Nipztix Freaking Awesome Collection by Neva Nude

Are your tastes a little eclectic, “out there,” or just plain weird? Well, we think that’s FREAKING AWESOME, and we’ve got the pasties to match!

Nipztix Freaking Awesome Collection by Neva Nude offers nipple covers for all your interests, passions, and desires.

Want to rock some unicorn nipples just for funsies? How about lookin’ like a snack with some cupcake pasties? Now you can! These pasties are perfect for themed parties, Halloween costumes, poolside bashes or whenever the heck you want! Get yo’ freak on!

Nipztix will effectively hide your thunder while allowing you to shine! Our pasties are great for raves and rendezvous, parties and poolside, and festivals or fashion emergencies.

Wear Nipztix for evenings out, with daring dresses or to spice up those intimate situations. Rock Your Body (yeah, yeah) without the wardrobe malfunctions. Join our party and dare to (almost) bare!

All Nipztix are handmade with love and therefore unique! Product may vary slightly from image.

Each pack includes 2 Nipztix pasties.

Why Are Nipztix So Awesome?

  • All Neva Nude products are hand made in sunny California
  • Hypoallergenic, latex-free medical grade adhesive
  • Last for 10-12 hours
  • Made of locally sourced (Santa Monica, yay!) swimsuit material
  • Self-adhering with an easy, peasy application
  • Spice up your cutest outfits, wear under tanks, or even replace a bikini top
  • Female owned and operated

 

Nipztix Freaking Awesome Pow! Pasties

Add some punch to your outfit in these nerdy POW! Comic Book Onomatopoeia Nipztix. Sweet Dreams, Baby!

2.5” x 2.5”

 

Nipztix Freaking Awesome BAM! Pasties

Make an explosive impression with the BAM! Comic Book Onomatopoeia Nipztix.

2.5” x 2.5”

 

Nipztix Freaking Awesome LOL! Pasties

Harness your joy for life with these LOL! Comic Book Nipztix.

2.5” x 2.5”

 

Nipztix Freaking Awesome Magic Unicorn Pasties

Are you so awesome that you find yourself questioning if you’re really real? If you answered yes, then these are the pasties for you!

 

Nipztix Freaking Awesome Cheat Meal Cupcake Pasties

Sinfully sweet and delicious! Wear these to start your own Cupcake Wars! (DO NOT EAT THE PASTIES!)

Gvibe Gjay Real Feel Bioskin Vibrator

Revolutionary Bioskin  material – Impossible to believe how realistic this toy’s material is.

Gvibe has reached new heights in the evolution of toys’ materials when they created BIOSKIN, a skin-soft material that’s as close to the human body as possible.

The ecologically safe, hypoallergenic, premium Bioskin coats an inner layer that some say feels like memory foam, which in turn covers a firm inner core, giving Gvibe Gjay its true-to-life feeling.

A silky-smooth shaft ends in a realistic head with pronounced corona that’s slightly tapered to aid in insertion. The curved open loop handle makes Gvibe Gjay easy to hold and maneuver and allows for easy control of the six vibration modes via the simple 3 button interface.

The magnetic USB rechargeable Gvibe Gjay is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

Features:

  • Real feel vibrator
  • Ergonomic design
  • Smooth shaft
  • Realistic head
  • Powerful yet quiet motor
  • Six vibration modes with changeable intensity – from light tremors to intense vibration
  • Intuitive controls
  • Made of Revolutionary Bioskin material
  • Odorless
  • Waterproof
  • USB Rechargeable – charging cable included
  • Drawstring storage bag included
  • 2 Hour charge provides up to 4 hours playtime
  • 3 Year warranty provided by Gvibe/ FT London

In the Box:

  • Gjay
  • USB charging cable
  • Storage bag
  • User manual

Boiskin and ABS

8.66″ x 1.46″

How Do I Sext? Your How-to Guide

Okay, we’ve all been there (hopefully via a consensual path), where a fun, flirty, friendly text turns into that lil side-smile emoji… You know the one I’m talking about, the little guy that let’s the other person know they’re thinking of you in a very special way.

So what now? Below are some tips on sexting like a pro.

1 – Let’s always start with our favorite word. Consent! This comes in many ways, especially when it comes to sexting someone you maybe have just met or someone you have yet to meet. If you think something is going there, then throw out a little “wanna have a little fun :)” type text and garner the response. If you have a relationship, or the beginning of a relationship, be open and ask! It can open some doors to other parts of the relationship as well.

2 – Make sure both parties are in the mood. This goes along with consent, if you’re in the mood and can’t physically be with your partner. Check in! Sexting is great for LDRs (long distance relationships).

3 – Start slow! Think of sexting in terms of a new-age way of foreplay. Start easy, flirty, and slow. Ask things like “what do you like,” or “what do you wish I was doing to you/you were doing to me right now.” We all know that coming in hot with a d*ck pick is almost always the worst way to start sexing. STOP DOING THIS. Let us remember the art of anticipation, people!

4 – Both talking and listening are key. Tell your partner what you like! This could be a great new means of communication for the actual bedroom at a later time. Sexting is a lovely way to learn about what your partner likes or desires.

5 – Build up to you and your partner’s deeper desires. If it’s your first time, it can be tough to gage just how freaky you can sext. Think of this in the same way your real sex life goes. Typically you have to build up trust in a relationship before really letting your freak flag fly. So maybe wait like 3-4 sext sessions before telling someone you want them to pee in their mouth. If you’re in an uncomfortable situation or something goes too far, thank your lucky stars you’re on a phone and can very easily get out of the situation. On that note, also try not to judge too much as we all know how tough it is out there. If someone pushes too far, your out is as easy as pushing a button!

6 – Words + pictures really tell a beautiful story. Tell your partner what you want to see and ask what they want to see! If you’re not 1000% on board or feel skeptical throwing pictures out there, maybe start with leaving your face out of the pictures or a very localized area on your body.

7 – Let your partner know when you cum! Again, try to relate to this as close to real sex as possible. We all love to know when our partner crosses the finish line!

Now get out there and get those thumbs moving!

How Do I Sext? Your How-to Guide originally appeared on Voodoo Pleasure Blog

Turbo Stroker Self-Warming Vibrating and Pulsing Masturbator by Private from CalExotics

Embrace new level pleasure and indulge in a one-of-a-kind pleasure experience with the Turbo Stroker from Private.

The sensually textured, totally seamless silicone stroker sleeve has powerful Turbo Boost Pulse Technology that rises and falls in three intensity levels to create extra pressure, friction, and pleasure.

A unique sensuous heating function can be activated to create a wonderland of stroking pleasure.

The powerful motor provides six modes of vibration, pulsation, and escalation that resonate throughout the textured open-sided chamber to sensually stimulate.

The magnetic USB rechargeable Private Turbo Stroker is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

Features:

  • Powerful automated masturbator with Turbo Pulse Technology
  • 6 intense functions of vibration
  • 3 Turbo Pulse functions
  • Turbo boost feature for instant maximum vibration and Turbo Pulse
  • Unique warming function for stroking satisfaction
  • Textured design for added sensation
  • Comfortable ergonomic grip
  • Easy push-button control – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – magnetic charging cord included
  • Instructions included
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
  • Silicone and ABS (sleeve)
  • 5.1” x 2.4”

Magic Wand, Cosmopolitan Talk Counterfeit Pleasure Products

Magic Wand, Cosmopolitan Talk Counterfeit Pleasure Products

 Magic Wand VP Shay Martin discussed counterfeit pleasure products, and how to identify fakes in the marketplace, for the September issue of Cosmopolitan.

Martin’s interview, “How to Spot a Counterfeit in the Wild,” is part of a larger piece titled “How to Navigate the New Landscape of Everyone’s-Doing-It Sex Toylandia” by Carina Hsieh and Taylor Andrews.

“Counterfeit pleasure products impact far more than a manufacturer’s bottom line. From health risks to negative press, counterfeit products are a significant issue impacting the industry — and virtually unknown to consumers,” a rep explained.

“Vibratex is the exclusive North American distributor of the Magic Wand brand — one of a handful of sex toy lines consumers ask for by name,” continued the rep. “This demand makes Magic Wand a big target for counterfeiters, rendering Martin an expert on this specific issue.”

In her full interview, Martin said that the “scariest aspect” of counterfeit sex toys is that “anything’s possible.”

“We hear from consumers who are dissatisfied with purchases and completely unaware that sex toy fakes are even possible,” Martin explained. “We were happy to share some insights with Cosmopolitan in the hopes of helping people avoid disappointment — and even danger.”

“We’ve seen everything from unsafe electrical components that overheat to silicone and rubber materials that literally smell harmful. The unpredictable nature is what worries us most,” Martin continued.

Martin offered a list of “key checkpoints to consider” if consumers are unsure about a product, and noted they are unlikely to find fakes in brick-and-mortar locations as reputable retailers are notably thorough about vetting their product in advance.

Her reference points include “asking the relevant salesperson what they know about the toy and brand, inspecting the product box and packaging and — smell it.”

“Does the product smell like chemicals? If so, put it down and move on,” Martin quipped. She also discussed “the allure of large online marketplaces,” and advised consumers to stick with authorized sellers and “avert your eyes from the sites with the super-low prices”

Find the complete article here.

Magic Wand, Cosmopolitan Talk Counterfeit Pleasure Products by JC Adams originally appeared in XBIZ

Happy Rabbit Remote Control Collection by Lovehoney

Lovehoney knows that giving someone remote control of the intensity and patterns of one’s sex toy is a thrilling experience for a lot of people and it creates a novel experience to enjoy.

That’s why they added 3 new Happy Rabbit Remote control toys to the beloved collection:

The Remote Control Egg is a traditional egg shaped vibrator with 33 vibration combinations

The Vibrating Panties Set includes a slim bullet, remote, and adorable black lace panties complete with a fluffy bunny tail

The Vibrating Ring adds the well-known Happy Rabbit ears to a super stretchy ring that both partners can enjoy

All 3 models include a remote controller that features the exclamation point buttons we all know and love. Use the long button to access the 10 vibration modes, and the small button to enjoy the 3 intensities.

 

Happy Rabbit Remote Control Egg

Offering satisfaction that’s leaps and bounds ahead of the rest, the Happy Rabbit Remote Control Egg is designed with couples in mind.

Explore 30 thrilling vibration modes, at home or roaming free with the remote control.

The sleek, smooth egg slips inside with ease, and delivers discreet vibrations to awaiting internal hotspots.

Hand the remote to your lover and let them tease and surprise you with 10 different vibration patterns, each boasting 3 exciting intensity levels.

The USB rechargeable Happy Rabbit Remote Control Egg is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

Features:

  • Silky smooth love egg vibrator with remote control for boundless pleasure at your fingertips
  • 10 thrilling vibration modes, each with 3 intensity levels
  • Smooth-coated plastic egg is easy to insert and comfortable to wear
  • Egg is waterproof for easy cleaning and aquatic pleasure sessions (remote control is not waterproof)
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • Charges in 2 hours
  • 1 Year warranty provided by Lovehoney
  • ABS with PU coat
  • 2.5” x 1.35”

 

Happy Rabbit Remote Control Panties Set

Combining sexy lingerie with incredible remote-control power, the Happy Rabbit Remote Control Panties Set offers 30 blissful vibration functions at the tough of a button on the included remote.

Fastened with a ribbon tie and featuring a removable cotton bunny tail, the totally tail-orable black stretch lace briefs have a special pocket in the gusset to slip the bullet vibrator into.

The slim bullet offers 10 thrilling modes of vibration, each with 3 intensity levels, for a totally customizable experience. Use the long button on the included remote to click through the modes, and the small button to change the intensity.

The USB rechargeable bullet in the Happy Rabbit Remote Control Panties Set is waterproof for fun in & out or the water and easy cleanup, but the remote should be kept dry.

Features:

  • Remote control knicker vibrator with multi-size briefs for boundless pleasure at your fingertips
  • Adjustable panty designed to fit either US sizes 4-12 or 14-20
  • 10 thrilling vibration modes, each with 3 intensity levels
  • Remote control for ease of use
  • Ribbon-tie briefs with cotton bunny tail add to the appeal
  • Bullet is 100% waterproof
  • Remote control is not waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • Charges in 2 hours
  • 1 Year warranty provided by Lovehoney
  • ABS (bullet)
  • 3” x 0.8”

 

Happy Rabbit Remote Control Ring

The iconic happy rabbit ears have been added to this sleek, stretchy silicone cock ring, and given it a w-hopping 30 remote-operated vibration modes, for boundless hands-free pleasure.

The ring fits snugly around the shaft, potentially strengthening erections and delaying ejaculation. At the same time, the soft, flexible bunny ears nestle against external sweet spots during penetration, delivering amazing stimulation.

The slim bullet offers 10 thrilling modes of vibration, each with 3 intensity levels, for a totally customizable experience. Use the long button on the included remote to click through the modes, and the small button to change the intensity.

The USB rechargeable bullet in the Happy Rabbit Remote Control Ring is waterproof for fun in & out or the water and easy cleanup, but the remote should be kept dry.

Features:

  • Stretchy vibrating cock ring
  • Rabbit ears and remote control for boundless pleasure at your fingertips
  • 10 thrilling vibration patterns, each with 3 intensity levels
  • Ring stretches to fit most penises with a snug-but-comfortable squeeze
  • May help strengthen erections and delay ejaculation
  • Explore hands-free shared orgasms with the easy-to-use remote control
  • Bullet is 100% waterproof
  • Remote control is not waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • Charges in 2 hours
  • 1 Year warranty provided by Lovehoney
  • Silicone (ring) and ABS (bullet)
  • Resting diameter 1.5”, and stretches to 2.75”

Nöje C Rings by Blush

Nöje is the Swedish word for pleasure, and the new C series of vibrating rings live up to that name.

Modern, fun, and anatomically targeted, Noje C Rings feature smooth silicone and an included versatile bullet vibe that provides the 5 speeds and 5 pulse patterns of vibration.

Each ring offers a little something different:

  • C1. Has a single ring design with a broad, multi-textured stimulation pad.
  • C2. Features a double ring design and a vertical clitoral stimulator.
  • C.3 Is a double ring with ever-popular bunny ears to tickle and tease.

Like all Nöje items, the C Rings offer quality silicone construction, value pricing, are rechargeable, and come backed by a 1-Year manufacturer’s warranty.

 

Noje C1. Rechargeable Vibrating Ring with Clitoral Stimulation Pad

The Noje C1.’s smooth silicone, ridged stimulator, and strong vibes are a delicious addition to your playtime!

Stimulating textures on the broad surface of the ring’s stimulator pad will provide extra sensation to one partner, while both will enjoy the deep and rumbly vibrations.

Noje C1 is a perfect toy to try in a multitude of positions! Both sides of the angled vertical stimulator pad have raised ridges, enabling you to wear the ring facing either direction. Additionally, it can be worn up for maximum clitoral contact or down to please the wearer.

An included versatile bullet vibe provides the 5 speeds and 5 pulse patterns of vibration and can be removed from the ring for solo use.

The USB rechargeable Noje C1. Ring is splashproof for easy care and cleanup.

Features:

  • Versatile wear vibrating couples ring
  • Single ring design
  • Comfortably snug yet stretchy with just the right amount of tension
  • Vertical stimulator pad offers multiple ways to wear
  • 10 vibrating functions – 5 speeds + 5 unique patterns
  • Removeable bullet vibe can be used with or without the ring
  • Splashproof for easy care
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • 1 Year warranty provided by Blush Novelties
  • Silicone (ring) and ABS (bullet)
  • Bullet 2.5” x 0.7”
  • Ring 3.5” overall x 2” wide x 1.25” inner diameter

 

Noje C2. Rechargeable Vibrating Double Ring with Vertical Bullet

The Noje C2.’s smooth silicone, vertical stimulator, and strong vibes are a delicious addition to your playtime!

The stimulator’s vertically positioned bullet gently presses up against the clitoris for targeted stimulation. Both partners will enjoy the 10 modes of deep and rumbly vibrations available in 5 speeds before launching into 5 pulse patterns.

The double ring design helps keep the vibrator in just the right place and also boosts package appearance with one band for the base of the penis shaft and one for the balls.

An included versatile bullet vibe provides the power and can be removed from the ring for independent use.

The USB rechargeable Noje C2. Ring is splashproof for easy care and cleanup.

Features:

  • Versatile wear vibrating couples ring
  • Double ring design to boost package appearance
  • Comfortably snug yet stretchy with just the right amount of tension
  • Vertically positioned bullet for targeted clitoral stimulation
  • 10 vibrating functions – 5 speeds + 5 unique patterns
  • Removeable bullet vibe can be used with or without the ring
  • Splashproof for easy care
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • 1 Year warranty provided by Blush Novelties
  • Silicone (ring) and ABS (bullet)
  • Bullet 2.5” x 0.7”
  • Ring 3.75” overall x 2.25” wide x 1.25” inner diameter

 

Noje C3. Rechargeable Vibrating Double Ring with Rabbit Ears

The Noje C3.’s smooth silicone, vertical stimulator, and strong vibes are a delicious addition to your playtime!

The stimulator’s horizontal bullet position activates the rabbit ears for teasing clitoral stimulation. Both partners will enjoy the 10 modes of deep and rumbly vibrations available in 5 speeds before launching into 5 pulse patterns.

The double ring design helps keep the vibrator in just the right place and also boosts package appearance with one band for the base of the penis shaft and one for the balls.

An included versatile bullet vibe provides the power and can be removed from the ring for independent use.

The USB rechargeable Noje C3. Ring is splashproof for easy care and cleanup.

Features:

  • Versatile wear vibrating couples ring
  • Double ring design to boost package appearance
  • Comfortably snug yet stretchy with just the right amount of tension
  • Rabbit ears provide teasing and pleasing clitoral stimulation
  • 10 vibrating functions – 5 speeds + 5 unique patterns
  • Removeable bullet vibe can be used with or without the ring
  • Splashproof for easy care
  • USB rechargeable – charging cable included
  • 1 Year warranty provided by Blush Novelties
  • Silicone (ring) and ABS (bullet)
  • Bullet 2.5” x 0.7”
  • Ring 4” overall x 2.5” wide x 1.25” inner diameter

A Look at Adult Retailers’ Role as Sex Educators

It is no secret that sex education is completely lacking in our culture and society today. No matter what generation someone was born into, chances are the sex education they received was either completely false, misguided, judgmental, or harmful — and that’s if they even received a formal “sexual education” in the first place. So, given this tumultuous and highly variable landscape, where exactly do retailers fit into the mix?
One might argue that pleasure product retailers are the new wave of sex-ed teachers for adults. It is their duty to help adults unlearn and then relearn what sex is and what sex could be. And that’s an important job to pursue because according to a recent survey conducted by CalExotics, 62 percent of pleasure product retailers believe that their customers have been negatively affected by their sex-ed experiences. That’s a massive percentage, especially given the fact that these are folks who are already shopping for pleasure products.

How do retailers show up as sex-ed teachers already? At its most basic level, retailers make themselves available to answer questions. This is key in a world where people often feel judged or uncomfortable voicing their questions aloud. What’s really interesting, from an educational perspective, is that the questions retailers are getting from customers go far beyond product recommendation or specs. In fact, according to the survey, the most common questions retailers are getting include:

  • How can I please my partner? — 77 percent of retailers surveyed
  • How can I spice up my relationship? — 77 percent of retailers surveyed
  • Is __________ normal? — 73 percent of retailers surveyed
  • How can I introduce __________to my partner/ask my partner for __________? — 69 percent of retailers surveyed
  • How can I have an orgasm during intercourse? — 69 percent of retailers surveyed
  • How can I increase my partner’s libido? — 65 percent of retailers surveyed
  • What is __________ (terminology they read online)? — 58 percent of retailers surveyed
  • How long should sex last? — 31 percent of retailers surveyed

As anyone in the industry would conclude, the answers to these questions involve comprehensive, in-depth responses that can have a major impact on a person’s knowledge, perception, confidence and actions. In other words, these are major questions, folks; and that can certainly feel like a big undertaking until you recognize one very important factor: unlike some sex-ed teachers of the past, you get to be the compassionate teacher.

What does being a “compassionate teacher” mean? It means that just by being receptive, understanding, non-judgmental and open, you are already providing people with an incredibly important lesson in sex education. Just remember that your own sex-ed background may be shaping the way you view or react to their questions, which adds another layer of complexity. It’s important to lead with compassion and approach each customer with acceptance. By doing so, you are impacting them in a positive way and more than you even realize.

How else are retailers showing up as sex education teachers now? They are using sex-positive marketing (72 percent), offering sexual health merchandise (68 percent), providing ongoing training (60 percent), incorporating sex-positive corporate culture (56 percent), and using sex-positive displays (52 percent). These percentages are on the rise, but there’s always room to grow. In fact, many retailers say that they’d like to start incorporating things like showcasing books and resources, doing more community work and offering classes.

Some retailers may be skeptical about these tactics. If the goal is to sell sex toys, why do we need to bother with putting educational materials out into the world, particularly if they don’t correlate with a specific SKU? The answer is simple: the more we can collectively educate the population on sex, sexuality, gender, pleasure and more, the more these topics become comfortable, mainstream and part of normal, everyday discussion versus being shameful or hush-hush.

Just imagine a world where anal beads are so widely accepted that every single person, no matter their sexual orientation or gender, had some in their nightstand. Think about a future where all women — all women — felt empowered to masturbate without the shame. What if kegel weights were celebrated publicly as though they were Peloton bikes? What if butt plugs were so commonplace and widespread, you’d be hard-pressed to find someone who didn’t own a few?

The point is that the more retailers put themselves out there as teachers, rather than just sales people, the more customers they will ultimately reach. And listen, none of this will happen overnight — but it will happen the more retailers jump into this very much-needed role and present themselves as the compassionate leaders and educators they are. More compassion and education leads to a reduction of stigma and shame, which leads to a whole new world of sexual understanding, which ultimately leads to more sales.

So where can you start? Take a surveillance of what you have done so far to position your business as an educational tool. Do you offer classes? Do you post on social media about a variety of sexual education topics instead of just about toys? Is the language you use on your in-store signage sex-positive and judgment-free? Find a baseline for where you are today and then find ways to do more (and ultimately be more) for your customers. If 62 percent of customers are still negatively impacted by their sex-ed upbringing, there is an obligation to help massively reduce that number for future generations to come.

 

A Look at Adult Retailers’ Role as Sex Educators By Nichole Grossman originally appeared in XBIZ

Gvibe³ Anatomical Massager

A Revolutionary Engineering Design!

Gvibe³ boasts 3 powerful motors – 2 in the tips and 1 in the shaft – that provides 100% more power than previous generation models.

Gvibe³ is not only beautiful but features a revolutionary design. Its shape adapts to each anatomy individually, and the 3 motors with 6 modes of vibration provide simultaneous stimulation of 3 sensitive spots – the G‑Spot, the opposite wall of vagina and the entrance of vagina and clitoris.

Environmentally friendly, hypoallergenic, patented, medical-grade silicone is extra silky and offers extra flexibility.

The unique ergonomic design and flexible, pliable tips allows for so many uses: Stimulate internally and externally at the same time by inserting only one tip; Enjoy a feeling of fullness and complete internal stimulation by inserting both tips; close the tips together on either side of the clitoris; use as a penis stroker; prostate massager – The possibilities are endless!

The USB rechargeable Gvibe³ features a quick 2-hour charge time via magnetic charger and is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

Features:

  • Revolutionary engineering design
  • 3rd Generation design offers 100% more power over previous models
  • Shape adapts to each anatomy individually
  • Simultaneous stimulation of 3 sensitive spots
  • Creates a sensation of fullness without stretching entrance tissues
  • Ergonomic design
  • Three powerful yet quiet motors
  • Six vibration modes with changeable intensity – from light tremors to intense vibration
  • Intuitive controls
  • 100% waterproof
  • 2 Hour charge provides up to 4 hours of playtime
  • Magnetic charger
  • 1‑Year Warranty supplied by GVibe

In the Box:

  • Gvibe³
  • Charging cord
  • User manual
  • Storage Pouch

Silicone and ABS

7″ x 1.3″

What is Edging?

If you’ve never heard of “edging,” then prepare to have your mind blown.

Whether you do it solo or with a partner, practicing edging is something that’s going to take your orgasms to a whole new level.

What is edging?

Edging is when you bring yourself—or your partner—as close to an orgasm as possible, to the edge so to speak, then STOP.

While the initial thought of this might coincide with thinking, “Why would anyone do this?” From a pleasure standpoint, it really pays off: stronger and possibly even longer orgasms. What’s not to love?

Although, for the most part, edging is something that people with penises tend to practice more than people with vulvas, don’t think for one moment that being a vulva-owner is standing in the way of your ability to edge.

Why does edging feel so good?

Think about it this way: You’re with your partner (or yourself) and there’s a lot of sexual teasing going on. This teasing leaves you wanting more while the blood rushes to your genital, become engorged, as you reach peak arousal. There’s a good chance that once those sensations hit (that wonderful ache of desire), your need to climax is at an all-time high.

Now imagine taking that level of teasing and focusing it on more genital play. The more you bring yourself—or your partner—close to the edge of climax, the more powerful and intense the orgasm will be. It’s the increased and prolonged arousal that, when let loose, is the climax of climaxes.

But there’s more to edging than mind-blowing orgasms.

What’s the history behind edging?

For people with penises, edging gives them the opportunity to have more control over how long they can keep an erection before coming. In fact, edging was created to help men with premature ejaculation.

In 1956, Dr. James H. Semans, a Duke University surgeon and urologist, published an article in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in which he began his introduction with, “premature ejaculation is very undesirable… it may lead to sexual impotence.” His solution for this was for penis-owners to enjoy external stimulation by a partner “until the premonitory sensation of ejaculation.” Next, the stimulation would be stopped before climax and the sensation to come no longer existed. Then, roughly 30 seconds later, the cycle was repeated. The method worked and became known as the “stop-start” technique.

How do you get started with edging?

As with most things involving our bodies, going solo and exploring is the best way to start edging. So get in there, use a hand mirror, touch different parts of your body—your vulva, your penis, your perineum, your anus, your clitoris—experiment with it all.

Edging for penis-owners:

If you’ve been masturbating long enough, then you already know what works. Some like the stroking method, others like squeezing, while others prefer more of a twisting type motion. It’s these preferable techniques to which you want to stick.

But, because you’re going to stop yourself from having an orgasm, just before you climax, you want to squeeze the glans (otherwise known as the head) of your penis. Once you’ve nipped your orgasm in the bud, you want to wait about 30 seconds, then get back to masturbating. You can do this as many times as it feels good to do it.

If your concern is more about getting premature ejaculation under control, then ballooning is a better option. Before we even get into ballooning, it should be noted that many, many people with penises suffer from premature ejaculation. The Mayo Clinic estimates that roughly 1 out of every 3 penis-owners will experience PE at some point in their lifetime. So, if you think you’re alone, you’re certainly not.

When it comes to the ballooning technique, things are different. First, find the most sensitive spot on your penis and start rubbing it a circular motion. Continue this form of circular stimulation past your erection and right up until the point where your urge to climax has arrived. Then stop; wait for your erection to go down, then begin again. What makes this different from edging is the goal isn’t an orgasm. According to Strong Health, some men use ballooning as many as 20 times a day to increase sexual desire, with some claiming that even after one round, their libido and stamina increase exponentially.

Edging for vulva-owners:

Although we’re dealing with a similar concept, the technique is going to be different too. As you would with any masturbation session, get your essentials: lube, maybe some porn, and your favorite vibrator of the moment. Because 75 to 80% of vulva-owners need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, a vibrator is practically a must for many. And, since you’re going to be practicing edging for an indeterminate amount of time, you also want a vibrator that isn’t going to result in carpal tunnel.

Remember: Toys are for everyone!

It should be noted that no matter whether you have a vulva or a penis, sex toys are your friends when it comes to edging.

If you have a penis and have yet to masturbate with a sex toy, then it’s time to introduce you to Bullet Vibes. The bullet vibe is small enough so it’s not intimidating for newbies, but still powerful enough to get the job done—especially in spots like the frenulum (the underneath part of the penis) which is very sensitive, as well as the testes, and the perineum. Even if you’ve been circumcised, your penis still has a bit of the frenulum remaining, so give it some vibrating attention.

What are some edging techniques to try on my partner?

First and foremost, you want to talk about consent. Not everyone is into edging, and even after you explain it to them, they still might not find it as their cup of tea. It’s at this point that you tell them that it’s totally cool and move on to try other things.

But should you find a partner who is into edging and would like you to perform edging on them, start as if you’re engaging in foreplay. In other words, get them as turned on as possible. If you know your partner well, you’ll know exactly how to do this. If your partner is new, then you’re going to need some communication from them about what it takes to get them fully arouse. Although some people say, “I’m going to come” right before they come, you want to ask your partner to be even more vocal about just how close they are to the edge. When they’ve reached the brink, stop. Let their body and mind ease back into a neutral place, then start stimulation again. Continue until your partner communicates that they don’t want to do it anymore and they’re ready to orgasm.

How many times can you edge before you orgasm?

As for how many times you can edge before you orgasm, this is your call. You know your body better than anyone else. The same goes for practicing edging your partner; while you can do it as much as you want, when you’re ready to come, you need to communicate that to them, so they can finally let you have that fantastic orgasm that you worked so hard to get!

As for the possibility of getting “backed up” from edging, don’t worry about it: it’s not going to happen. If you have a penis and practice edging for even a couple hours, your ejaculation that isn’t released right away isn’t going to cause a problem. If you choose not to come at all, according to Healthline, the body will just bread down the ejaculation, recycle it, and send it on its way to other parts of the body.

Edging and BDSM

If you’re engaged in the BDSM community, then there’s a good chance that you’ve already come across edging or, as it’s sometimes called in that circle, “orgasm denial.” In BDSM, the Dom decides when and how the Sub will orgasm. The Dom will use edging to taunt and tease the Sub, as the chance to climax for the Sub is all in the Dom’s hands. In these situations, edging is used as a power-play move to keep the Sub in line, while the Dom has all the control. For people who live the BDSM lifestyle, this is a delicious way to not only explore each other and their desires but fulfill fantasies, too. However, and this can’t be stressed enough, BDSM puts consent and communication above all else. And that being said, edging should be off-limits unless otherwise negotiated.

 

What is Edging? By Amanda Chatel originally appeared on Rumble & Buzz

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