometimes all within a single round of sex. For polyamorous couples or those within open relationships, switches might enjoy acting out different BDSM roles with different partners based on their individual sexual chemistry and preferences.

What is Sadism & Masochism?

Now here’s where you might assume things get scary, but again, remember that nothing bad can happen when you play with a partner who listens to your needs and care about your well-being.

sadist – usually the dominant partner – feels sexually turned on by watching their partner squirm and wriggle from the metallic bite of a Whartenberg wheel or the crack of a paddle.

masochist – played by the submissive – gets off by having those sorts of intense acts done to them.

Just like any other part of BDSM, the level of discomfort or pain inflicted is pre-determined by both the Dom and sub before the actual play begins. Lighter forms of masochism and sadism can involve tickling, using a vibrator to tease your partner while they’re tied up, or lightly scratching them with your nails. More extreme forms can involve intense tickling until your partner begs you to stop, turn the vibrator up to its highest setting and ‘forcing’ your partner to orgasm until exhaustion, or scratching your partners back until you draw blood.

Because BDSM play can involve more than just the usual sexual bodily fluids exchanged between genitals – like blood, urine, or anal mucous – it’s imperative that everyone involved gets regular STD tests and discloses their test results with every single partner. The only folks who can get away with a one-off visit to the doctor are fully monogamous couples who remain committed and honest to their partners.

Impact Play

A popular part of BDSM is impact play, which is a fancy term for spanking and slapping.

Impact play can be dialed down or turned up depending on what feels good. There’s a reason that spanking feel good, besides making you feel like a naughty school kid. When you smack or spank any part of your body, whether lightly or with force, blood rises to the skin’s surface, which then intensifies any sort of touch applied afterwards.

To test this fun little theory, give yourself a light (or hard, if you prefer) smack on your arm or leg a couple times, allow the blood to flow into the area, and then use something tactile, like a feather or a hairbrush, to drag over the engorged area. It feels pretty amazing and sensitive, doesn’t it? If you’re not a huge fan of typical spanking fantasies, you can still use this aspect of BDSM play to add another dimension to your sexual sensations.

Research, Learn & Listen

You might not find these terms so specific to BDSM alone, but they’re the most important parts of keeping all partners safe while you’re exploring this exciting new addition to your sex life.

Even with the best of intentions, BDSM can turn right back into a scary Hollywood scenario if you become overconfident in your skills. Before you and partner engage in any BDSM play, scour the internet for real-life advice on how to safely dip your feet into the pool of kink.

You might also want to see out a local “munch”, a casual lunch meet-up where BDSM lifestylers of various skill sets can ask questions and learn from their peers’ experiences. And most of all, never get so involved in a scene that you forget to check in with your partner. Always make sure that they’re feeling aroused, comfortable, and safe!


What is BDSM really about? Your Guide to Debunking the Scary Stories Behind This Fun Way to Play originally appeared on Rumble & Buzz

The Scandal Collection by CalExotics

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The Scandal Collection features bold erotic accessories perfect for couples looking to experiment with restraint play or stylish fetishists looking to indulge in designer desires.

Scandal sets itself apart with the use of top-quality designer brocade fabric that looks and feels rich and luxurious.


Scandal Wide Open Mouth Gag

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Surrender to your naughtiest fantasies and open yourself up to pleasure with the wide-open gag rings and double padded designer straps. While the sensational open mouth ring ignites primal passion, each unrestrained moan will enhance pleasure and intensify arousal for everyone involved.

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Luxury pleasure play is at your fingertips with two interchangeable non-tarnishing, nickel-free iron rings and double padded designer straps. Dive deep into adventurous desire and indulge in your most erotic fantasies with this sensationally bold gag.

 

Scandal Hidden Pleasures Ball Gag

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Surrender to your naughtiest fantasies as you secure the pliable gag and designer brocade straps around you. The pliable bite ball delivers primal passion to your bedroom, while each muffled moan enhances pleasure and intensifies arousal for everyone involved.

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Luxury pleasure play is at your fingertips with the plush, medical grade silicone and double padded designer straps. Dive deep into adventurous desire and indulge in your most erotic fantasies with this sensationally comfortable ball gag.

 

Scandal Round Double Paddle

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For the nights you’re feeling extra naughty, indulge in the indulgent taps of the Scandal Round Double Paddle.

Effortlessly plant stinging taps on your submissive with the plush dual layer paddle and sturdy handle. Punishment and pleasure go hand in hand with the dual paddle with an edgy leatherette interior and silky brocade exterior.

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The sub in your life will love each stinging spank of this sturdy double stitched paddle and obey your every command as the dual paddle delivers powerful clapping slaps.

The plush paddle is designed for both beginners and experienced erotic lovers to try out gentle taps for anyone looking to explore or plant breathtaking slaps that experienced fetishists crave. Unleash naughty desires and enjoy an evening of uninhibited pleasure play.

 

Scandal Blackout Eye Mask

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The versatile Scandal Blackout Eye Mask is the perfect blindfold for any adventurer looking to explore sensory play or enjoy a great night’s rest.

Give yourself over to your lover’s every desire and enhance sensation every time you slip on this designer brocade mask. The soft double layer mask creates a total blackout experience to heighten sensitivity, elevate arousal and intensify pleasure.

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The travel size design makes this the perfect accessory for sexy adventures wherever you go or to make sure you sleep soundly after those sensual nights. The thick elastic strap keeps this luxury mask in place through playtime or sleep.

 

Scandal Come Closer BJ Strap

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Scandal Come Closer BJ Strap pushes deep penetration even further and lets you explore new angles of pleasure. Strap in for the ride of your life with this multi-talented love sling. Perfect for season fetishists or blushing beginners, the designer fabric, plushy lining and adjustable handles thoughtfully combine comfortable with desire.

For any naughty night, this versatile strap can be used for deep penetration or finding just the angle for knee-shaking pleasure.

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The multi-use strap lets your lover take full control of your pleasure and allows them to effortlessly pull you into any position they like. Give yourself to your lover’s exotic whims by slipping into the designer harness and experiment with passionate power play.

 

Scandal Universal Cuffs

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The soft and plushy Scandal Universal Cuffs are covered in high-quality brocade fabric for a truly luxurious bondage experience.

The cuffs are totally adjustable and come complete with Velcro style closures that can be used on wrists and ankles.

The universal clasps and nickel-free iron rings allow for endless creativity. Clasp the cuffs to each other and strain against their hold as your lover pleases you. Clamp them to the bed posts and embrace the bliss of totally relinquished control over your pleasure. Use two sets and let your lover render you totally helpless as they clasp your arms to your ankles and have their way with you.

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These are perfect for beginners and seasoned bondage lovers alike. Incorporate other toys and teases or keep things simple and experiment with being in total control for the first time. Whatever your tastes, take your fantasies to the next level.

 

Scandal Control Cuffs

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Embrace your adventurous side and relinquish control—or command it—with the Scandal Control Cuffs. These beautifully designed red and black brocade cuffs set themselves apart with top-quality designer fabric that inspires release of the darkest, naughtiest desires.

They boast a soft, plushy, and padded fabric to keep you or your submissive comfortable as they quiver and writhe under your caress. The cuffs are also incredibly flexible and allow for total creativity: Bind either wrists or ankles and delight in the sight of your lover restrained and ready to please.

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These are designed for perfect leverage and deep penetration, ensuring that your lover has perfect access to your most sensitive spots behind your bound legs. The center support strap is fully adjustable and comes with a universal buckle to keep you or your lover firmly restrained.

Keep legs or ankles as close together or far apart as you wish for full access to your favorite spots to touch, tickle, and kiss. Explore your naughtiest desires and unleash your inner dominant or submissive tonight.

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