POWER PLAY FOR COUPLES: BDSM & Role Playing Practices

A Sexpert Panel hosted by Loveology University

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Panelists Are:

Viloshni Moodley, Dr. Ava Cadell, Tamara Bell, Josh Ortiz, Dr. Patsy Evans & Jason Denis, Sunny Megatron, Autumn Nicole

What You Can Expect:

The Sexpert Panel will talk candidly, as if you were meeting face to face over drinks and discuss fully and openly the most intimate details of topics you are interested in.

Best of all, renowned Sexperts will share their wisdom to help ease your concerns, lower your inhibitions and transport you to sexual empowerment..

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One lucky attendee will be chosen to win our sponsor’s (XR Brands) adult pleasure product basket. A winner will be chosen at random at the end of the event. You must be in attendance to claim the prize.

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How to Expand Retail Sales With BDSM Essentials

These days, BDSM is more popular than ever, and with so many products to choose from, some adult retailers can feel overwhelmed figuring out what kind of kinky stuff to stock in their stores. And while everyone starts somewhere, it’s essential to sell more than simply beginner-level gear — because a beginner only stays a beginner for so long! Today we’re going to talk about stocking your shop to satisfy all experience and curiosity levels and maybe even help your “vanilla” customers explore their kinky sides!

Start with the basics

Let’s be honest, some BDSM items are tried-and-true basics that would be right at home in any sex shop or lingerie boutique. You probably already have them in stock! These would include blindfolds and sensory play items like feather ticklers. And who doesn’t love fur handcuffs? While we’re talking restraints, sets that easily turn any bed into a sexy home dungeon-like restraint systems appeal to a wide range of shoppers.

Mix it up

We’ve covered the basics, and now it’s time to add a bit more variety. Nipple play implements as well as ball gags are easy additions to any store and make it easy for shoppers to level up their sensory play game. Add in some harnesses, sex swings and sensory play items that are higher quality and made to last well into users’ exploration journeys. Plus, displayed together with some creative mannequin placement, these items make an incredibly eye-catching BDSM display!

When shoppers are exploring something new, kits allow them to try out several items in one purchase, an ideal choice for folks on a budget. Keep a few kits on hand to help your shoppers explore.

Take It to the Next Level

Now it’s time to consider stocking larger BDSM pieces as well as items that cater to specific fetishes, such as items for shoppers who are interested in puppy play. These types of products help you hold on to your customers when they are ready to take their BDSM play to the next level and cater to a range of interests and curiosities in order to accommodate all the kinky folks in your community.

If You Stock It, They Will Come

Lots of folks find the things they like and stick with them. That’s why it can be daunting for a shop with a more “vanilla” type of clientele to set about building a selection of BDSM offerings. But by keeping a healthy stock of BDSM basics on hand from as many kinky categories as you can, you can give your customers the opportunity to learn and explore — something they’ll appreciate. Shoppers who, in the past, may have felt the need to brave a completely different kind of establishment to satisfy their BDSM curiosities will be able to start their experimentation in a shop they are already comfortable with, and you will get to keep your customers coming back for more.

How to Expand Retail Sales With BDSM Essentials by Rebecca Weinberg originally appeared in XBIZ

Booty Sparks 7X Light-Up Rechargeable Plug by XR Brands

Put on a sexy backdoor light show!

The Booty Sparks 7X Light Up Rechargeable Anal Plug nestles between your cheeks and buzzes your booty with seven modes of powerful vibration, pulsation, and escalation.

Once activated, the gold-toned base changes to five different LED light colors that flash out a psychedelic sequence, with three speeds of strobing to choose from.

Use the remote control to conveniently cycle through settings for both vibration and light functions or hand the power over to your partner.

A classic tapered tip and silky-smooth silicone allow for a comfortable insertion.

This is a great plug for a kinky raver or anyone who wants to bend over in the dark and surprise their partner.

Preserve the high-grade, phthalate-free material by avoiding use with silicone lubricants and cleaning with your favorite toy cleaner.

The USB rechargeable Booty Sparks 7X Light Up Rechargeable Anal Plug is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

Features:

  • Silicone plug with light-up base
  • Tapered tip
  • Flared base for safety
  • 7 Vibration modes
  • Light-up LED base with 5 colors and 3 strobe patterns
  • Remote control for easy use
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – cable included
  • 30 Day Warranty provided by XR brands
  • Silicone and ABS
  • Small – 3.7” (3” insertable) x 1.4” at widest point
  • Medium 4.1” (3.4” insertable) x 1.6” at widest point
  • Large 4.5” (4” insertable) x 1.8” at widest point

Enema Play 101: Top Tips for Beginners

 

Frankly put: enemas are essential for those who want to clean out before backdoor play. For some, they are the main event. Increasingly popular in the BDSM scene, anal douching can be a sensual turn-on for both the giver and receiver, but douching kits found in local drugstores won’t cut it for intense anal stimulation.

Luckily, there are now a wide variety of enema devices made specifically for pleasure. Before we get the advanced stuff, let’s make sure we have the basics down.

How do enemas work?

The process of giving an enema involves putting warm water in the rectum and working it into the lower intestine to help empty the bowels. It’s recommended that the liquid be held inside the body between five and 30 minutes to give it a chance to soften the stool, and most choose to empty the water on the toilet for obvious reasons.

What are the benefits of anal douching?

Sometimes enemas are performed for medical reasons, to clean out before anal play, or purely for pleasure. When it comes to enemas and sex, one of the most common reasons people do it is to prepare for ass play. It isn’t always necessary to douche before anal, but some people feel more comfortable taking steps to minimize the potential for mess.

Using an enema before anal play can also help the receiver prepare for larger things to come: as it fills with water, the rectum gently relaxes and expands. This feeling of fullness is the precise reason why some people find it so arousing. Packed with nerve endings, the anus is a sexually sensitive area, and pressure in the rectum can stimulate other areas, too, like the prostate or G-spot.

Anal douching is often regarded as taboo, which also can be a turn on, and it puts the receiver in a vulnerable position both physically and emotionally. These aspects make it a natural fit for BDSM. Add to that the immense potential for power-play and humiliation and douching becomes the perfect kinky activity.

Beginner enemas

For those just starting out or looking for a gentler experience, a basic anal douching kit is all that’s required. Certain enema products include a pump and hose nozzle for extra precision and control, as well as bubble nozzle that has holes around the tip for extra-deep cleaning.

Advanced enemas

For those looking for a deeper clean, some enemas can be attached to a shower to supply an endless stream of water straight from the source. Additionally, specialty plugs, such as those that are hollow or inflatable, can provide a feeling of fullness.

Enema tips and safety

Most common types of enemas use plain water or salt water (two tablespoons of salt per liter of water). Temperature is important. Too cold and the water could cause intestinal cramps, too hot may scald the intestines. Make sure the water is slightly above body temperature (no more than about 105 degrees) and never forced in. Occasionally, people use different types of liquid like milk, coffee, or alcohol. This is not recommended. It can be risky and have dire health consequences because the absorption rate through the colon is accelerated.

The most comfortable position for receiving an enema is on the back with knees bent toward the chest or on the hands and knees. These positions help straighten out the natural curve in the colon to make entry easier. It is also important to have a bathroom nearby because the urge to release can come on strong and quick.

Whether used strictly for hygiene purposes or for added pleasure, more people are into anal douching than one might expect, and there’s a huge selection of tools and accessories out there to recommend. Always remember to ask customers what their intended uses are and be prepared to suggest something beyond the basic bulb. Enema kits designed for pleasure can make getting clean deliciously dirty!

Enema Play 101: Top Tips for Beginners By Rebecca Weinberg originally appeared in XBIZ

Wonder Vibes Poseable Dual Density Liquid Silicone Vibrators by XR Brands

The gold standard of pleasure!

Experience the luxurious sensation of liquid silicone: the velvety outer texture of traditional silicone with a softer plush inner density. Gold ABS accents add a decadent appeal.

Each vibrator in the line contains a posable spine that allows the user to contour the insertable portion to their ideal shape for maximum comfort and satisfaction. These rechargeable vibes are powerful and ready to please with thrilling modes of vibration!

Available in 3 styles:

  • The Bendable Silicone Vibe offers a textured shaft and bulbous head
  • The Bendable Silicone Rabbit Vibe adds on a rabbit stimulator
  • The Bendable Silicone Clit Stimulating Vibe has a triple flickering tongues in the stimulator

Prepare yourself for the gold standard of pleasure with Wonder Vibes!

 

Wonder Vibes 7X Bendable Silicone Vibe

Wonderful, bendy, squishy and textured for pleasure!

The Wonder Vibes 7X Bendable Silicone Vibe adds a little flexibility to your self-love session – the bendable design makes it easy to bend and pose this vibe to your preferred shape.

Experiment with a different curve to explore every corner of your insides, perfect for solo use and excellent for communicative partner play.

Play and please with the powerful vibration modes included with each Wonder Vibe – flip between 3 speeds and 4 patterns of buzzing bliss with the ergonomic, easy-to-reach controls on the base of the shaft. The IPX7 waterproof build makes playtime in the shower easy and hassle free! End your days with a hot shower and your new bendy friend and say goodbye to the weight of the day.

Made with ultra-plush, phthalate free body-safe silicone that is soft, squeezable and goes nicely with the flexible nature of this vibe. Rechargeable via included usb cable so you can play without worrying about batteries. Use with water based lubricants only, avoid use with silicone based lubes to prolong the life of your new Wonder Vibe.

The USB rechargeable Bendable Silicone Vibe is rated IPX7 waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

Features:

  • Dual stimulator
  • Dual density liquid silicone
  • Bendable and poseable spine
  • Textured shaft
  • Bulbous head
  • 3 Speeds and 4 vibration patterns
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • 30 Day warranty provided by XR Brands
  • Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • 8.3” (5” insertable) x 1.3” at widest point

 

Wonder Vibes 7X Bendable Silicone Rabbit Vibe

The Rabbit Vibe with a twist!

Bend and conform the exciting Bendable Silicone Rabbit Vibrator however your like – find your preferred shape for peak personal pleasure and treat yourself to a buzzing, blended orgasm.

The powerful dual motors in the shaft and clitoral stimulator are sure to please and easy to control, so you can focus on finding that big O.

Stimulate your clitoris and your g-spot with powerful vibration settings – flip between 3 speeds and 4 patterns of buzzing bliss on both the shaft and rabbit stimulator with the ergonomic, easy-to-reach controls on the base of the shaft.

Made with ultra-plush phthalate free body-safe silicone that is soft, squeezable and goes nicely with the flexible nature of this vibe. Rechargeable via included USB cable so you can play without worrying about batteries. Use with water-based lubricants only, avoid use with silicone based lubes to prolong the life of your new Wonder Vibe.

The USB rechargeable Bendable Silicone Rabbit Vibrator is rated IPX7 waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

Features:

  • Dual stimulator
  • Dual density liquid silicone
  • Bendable and poseable spine
  • Textured shaft
  • Bulbous head
  • Rabbit external stimulator
  • 3 Speeds and 4 vibration patterns
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • 30 Day warranty provided by XR Brands
  • Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • 8.3” (5.5” insertable) x 1.3” at widest point

 

Wonder Vibes 7X Bendable Silicone Clit Stimulating Vibe

Curve the Wonder Vibes 7X Bendable Silicone Clit Stimulating Vibe however you like – position the shaft to your preferred shape for maximum internal pleasure and indulge yourself with the powerful clitoral stimulator for the intense blended orgasm you deserve!

Stimulate your clitoris and your g-spot with the powerful vibration settings – flip between 3 speeds and 4 patterns of buzzing bliss with the ergonomic, easy-to-reach controls on the base of the shaft to choose the best way to play with your insides and your outsides.

Made with ultra-plush phthalate free, body safe silicone that is soft, squeezable and goes nicely with the flexible nature of this vibe. Rechargeable via included USB cable so you can play without worrying about batteries. Use with water based lubricants only, avoid use with silicone based lubes to prolong the life of your new Wonder Vibe.

The USB rechargeable Bendable Silicone Clit Stimulating Vibe is rated IPX7 waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

Features:

  • Dual stimulator
  • Dual density liquid silicone
  • Bendable and poseable spine
  • Textured shaft
  • Bulbous head
  • Triple tongue external stimulator
  • 3 Speeds and 4 vibration patterns
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • 30 Day warranty provided by XR Brands
  • Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • 8.3” (5.5” insertable) x 1.3” at widest point

Frisky Heart Kits by XR Brands

The Frisky Heart Kits are an approachable line of entry-level bondage and pleasure toys packaged in adorable heart-shaped candy box style packaging.

Flirtatious and light, this collection invites the curious to experiment with their fantasies.

The Frisky Heart Kits allow sex to be playful, thrilling, and adventurous, introducing a variety of new bedroom ideas with welcoming packaging and excellent price points.

Each kit has its own theme:

Passion Heart Kit includes everything you need for a night of passion is included in this heart shaped box: nipple clamps with heart shaped weights, a powerful multi-speed vibrator, a buzzing cock ring, and a silicone butt plug.

Passion Deluxe Kit brings your pleasure to new heights with a powerful buzzing mini massager, curved silicone rabbit vibe, metal Pink Heart butt plug, and stretchy cock ring.

Passion Fetish Kit indulges in the dark side and includes lockable fuzzy hand cuffs, a satin blindfold, a pokey devil pinwheel, and a faux suede flogger.

Sexual exploration is exciting and accessible with these Frisky Kits!

 

Frisky Passion Heart Gift Set

Gift yourself and your lover with this Passionate set of delights!

Everything you need for a night of passion is included in this heart shaped box: nipple clamps with heart shaped weights, a powerful multi-speed vibrator, a buzzing cock ring, and a silicone butt plug are waiting for you and a lover to explore and enjoy! Perfect for gifting and sexual exploration for Valentine’s day, birthdays or any other special occasion with your lover!

Explore backdoor pleasure and decorate your lover’s booty with the silky smooth Heart Gem Butt Plug. The narrow neck and tapered tip make it easy to insert and comfortable to wear for extended sessions – perfect for warming up the backdoor for further fun!

The powerful multi-speed vibe is sleek, smooth, and versatile! Use solo or with a partner, this travel-ready vibrator is an essential everyone needs in their bedroom. Perfect for all skill levels and most situations that call for some extra stimulation!

The included cock ring is made with stretchy and soft TPR to fit most shaft sizes, while the tantalizing vibrating ring stimulates both partners. Designed for one time use, with a 25-30 minute vibration time – perfect for beginners looking to add an extra buzz to their intercourse without breaking the bank!

The included nipple clamps feature heart locket danglers, providing a subtle weight and downward pull to your nipples when clamped on. Adjust the intensity from a gentle squeeze to an intense pinch with the easy-to-use adjustment screws! Nipple play lovers will love the vinyl tips and durable nickel-free metal build – Clamp on during foreplay and feel the weights pull with every movement!

Use with water based lubricants only.

Vibrator Measurements: Total length 5.25 inches, 4 inches insertable length, 1 inch widest diameter

Heart Silicone Anal Plug MEasurements: Total length 3 inches, 2.5 inches insertable length, 1 inch at widest diameter

Vibrating Cock Ring Measurements: 1.3 inches in diameter

Nipple Clamp Measurements: 4 inches in length, opens to 0.5 inches wide

Materials: Silicone, vinyl, ABS Plastic, TPR and metal

 

Frisky Passion Heart Deluxe Kit

This Passion Deluxe Kit features 4 powerful ways to play!

Explore your sexuality and bring your pleasure to new heights with this collection of vibes and fill: a powerful buzzing mini massager, curved silicone rabbit vibe, metal Pink Heart butt plug, and stretchy cock ring. Use each toy in combination or one at a time! This Deluxe kit is perfect for gifting yourself or others, surprise your lover during a weekend of passion with a kit designed to elevate your intimate moments.

The curved, velvety smooth silicone rabbit vibe is designed for simultaneous stimulation of the female G-spot and clitoris! Perfect for solo use, but also great with a partner – choose from 3 speeds and 7 patterns of vibration to tease and please. Rechargeable and the perfect blend of flexibility and firmness to suit most skill levels.

Buzz your partners favorite spots with the intense mini massager – built for precision buzzing pleasure, with 4 different attachments to change the texture of vibration! Tickle and titilate your lovers weak spots to increase their sensitivity to touch, perfect for use during intercourse!

The Pink Heart Gem but plug is made with nickel free metal, providing a satisfyingly hard mass for your booty to squeeze on! The heart shaped gem decorates your backdoor, adding a dazzling sparkle for your partner to enjoy – the tapered tip and narrow neck make it easy to insert and comfortable to wear for extended periods. Perfect for warming up your hole for further anal fun.

The soft, stretchy cock ring comes equipped with a powerful bullet vibe to vibe and stimulate your lovers clitoris during intercourse! The flexible TPR ring fits most shaft widths and stays comfortable during wear, slightly restricting bloodflow to increase erection hardness and duration. Designed for one time use, perfect for beginners to explore their sexuality without breaking the bank.

The gift box will make any occasion special with the heart shaped box. Perfect for Valenitnes day, anniversaries, birthdays and more!

Mini Massager Measurements: Overall length 4 inches

Pink Heart Metal Butt Plug Measurements: Overall length 2.8 inches, insertable length 2.2 inches, widest insertable diameter 1 inch

Cock Ring Measurements: 1.3 inch diameter

Rabbit Vibe Measurements: Overall length 7.4 inches, insertable length 3.8 inches, widest insertable diameter 1.2 inches

Materials: Silicone, ABS plastic, aluminum alloy, and TPR

 

Frisky Passion Fetish Kit

Begin your kinky adventure and explore the fetishes you’ve been dreaming of!

Everything you need to indulge in the dark side is included in this Passion Fetish Kit: lockable fuzzy hand cuffs, a satin blindfold, a pokey devil pinwheel, and a faux suede flogger. Perfect for gifting others or treating yourself – take this kit with you for a weekend of passion and fulfill your craving for light bondage and BDSM.

Put your partner in their place with the included flogger! Soft and lush, designed to strike against the meaty parts of your lover to provide just the right amount of sting to get their sexual engines revving! The wrist strap keeps it in your hand for safety, and the small size makes it great for beginners.

Restrain your lover in comfortable pink fuzz cuffs! Lock them in and have your way with the rest of their body – these comfy cuffs come with 2 keys and a built-in safety release just in case. Combine these fuzzy cuffs with the included blindfold for even more fun!

The Satin Blindfold is soft and smooth, with 2 elastic straps to fit most head sizes. Slip this on your partner and increase their sensitivity to sensation – blind, bind, and flog your lover with ease!

The rolling, poking Devil Pinwheel works perfectly with the other items in this kit – once your lover is cuffed, blinded, and restrained, roll the pins of this wheel over their sensitive areas! Relish the squirms of your partner as you roll over sensitive spots like the inner thighs, the curve of their hip, and wherever else they like it.

The kit will make any occasion special with the heart shaped box. Perfect for Valentine’s Day, anniversaries, birthdays and more!

Flogger Measurements: Total length 20.5 inches

Fuzzy Cuffs Measurements: 11 inches total length, adjusts from 5.5 to 7 inches in wrist circumference

Satin Blindfold Measurements: 7.25 inches in length, 3 inches in height

Devil Pinwheel Measurements: 3.1 inches overall length, 1 inch wheel diameter

Materials: Metal, fabric, ABS Plastic, PU Leather

Whisperz Collection by XR Brands

Your voice never felt so sexy!

Pleasure your partner with the sound of your voice or the press of a button! Powerful vibrations and smooth body-safe material make this the perfect tool to enhance your passion.

The Whisperz Vibrating Egg, Butt Plug, and Prostate Plug are all made with premium materials and designed for kinky remote play at home or in public.

Each style includes a wireless remote control that’s equipped with a microphone, allowing you to activate the powerful vibrations with your voice or music from up to twenty-five feet away!

 

Whisperz Voice Activated 10X Vibrating Butt Plug with Remote Control

Whisper sweet pleasure into your partners booty with the Whisperz Voice Activated 10X Vibrating Butt Plug.

Made with premium materials and designed for kinky remote play at home or in public, the included wireless remote control is equipped with a microphone, allowing you to activate the powerful vibrations with your voice from up to twenty-five feet away.

Need to play discretely? Every function of this sneaky butt plug can be alternatively controlled with buttons instead of your voice if you need to keep things quiet.

Insert this plug, take a short walk around town and hand over the power to your partner to experience an unexpected jolt of pleasure form your lover when you least expect it. Choose from ten modes of vibration to buzz your partner’s booty.

The embedded microphone not only works with your voice, it works with loud music too! Place the remote control near some speakers and play music to match your partners booty pleasure.

The tapered tip and plush build make this Whisperz butt plug easy to insert and comfortable for extended play. Compatible with water-based lubricants, avoid use with silicone lubes to prolong the life of your Whisperz voice activated butt plug.

The USB rechargeable Whisperz Voice Activated 10X Vibrating Butt Plug is rated IPX5 waterproof for easy care and cleanup.

Features:

  • Butt plug with voice-activated vibrations
  • Tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Plush build for extended play
  • 10 Modes of vibration
  • Voice-activated remote control
  • Also works with music
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • 30 Day warranty provided by XR Brands
  • Silicone and ABS
  • 5.1” (4.2” insertable) x 1.7” at widest point

 

Whisperz Voice Activated 10X Vibrating Prostate Plug with Remote Control

This exciting Whisperz prostate plug is designed for unpredictable remote partner play with its cutting-edge voice activated technology. The included wireless controller lets you or your lover please your prostate with little more than a whisper from up to 25 feet away.

This vibrating plug is perfectly shaped for peak prostate pleasure – slightly curved with a mild bulb to directly stimulate the P-spot while providing a satisfying fill for you to squeeze on. Choose from 10 patterns of vibration powered by your voice or ambient sounds.

Need to play with a little discretion? All functions can be controlled with the buttons instead of microphone if you want to tease your partner in secret. Insert and take a walk around the neighborhood or use in the comfort of your own home for voice activated prostate pleasure wherever you want.

This voice activated prostate plug can also be activated with loud music. Place the remote control near your speakers and play some tunes appropriate for a proper prostate milking!

Made with phthalate free, velvety smooth silicone for a body safe and luxurious feel. IPX5 waterproof for ease of cleaning before and after use and shower friendly play!

The USB rechargeable Whisperz Voice Activated 10X Vibrating Prostate Plug is rated IPX5 waterproof for easy care and cleanup.

Features:

  • Prostate plug with voice-activated vibrations
  • Tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Curved to easily hit the prostate
  • 10 Modes of vibration
  • Voice-activated remote control
  • Also works with music
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • 30 Day warranty provided by XR Brands
  • Silicone and ABS
  • 5.2” (4.4” insertable) x 1.5” at widest point

 

Whisperz Voice Activated 10X Vibrating Egg with Remote Control

This Vibrating Egg from Whisperz comes equipped with voice-activated technology so you can tease your partner with powerful vibration from up to 25 feet away. Tease and please your lover in public or in the comfort of your own home with this discreet Whisperz egg vibe.

Place the compact vibrator in your panties and take a walk around your home or your neighborhood if you dare! Hand over the power to your partner to buzz your sensitive bits with their voice for kinky public fun or unpredictable pleasure at home. Choose from 10 patterns of vibration with the remote control and find what gets your partners toes curling!

This sound-activated egg also reacts to loud music. Plant the remote control near your speakers and turn up your tunes to buzz your lover with some blissful beats!

The USB rechargeable Whisperz Voice Activated 10X Vibrating Egg is rated IPX5 waterproof for easy care and cleanup.

Features:

  • Vibrating Egg
  • Gently rounded for comfort
  • Retrieval stem acts as an antennae
  • 10 Modes of vibration
  • Voice-activated remote control
  • Also works with music
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • 30 Day warranty provided by XR Brands
  • Silicone and ABS
  • 6.2” (4” insertable) x 1.3” at widest point

Booty Sparks Glitter Gem Acrylic Training Plug Set by XR Brands

This set of smooth, solid, Booty Sparks Glitter Gem Anal Plugs features a shiny glittery pattern and faceted round base to decorate your booty while you play!

The three plugs are tapered and slim, and graduate in size from small to large for easy training – perfect for beginners and experts alike.

Start off easy with the smallest size and get your backdoor familiar with this new sensation. The tapered tip and slender body make the smallest size the best way to introduce yourself to the world of anal play without any discomfort. Upgrade to medium and large when you are ready and at your own pace.

Choose the size that matches your comfort level and surprise your lover when you pull your pants down with this dazzling anal gem!

Features:

  • Anal training set
  • 3 Plugs in graduated sizes
  • Glitter-infused non-porous acrylic for extra shine and durability
  • Wide base with gem-like facets
  • Durable, shatterproof and easy to clean
  • 30-Day warranty provided by XR Brands
  • Small: 3.2” (2.6” insertable) x 1.1” at widest point
  • Medium: 3.7” (3” insertable) x 1.3” at widest point
  • Large: 4.4” (3.7” insertable) x 1.5” at widest point

A Look at Sensation Play Essential Items

We have sex because we enjoy the physical sensations it evokes. So why isn’t all sex considered sensation play? Sensation play includes a wide variety of specific activities designed to put the body into erotic sensory overdrive. This type of play can be a great introduction to BDSM and can also be tailored to those that fall more on the vanilla end of the spectrum.

What is Sensation Play?

There is a bit of an art to successful sensation play. It involves exploration of the entire body as opposed to only the genitals. Awakening erogenous zones often passed over during lovemaking are key factors in achieving toe-curling results. It is crucial to concentrate on areas like the soft underside of the arms and thighs, the stomach, neck and feet.

Which tools you use and in what specific combination can also make or break a sensation play session. Opposing feelings like hot and cold, smooth and rough, or soft and sharp are best at awakening the senses. It’s also important to warm up the receiving partner as opposed to using something too harsh too soon. Carefully control your play so it raises your partner’s adrenaline and endorphins at a gradual pace.

Sensation play can stand alone or be incorporated into a scene with other kinks like bondage or sensory deprivation. In fact, these two complementary activities are recommended, as they also help ignite the senses.

Sensory Deprivation & Bondage

A simple eye cover can help you get the most out of sensation play. When the ability to see is removed, the remaining senses are magnified. It makes a simple touch, sound, smell, or taste feel new and unfamiliar as if it’s being experienced for the first time. This can bring about an explosion of unanticipated erotic reactions. Bondage can have this same effect. Having our hands and/or feet restrained with bondage tape or a basic cuff set interferes with our body’s reaction to stimuli. We may naturally respond to an unexpected touch by instinctively pulling away. When we’re not able to do that, it can kick arousal into high gear.

Sensual Sensation Play

Temperature manipulation is a great introduction to sensation play. It’s also ideal for those that aren’t particularly into kink but are curious to experiment. Glass insertables can double as temperature tools that can be used on any part of the body. Set a glass toy in warm water for five to 10 minutes. Rubbing and rolling it all over the body can feel like a hot stone massage.

Alternate the warm dildo with touches from a glass toy that has been sitting in the refrigerator. The quick switch from hot to cold is particularly intoxicating when used on nipples, inner thighs or stomach.

Advanced Sensation Play

A Wartenberg wheel should be in everyone’s naughty toolkit. One of the most common sensation play items, this spiky wheel can take you from playful to intense depending on how you use it. Place it in the refrigerator or cold water and run the flat end over your lover’s body for an icy, sexy chill. When you’re ready to turn up the heat, roll the prickly end along their skin for a sensually biting surprise.

Although sensation play is most often related to skin sensations, you don’t have to stop there. In addition to using touch tools, you might opt to add in taste. Sweet, decadent foods like strawberries, chocolate and honey can be alternated with bitter lemon. Similarly, soy massage candle not only provides a pleasant smell, it can be used for a hot oil massage or hot wax play, too.

Sensation play involves more than just using a few sexy toys. The goal is applying a number of tools with opposing effects in succession to gradually ignite the senses. Creatively thinking outside the box and finding alternate uses for toys is important, too. You want to leave your partner’s body and mind eagerly wondering what’s next. Done properly, sensation play will give your lover goosebumps and send them into an unforgettable erotic frenzy.

 

A Look at Sensation Play Essential Items by Rebecca Weinberg originally appeared in XBIZ

Remote-Control Toys: Past, Present and Future

 

Technologically speaking, the sex toys of 2020 are bringing more to the table than ever before. It seems every time we turn around there is a new cool feature available. With all these bells, whistles and enhancements, some features stand apart from all the others because they literally change the way we engage with, experience and enjoy the toy. One of the biggest game-changers in recent sex toy history is the remote control.

Remote-control toys have changed the face of solo and partnered play and introduced the world to entirely new ways to engage sexually. Today we’re going to take a look how these once-low-tech toys have advanced to become the fun, erotic connection tools they are today.

What’s so great about remote-control toys?

We’re talking about vibrators that are equipped with a remote control and operated without having to come in contact with the toy itself. One may opt to use a remote-control toy during solo play because it offers the ability to change settings without interrupting playtime, especially when the product is difficult to grab hold of or is located in an orifice that’s just out of reach.

What really puts remote-control toys on the map is their ability to let partners control each other’s toys. This is where it gets fun!

The evolution of the remote-control toys

The earliest remote-control toys were corded with a wire running from the controller to the vibrator. As technology evolved, newer remote-control toys brought us separate, battery-powered remote controls without wires, which allowed another partner to easily toggle through speeds and functions. Now, remote controllers are rechargeable with many even equipped with a vibrating motor, making the remote a toy unto itself.

How remote-control toys can up your sex game

1 – So easy to use! Let’s be honest, there are some toys that — love them though we may — get complicated to control during use. Remote controls allow users to place their toy and then control it without having to reach down or fiddle around for it. This has been a game changer for anal toys but also allows for a hand-free experience with toys or a mess-free, uninterrupted intercourse experience with a strapless strap-on.

2 – Take them to the limit! Uncorded remote-control toys transformed couples play by creating the opportunity for one partner to control the other’s stimulation. For many this has allowed for some super-sexy power dynamic play where the partner “in charge” controls the remote and their partner’s pleasure experience. Uncorded remote-control toys let users tease, tantalize, and even torment their partner.

3 – Stay connected! As remote-control toys have evolved, so has the capability to control them from further and further distances. These days there are toys that allow users to control a toy from across the room, or, in the case of app-based controls, across the country allowing for long-distance play.

4 – Keep it discreet! Want to discreetly play in public? Remote controls can make it happen! Panty vibes and butt plugs alike allow users to engage in inconspicuous play time anywhere — both solo or with a partner!

Put the right remote in your customers’ hands

With all of these fantastic options, how do you help your customers find exactly what they are looking for? The answer is to ask a few key questions to help them zero in on the remote-operated pleasure product that best fits their needs and budget:

1- What type of toy? Clitoral vibe, anal plug, vibrator, prostate stimulator, or something else? There’s more than one way to enjoy remote pleasure!

2- How do they want to use it? Are they using it on their own or do they have a partner? If with a partner, will they be right next to each other? Or playing from across the room – or across the country? And don’t forget to remind them of all the fun playing-in-public products that are out there!

3 – How should it be powered? This mostly depends on budget! Corded remote-control products tend to be lower-priced so be sure to ask about price ranges. Battery-operated wireless remotes are the next level up and, if shoppers can afford them, rechargeable wireless remotes with a wide usage range will give them the most versatility of them all.

Remote controls have changed the sex toy game and with a little knowledge and patience you can help your shoppers use them to change their own personal sex game!

 

Remote-Control Toys: Past, Present and Future by Rebecca Weinberg originally appeared on XBIZ