Many people aspire to make self-care a priority among their health and wellness goals. Manicures, face masks and shopping sprees sure are glamorous, but let’s face it, these habits can be quite expensive, and the effects are often short-lived — whomp whomp.
For me, the ultimate self-care ritual is masturbation. The beauty of it is that I don’t have to rely on anyone, it makes me feel f-ing amazing, and best of all, it’s free! Now let me tell you all about why you, too, should be incorporating masturbation into your #SelfCareSunday or any day!
Better Orgasms
This may be the most obvious reason: masturbation can lead to better orgasms! It’s true! When I first started to experiment sexually, I struggled to climax during sex. A few years and partners later, my current partner and now hubby encouraged me to masturbate more often to identify my pleasure points. WOW, did this make all the difference! Not only did I figure out the things that really turn me on and make me wet, but I was also finally able to locate my G-spot!! Hallelujah! And this has led to hotter, more frequent orgasms for yours truly 😉
Less Stress
Even with how much I get freaky in the bedroom, I still manage to get stressed out when there’s a crisis at work or issues at home. When I start to feel my stress levels rising, I make sure to carve out 15 to 30 minutes of the day to get horny AF and pleasure myself. Whether I’m slowly caressing my body with my fingertips or thrusting with my favorite Jack-Rabbit vibrator, I always feel an immediate sense of calm and well-being wash over me. Trust me and give it a try the next time you’re feeling a bit stressed — I can assure you that not only can masturbation blow your mind, it literally does wonders for your mental state!
Better Sleep
Not to get all scientific on you, but research has shown that orgasms can lead to better sleep due to the release of various hormones. Can anyone remember a satisfying late-night hook-up when you then slept like a rock afterward?! Well, that’s your hormones in action! I started masturbating as part of my #SelfCareSunday routine to see if it would improve my night’s sleep and boy has it been life-changing. Better sleep = a happier and healthier Miranda!
Confidence
Let’s not forget the most important reason of all — confidence! My sex life became so much more fulfilling and adventurous once I started to maintain a positive self-image. Learning the intricacies of my body through touch and exploration has led to a level of self-confidence that I never freaking imagined a few years ago! Try caressing your nipples, stroking your clit or stimulating your G-spot to find out exactly what your body can do. Now LMFAO fans, sing it with me… “I’m sexy and I know it!”
Soooo, next time you’re tempted to whip out your meditation app, try masturbating instead. This will be the easiest habit to stick to in your self-care routine because it feels so. damn. gooood. Now stop reading, get masturbating, and start reaping all of these amazing benefits!
Designed to double your intimate pleasure, the Rechargeable Butterfly Kiss is a toy box must-have for any pleasure lover.
This petite sensually-contoured massager knows your intimate curves and is here to indulge your fave pleasure points.
Indulge in ten intense functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation with the push-button control. Dual high-intensity motors put out knee-shaking vibration throughout every inch of this passionate vibrator.
The fluttering wings-and-antennae stimulator of this flexible butterfly flutter faster with every increase of vibration to tempt, tease, and satisfy external sweet spots.
The USB rechargeable Rechargeable Butterfly Kiss is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Sensually designed arouser with a delicately shaped G-spot stimulator
Optimum fluttering wings with tantalizing antennae
Perfectly sized for beginner, intermediate and advanced users
Dual motors
10 Functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation
Body safe Silicone
Easy push-button control with security travel lock feature
Waterproof
USB rechargeable – charging cord included
60 Minute charge provides up to 75 minutes of play time
The tantalizing French Kiss Charmer is a travel-ready flickering tongue teaser made for sensual stimulation.
The compact massager fits just between your fingers to deliver powerful flickering pleasure with 12 sensual functions of fluttering vibration through the full encaser and tongue-like tip. Use the easy-touch button to control up to 50 minutes of vibrating pleasure.
The full contact scoop and fluttering tongue teaser has been crafted to perfectly contour to your most intimate pleasure points. The soft supple silicone and sensually contoured body let you deliver pinpoint pure pleasure form almost angle.
The USB rechargeable French Kiss Charmer is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Sensual flickering teaser for passionate, full coverage arousal
12 tantalizing functions of irresistible vibration plus flickering stimulation
Body safe Silicone
Compact handheld design
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Security travel lock – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
Waterproof
USB rechargeable – charging cord included
75 Minute charge provides up to 50 minutes of playtime
1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
Silicone (stimulator) ABS with Metallic Plating (décor)
The sensual French Kiss Sweet Talker is ready to slip into your purse or overnight bag for orgasmic pleasure on-the-go.
The compact massager fits just between your fingers to deliver powerful flickering pleasure with 12 sensual functions of fluttering vibrations through the tongue-like tip. Use the easy-touch button to control up to 50 minutes of vibrating pleasure.
The full contact scoop and fluttering tongue teaser has been crafted to perfectly contour to your most intimate pleasure points. The soft supple silicone and sensually contoured body let you deliver pinpoint pure pleasure form almost angle.
The USB rechargeable French Kiss Sweet Talker is waterproof for fun in & out of the water & easy cleanup.
Features:
Sensual flickering teaser for passionate stimulation
12 tantalizing functions of irresistible vibration plus flickering stimulation
Body safe Silicone
Compact handheld design
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Security travel lock – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
Waterproof
USB rechargeable – charging cord included
75 Minute charge provides up to 50 minutes of playtime
1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
Silicone (stimulator) ABS with Metallic Plating (décor)
Oh Casanova! The sensual French Kiss Casanova is an irresistible flickering teaser with a powerful vibrating bullet made truly passionate playtime.
This powerful vibe will show you true ecstasy with every flicker of the tongue teaser, dual vibe motors and 12 functions of vibration. Use the easy-touch button to control up to 70 minutes of vibrating pleasure.
While the flickering teaser works its magic, the powerful bullet flexes and moves with your body to deliver knee-shaking vibrations. The teaser and bullet can be used independently or simultaneously for breathtaking stimulation. The full contact scoop and fluttering tongue teaser has been crafted to perfectly contour to your most intimate pleasure points. The soft supple silicone and sensually contoured body let you deliver pinpoint pure pleasure form almost angle.
The USB rechargeable French Kiss Casanova is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Sensual flickering teaser with irresistible vibrating bullet for passionate play
Independently operated dual motors with 12 tantalizing functions
Body safe Silicone
Teaser and bullet with breathtaking stimulation may be used independently or simultaneously
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Security travel lock – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
Waterproof
USB rechargeable – charging cord included
100 Minute charge provides up to 70 minutes of playtime
1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
Silicone (stimulator) ABS with Metallic Plating (décor)
Summer came early! CalExotics is spreading the good vibrations with its newest additions to the bestselling California Dreaming collection. Ride waves of pleasure with these Golden State inspired vibes that pay tribute to some of California’s most popular destinations, including the Catalina Climaxer, Newport Beach Babe, Pasadena Player, Valley Vamp and Laguna Beach Lover.
All five new styles feature a sensually textured shaft for added stimulation. The entire California Dreaming line is also made of premium silicone and includes a security travel lock feature and state-of-the-art memory chip. Best of all, the collection is USB rechargeable, 100% waterproof, and backed by CalExotics’ one-year warranty. These stunning multi-functional vibes will have you feeling sun-kissed all year long.
Dive into new sensations with Laguna Beach Lover’s sensual flickering tongue.
Perfectly sized for all users, you’ll indulge in wave after wave of pleasure as the California Dreaming Laguna Beach Lover vibrator flickers against your most sensual sweet spots.
The 10 intense vibration functions, flexible body and flickering tongue-like tip will make you feel like the star of the show. Indulge in knee-shaking stimulation with 3 speeds of flickering speeds packed inside the sensually textured tongue.
Use the sleek button control to turn up the vibration intensity while the pliable body flexes and moves with your most intimate curves.
The USB rechargeable Laguna Beach Lover is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Powerful massager with flickering action
3 speeds of sensational flickering action plus sensually textured tongue
10 functions of independent vibration, pulsation and escalation
Body safe Silicone
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Easy push-button control with security travel lock feature
Waterproof
USB rechargeable – charging cord included
2.5 Hour charge provides up to 2.5 hours of playtime
1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
Silicone (massager) ABS with Metallic Plating (décor)
Take your climax to new heights with Catalina Climaxer’s impressive rotating shaft and vibrating teaser.
Dive deep into a sea of pleasure and sun-kissed fantasies with the playful California Dreaming Catalina Climaxer. The luxurious dual stimulator has 10 intense vibration functions and 3 shaft rotation speeds for one-of-a-kind pleasure experience. The seamless silicone body and textured teaser put out knee-shaking stimulation in and out of the water.
While the curved shaft indulges you in powerful g-spot stimulation, the soft, textured clitoral teaser delivers blissful external pleasure. Customize your pleasure play with the independently controlled vibration and rotating functions.
The USB rechargeable Catalina Climaxer is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Powerful, perfectly sized, rotating massager plus textured teaser
3 speeds of rotating action in the shaft plus sensual texture
10 functions of independent vibration, pulsation and escalation in the stimulator
Body safe Silicone
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Easy push-button control with security travel lock feature
Waterproof
USB rechargeable – charging cord included
2.5 Hour charge provides up to 2.5 hours of playtime
1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
Silicone (massager) ABS with Metallic Plating (décor)
Float on cloud nine with the Pasadena Player’s thrilling rotating shaft and floral shaped teaser.
Give into the beauty of pleasure with the perfectly crafted California Dreaming Pasadena Player. The luxurious massager has 10 intense vibration functions, 3 shaft rotation speeds and a unique tongue-like teaser for a one-of-a-kind pleasure experience. The seamless silicone body and flickering teaser put out knee-shaking stimulation wherever pleasure takes you.
While clitoral encaser teaser flickers and moves with your body, the 3 speeds of shaft rotation indulge with powerful g-spot stimulation. Customize your pleasure play with the independently controlled shaft rotation functions and teaser vibration functions.
The USB rechargeable Pasadena Player is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Powerful rotating massager plus vibrating contoured teasing stimulator
3 speeds of rotating action in the shaft plus sensual texture
10 functions of independent vibration, pulsation and escalation in the stimulator
Body safe Silicone
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Easy push-button control with security travel lock feature
Waterproof
USB rechargeable – charging cord included
2.5 Hour charge provides up to 2.5 hours of playtime
1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
Silicone (massager) ABS with Metallic Plating (décor)
Soak in the sun with Newport Beach Babe’s powerful thumping.
Give yourself over to the motion of the ocean with the California Dreaming Newport Beach Babe. The luxurious massager has 10 intense teaser thumping functions, 3 shaft vibration speeds and a sensually textured shaft for an earth-shattering pleasure experience.
The uniquely contoured teaser is made for a thumping good time with 10 independently controlled thumping pulsations.
While the high intensity stimulator thumps, the curved shaft and 3 speeds of vibration deliver knee-shaking g-spot stimulation. Embrace truly customizable pleasure with the rounded teaser’s powerful pulsation and shaft vibration speeds.
The USB rechargeable Newport Beach Babe is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Powerful vibrating massager plus thumping teaser
3 speeds of intense vibration in the shaft plus sensual texture
10 functions of independent thumping pulsations in the stimulator
Body safe Silicone
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Easy push-button control with security travel lock feature
Waterproof
USB rechargeable – charging cord included
2.5 Hour charge provides up to 2.5 hours of playtime
1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
Silicone (massager) ABS with Metallic Plating (décor)
Rhythmic side-to-side stimulation will have you saying, “Like, oh my God!”
Give yourself over to your wildest fantasies and indulge in true pleasure with the vivacious California Dreaming Valley Vamp.
The luxurious dual stimulator has a one-of-a-kind side-to-side rhythmic stimulator for mind-blowing external stimulation. Experience pleasure like never before with the unique swinging teaser and 3 speeds of shaft vibrations.
The rhythmic side-to-side teaser functions deliver show-stopping clitoral stimulation while the contoured shaft indulges with deep rumbling vibrators. Customize your pleasure play with the independently controlled vibration and stimulator functions.
The USB rechargeable Valley Vamp is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Powerful vibrating massager plus swinging teaser
3 speeds of intense vibration in the shaft plus sensual texture
10 functions of side-to-side rhythmic stimulation in the stimulator
Body safe Silicone
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Easy push-button control with security travel lock feature
Waterproof
USB rechargeable – charging cord included
2.5 Hour charge provides up to 2.5 hours of playtime
1 year warranty provided by CalExotics
Silicone (massager) ABS with Metallic Plating (décor)
Enjoy the thrilling sensation of the unapologetically powerful Shameless collection – a name that encapsulates the bold strength behind these exciting silicone vibes.
These showstoppers feature precision-driven motors with smooth thrusting action. With up to 850 thrusts per minute, Shameless Tease, Shameless Flirt, and Shameless Seducer are three brazen beauties that give you the power of a sex machine in the palm of your hand.
The entire Shameless collection offers users an ergonomically curved handle for maximum pleasure, a security travel lock feature and silky-smooth premium silicone. Best of all, this trio is 100% waterproof, USB rechargeable, and covered by CalExotics’ one year warranty.
Take pleasure over the edge with Shameless Tease, a dual massager with infinite thrusting action for a powerful, earth-shaking orgasm. This unstoppable vibe is sized just right with an impressive girth designed to satisfy.
Explore pleasure unknown with its floral shaped teaser and its 7 breathtaking functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation. Users can explore the shaft and teaser independently or use them simultaneously. With 2 robust motors and thrusting power that never stops, users will be shivering with ecstasy.
Shameless Flirt is every power queen’s dream come true! This outrageously powerful massager will have you purring with its scandalously soft silicone and sinfully deep orgasmic functions.
Revel in the sensation of 4 exhilarating levels of thrusting power with a mind-blowing up-and-down motion that simulates the best romp session you’ve ever had! Perfectly sized for pleasure, Flirt’s impressive girth will thrust you into a state of euphoria.
Captivate your senses with the Shameless Seducer, a sensational dual massager with two dynamic motors that offer sensual power with each touch. This irresistible vibe features thrusting action for infinite satisfaction, plus 7 seductive functions of orgasmic vibration in the butterfly-shaped teaser.
Use the shaft and teaser together or individually as you cater to each delicious need. This dual stimulating massager will seduce every inch of your skin with its unrelenting power.
Bring a little magic to your bedroom with the Enchanted Exciter.
Transport yourself to a wonderland of pleasure with 4 functions of shaft rotation, 4 functions of thrusting action, and 12 indulgent vibration functions. The flexible silicone shaft and flickering bunny tickler flex and move with your body to deliver intense G-spot and clitoral stimulation.
While the easy-touch button pad controls the intensity and the curvaceous vibe gives you the stimulation you want, the integrated state of the art memory chip remembers just how you like it by starting on the last function used.
The USB rechargeable Enchanted Exciter is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Dual Stimulator
Powerful thrusting, rotating shaft plus dual flickering teaser
4 Functions of thrusting
4 Functions of shaft rotation
12 Functions of independent vibration, pulsation and escalation in the stimulator
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Instructions included
Easy push-button control with instant on/off button and LED Light
Waterproof
USB rechargeable
USB charging cord included
120 Minute charge provides up to 65 minutes of playtime
1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
Silicone (massager) ABS with Silver Plating (décor)
The Silicone Rechargeable Dual Clit Flicker mixes 7 intense functions of vibration with an erotically fluttering package for double the knee-shaking pleasure. This dual stimulator ring sizes are great for beginners looking to spice things up or erotic experts looking to add intense pleasure to their arsenal.
The plush body-safe Silicone ring works to improve stamina and girth. The tight ring maximizes sensitivity and elevates sensation throughout the penis increases as well, letting you enjoy longer, more powerful pleasure.
While you reach next level pleasure, the 7 vibration functions and flickering teasers will leave your partner in a state of orgasmic bliss. The ergonomically shaped stimulator and fluttering tongue-shaped teasers deliver pinpoint pleasure on the most intimate sweet spots.
The USB rechargeable Silicone Rechargeable Dual Clit Flicker is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Stretchy and comfortable vibrating couple’s enhancer
Dual support and seductive tongue teasers
7 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation
Enhances stimulation for you and your partner
Luxurious body safe Silicone
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Easy push-button control – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
Waterproof
USB rechargeable – charging cord included
Complete charge in 1 hour
Runs for 70 minutes on high speed and 90 minutes on low speed
They said: “While there are clitoral stimulators that vibrate and those that create a suction, that’s not the only way to stimulate a clitoris. Depending on how sensitive your clitoris is, you just might prefer a flicking type of motion.
Why it’s innovative: Although there are dildos [sic] on the market — like the iconic rabbit vibrator — that provide a flicking of the clitoris in addition to penetration, Red Hot Sizzle cuts right to the chase. In a world where the majority of women need clitoral stimulation to climax, this toy by CalExotics is innovative, because it gets right down to business. It doesn’t make its flickering an addition to a dildo [sic], but rather the main character. And sometimes when you get off, you want to get to the main character in the story ASAP.”
The Red Hot Sizzle is sure to light a fire in your love life with the elegantly curved teaser and 10 powerful vibration functions. The compact travel size, 100% surface play area and unique body make for a blazing good time.
The elegantly curved teaser and 100% play area were crafted to perfectly caress your most sensual sweet spots and deliver fluttering stimulation. The flickering tips deliver pinpoint pleasure, anywhere you go.
Indulge personalized pleasure while the curved massager shimmies to the rhythm of 10 vivacious vibration, passionate pulsation and erotic escalation. Control this variety of orgasmic options with the easy-touch button and fan the flames of passion.
The USB rechargeable Red Hot Sizzle is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Elegant curved teaser for intense fluttering stimulation
Easy-to-operate Silicone massager
10 functions of intense vibration, pulsation and escalation
Security travel lock – hold for 2 seconds to turn on or off
Waterproof
USB rechargeable
USB charging cord included
2.5 Hour charge provides up to 3 hours of playtime
The Silicone Rechargeable Dual Rockin’ Rabbit mixes 7 intense functions of vibration with flickering and tickling package for double the knee-shaking pleasure. This dual stimulator ring sizes are great for beginners looking to spice things up or erotic experts looking to add intense pleasure to their arsenal.
The plush body-safe Silicone ring works to improve stamina and girth. The tight ring maximizes sensitivity and elevates sensation throughout the penis increases as well, letting the wearer enjoy longer, more powerful pleasure.
While you reach next-level pleasure, the 7 vibration functions and flickering teasers will leave you and your partner in a state of orgasmic bliss.
The ergonomically shaped stimulator and fluttering bunny ear teasers deliver pinpoint pleasure to the clitoris.
This passionate cock ring remembers exactly how you like it with the state-of-the-art memory chip and can pick up on the last function used. Use the easy-touch silicone buttons or remote control to effortlessly control pleasure.
The USB rechargeable Dual Rockin Rabbit is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.
Features:
Stretchy and comfortable vibrating couple’s enhancer with dual support and tantalizing ears
7 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation
Enhances stimulation for you and your partner
Luxurious body safe Silicone
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
Easy push-button control – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
Waterproof
USB rechargeable
USB charging cord included
Complete charge in 1 hour
Runs for 70 minutes on high speed and 90 minutes on low speed
