LELO Soraya Wave

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SORAYA WAVE is the world’s most luxurious rabbit massager offering a full-body orgasmic experience.

Feel the power of sexual wellness featuring ultra-powerful vibrations for clitoral stimulation, a pulsating tip for deeply satisfying G-spot sensations and patented WaveMotion technology that rises and falls within you like the caress of a lover’s fingers.

Soraya Wave is a triple threat that leaves a tidal wave climax crashing over you again, and again, and again.

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Get to Know Soraya Wave:

Toe Curling WaveMotion Technology – Inspired by the caress of a lover’s fingers, Soraya Wave’s sculpted tip surges in a come-hither motion like no other vibrator, reaching your G-spot with ease

Ergonomic External Stimulator – Fully flexible external arm with ultra-powerful vibrations that offers clitoral stimulation for all body types

Extra-Soft Silicone – Ultra smooth premium silicone that’s soft to the touch. LELO classic body-safe silicone design is hygienic and allows for deeply fulfilling pleasure.

Fully Waterproof & Rechargeable – Using the supplied USB charging cable, Soraya Wave can go wherever you go, and the smooth, waterproof design is incredibly easy to clean.

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Additional info:

  • Easy 3-Button interface
  • Li-Ion 850mA 3.7V battery
  • 2 Hour charge provides up to 2 hours of playtime
  • Up to 90 Day standby
  • 1 Year warranty + 10 year quality guarantee provided by LELO
  • Silicone and ABS
  • 8.58” (4.3” insertable) x 2.83” x 1.81”

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In the Box:

  • Soraya Wave
  • USB-Charging Cord
  • Satin Storage Pouch
  • Warranty Registration Card
  • Detailed Instruction Manual

 

People of Holiday: Gracie Obadele

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In her 22 years in the wholesale distribution sector of the pleasure product industry, Senior Account Manager Gracie Obadele has found that the most rewarding part of the job is the great people she gets to connect with, including customers, coworkers, and manufacturer reps.

Her motto of “Be the best you. You know how to be and stay positive!” is part of what she’s known and loved for industry-wide.


How many years have you been in the Industry? With Holiday?

I have been in the industry for 22 years on June. I have had the privilege of being a Holiday employee for 9 years.

How did you get into the business?

I was working as a legal secretary and found it kind of boring, when my best friend (Angela Blackmon) called to tell me about her cool job in the industry and how her company was looking for a customer service rep. It sounded like fun and a bit of a challenge, so I decided to apply and see what it was about.

What challenges have you confronted in your career and how have you overcome them?

The challenges have been few and far between. Most of them have come recently with all the crazy industry changes that have come about, but still with trying to keep up with all the new people and technology, it’s still very minimal.

What is the most rewarding part of your job?

The most rewarding parts are the great people, constantly seeing new products developed, and having great friendships with co-workers, customers and all the fabulous industry folks.

What is your personal motto or mantra that you live by? 

Be the best you. You know how to be and stay Positive!

What career accomplishment are you most proud of? 

All of them, too many to list, I’m super proud of my whole industry life and service.

What are your professional goals for 2020 (and beyond)?

My biggest goal for 2020 at this point is staying healthy through this Pandemic, and getting back to normal, so we can all be #togethertogether and not #alonetogether really soon.

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Step up your sex life!

The iVibe Select iRing features 10 powerful settings and multiple design features to optimize and elevate your game in the bedroom.

When used with a partner, it maintains clitoral contact during penetration, and when used solo, it massages the perineum.

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The soft silicone ring stretches to comfortably squeeze a shaft for a stronger, harder erection while the nubbed texture, curved design, and strategically angled motor provide unbelievable stimulation.

The USB rechargeable iVibe Select iRing is splashproof for easy care and cleanup.

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Features:

  • Vibrating cockring
  • Soft, Stretchable Premium Silicone
  • 10 Vibrating Functions
  • Designed for Couples Play
  • Angled to Maintain Clitoral Contact During Penetration
  • Stimulating Textured Surface
  • Perineum Stimulator Heightens Sensation
  • Simple Push-Button Control
  • Delays Ejaculation and Prolongs Erection
  • Enhances Size and Thickness
  • Splashproof
  • USB Rechargeable – Cable Included
  • 60 Minute Charge Provides Up to 90 Minutes of Playtime
  • Hypoallergenic, Nonporous, and Odorless
  • Phthalate-Free, Body-Safe
  • 1 Year Warranty Provided by Doc Johnson
  • Silicone
  • 4.5” overall x 1.8”

The Ultimate Guide to Temperature Play

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So, what exactly is temperature play? Sex expert Kasandra Brabaw gives the complete 101.

Imagine plucking an ice cube from a bowl beside your bed, rubbing your fingers around the cube to warm it up, and then dripping the ice-cold water on your partner’s nipples, down their stomach, and onto their genitals. This is the image most people probably conjure when they think of temperature play, the act of using heat or cold during sex.

But, as hot (and cool!) as playing with ice can be, there’s a lot more you can do with temperature, ranging from simple beginner tips to hardcore and slightly dangerous (which we don’t recommend unless you’re an expert!).

What is Temperature Play?

Why bother with heat and cold in the first place? Just like replacing the head of your wand massager with a silicone texture cover can make it feel like a whole new sex toy, temperature play can make your typical sex routine feel fresh. It’s all about the sensations.

So, pro-tip, try combining temperature play with sensory deprivation. Take our sexy ice cube scene from above, and add a satin blindfold. When you cut off the receiving partner’s vision, they’ll be able to pinpoint their focus on the feeling of the ice, making the sensation even more intense.

Sounds like your kind of fun? Here are 7 great ways to get started with temperature play:

  1. Heat or cool your sex toys

Your trusty sex toy is the perfect way to incorporate some hot and cold temperatures into both your partnered and solo sex. While toys made of materials that conduct heat and cold well will create more intense temperatures — like stainless steel or glass sex toys — but silicone sex toys work, too.

Pro tip: Place your toy against your wrist to check that it’s a comfortable temperature for you or your partner. You don’t want to stick a piping hot or Arctic chilly sex toy inside of your body!

 

  1. Grab some ice cubes

Ice is maybe the easiest option when it comes to temperature play. All it takes is grabbing a few cubes from your ice tray. You can drip melted ice water over your partner’s body. You can put the ice cube in your mouth and. then go down on your partner or run your icy tongue along their erogenous zones. Or you can rub the ice cube itself around your partner’s nipples, on their necks, over their lips, and on their genitals.

  1. Warm your mouth up

Temperature play and tongues are an ideal match. All it takes to make your mouth warmer than usual is a cup of hot tea or coffee. Drink your hot beverage right before going down on your partner and see how the new sensation makes them feel.

Be careful: If you’re using coffee or tea to warm your mouth before oral sex, you’ll need to drink it black. Sugar in the genital area can cause yeast infections, and trust me, no one wants that!

 

  1. Use a cooling or warming lube

There are lubes for just about everything, and that includes temperature play. Sensation lubes like the Wicked Toy Breeze (a cooling lube for sex toys) or the Wicked Toy Fever (a warming lube for sex toys) are handy essentials to keep by your bedside.

 

  1. Try a massage candle

Massage candles are specifically formulated to burn at lower temperatures than regular wax candles. Plus, they melt into a delicious-smelling oil that you can rub into your partner’s skin for a sensual massage.

Take note: While massage candles are cooler than a candle you’d find in a department store, that doesn’t mean they aren’t hot — they’re just much less likely to burn your skin. So grab your favorite scent and settle in a for a hot night, literally. You can even use your Le Wand to massage the oil into the skin!

 

  1. Use ice cream, whipped cream, or another tasty treat

Another great combo for temperature play? Food play. Simply open your fridge or freezer and grab any cool treat you want in your mouth or on your body and go to town.

But, again, if you’re choosing a sugary food like ice cream or whipped cream, then make sure to keep it away from your or your partner’s genitals to avoid a yeast infection.

  1. Drip hot wax

And finally, we get into the more intense temperature play. If you’re using a regular candle, and not a massage oil candle like the one above, wax play can be dangerous. If you’re not careful, you could burn your skin with too-hot wax. Be sure to test your boundaries and start slowly. Start with wax that burns at lower temperatures, like soy or paraffin candles, and drop the wax from higher distances (it’ll cool down as it falls through the air). Once you get more comfortable, you can try a wax with a higher melting point, like beeswax or palm. You can also drop the wax closer to the body, which will make the heat more intense.


The Ultimate Guide to Temperature Play By Kasandra Brabaw originally appeared on Rumble & Buzz

Naughty Bits Rechargeables by CalExotics

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Embrace your naughty side with Naughty Bits. These fun nightstand products will nightstand out from the rest! Naughty Bits is designed to put a smile on your face before and after use.

The range offers battery powered and rechargeable styles, and today we’ll be looking at the rechargeable items.

Ombre Hombre is a rechargeable, glittered silicone vibrating dildo that’s as flexible as it is versatile

Bad Bitch Lipstick Vibe offers discrete style and a powerful tungsten motor.

Lit Clit Teenie Weenie Wand has a lux metallic gold geometric print design on its smooth black silicone.

Shake Your Ass Petite Vibrating Butt Plug offers a classic shape with a gemstone power button.

Just The Tip Bullet Vibrator is small but mighty and features a floral print over polished ABS.

W.I.L.F Wand I’d Like to Fuck features a flexible head and striking navy leaf pattern over a coral silicone backdrop.

Horny AF Vibrating Cock Ring enhancer ring is made to thrill with 10 functions of vibration and teasing nub shape

Each rechargeable Naughty Bits offers 10 functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation, is waterproof, and offers TONS of style with elements like sparkles, metallic accents, and printed designs. Plus, they are all covered by CalExotics’ 1 Year warranty.


Ombre Hombre Vibrating Dildo

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The Naughty Bits Ombré Hombre Vibrating Dildo is a soft, life-like penis-shaped vibe with a sparkling glitter finish and 10 intense functions of vibration that will make you shine inside and out. The real-feel dong is ready for playtime with the probe friendly base and flexible silicone.

Get playful while you flick through 10 indulgent vibration, pulsation and escalation functions with the easy-touch control button. The flexible, yet rigid shaft and soft supple base deliver a truly realistic penetration experience.

The flanged base has a sturdy suction cup that can be used in a harness or mounted to a flat surface for sensation hands-free fun.

The brilliant glitter finish and real-feel design of this daring dong will make even the most stylish lover smiling before and after.

The USB rechargeable Ombre Hombre Vibrating Dildo is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

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Features:

  • Shine inside with this vibrating glitter dildo!
  • Soft, life-like dong with glittered finish
  • 10 functions of intense vibration, pulsation and escalation
  • Body safe Silicone
  • State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
  • Easy push-button control – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cord included
  • 2.5 Hour charge provides up to 1 hour of playtime
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
  • Silicone with glittery finish
  • 5.25” x 1.5”

 

Bad Bitch Lipstick Vibrator

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Watch as the Naughty Bits Bad Bitch Lipstick Vibrator throws your new favorite shade!

The dazzling gold lipstick design, 10 powerful vibration functions and whisper-quiet tungsten motor are made to thrill wherever your adventures take you.

The angled tip is made to deliver pinpoint stimulation or full-contact pulsation to your favorite pleasure points. Blushing beginners and erotic experts will adore the powerful vibrations the whisper-quiet motor put out. Indulge in 10 high-intensity functions of vibration with the sleek silicone button and hold for 3 seconds to turn on/off.

The Naughty Bits collection is made to stand out in any nightstand with eye-catching designs and orgasmic features. The ultra-plush silicone and sleek gold details of this gorgeous mini massager will make even the most stylish lover smiling before and after.

The USB rechargeable Bad Bitch Lipstick Vibrator is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

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Features:

  • Compact and discreet lipstick vibrator
  • Extremely powerful, whisper-quiet tungsten motor
  • 10 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation
  • State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
  • Easy push-button control – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
  • Security travel lock feature
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cord included
  • 2 Hour charge provides up to 2 hours of playtime
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
  • Silicone (tip, button) ABS with Metallic Plating (case)
  • 3” x 0.75” (lipstick)
  • 0.75” x 0.5” (stimulator)

 

Lit Clit Teenie Weenie Wand

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Keep it lit with the Lit Clit Teenie Weenie Wand!

This easy-to-operate mini wand is ready to get down and dirty wherever your passions take you with 10 functions of vibration, a flexible neck and compact design.

The mini wand massager fits between your fingers to let you deliver pinpoint tantalization and thrill with flexible vibrations. Get playful with 10 indulgent vibration, pulsation and escalation functions with the easy-touch control button.

The ultra-plush silicone and wide flexible head are great for exploring sensual sweet spots and intimate pleasure points with ease. Take your pleasure to-go with the travel lock feature by holding down the power button for 3 seconds to turn on/off.

The Naughty Bits collection is made to stand out in any nightstand with eye-catching designs and orgasmic features. The ultra-plush silicone and sleek gold details of this gorgeous mini massager will make even the most stylish lover smiling before and after.

The USB rechargeable Lit Clit Teenie Weenie Wand is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

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Features:

  • Easy-to-operate, rechargeable Silicone massager
  • Pinpoint stimulation and flexible neck
  • 10 functions of intense vibration, pulsation and escalation
  • State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
  • Security travel lock – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cord included
  • 2 Hour charge provides up to 2 hours of playtime
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
  • Silicone (massager) ABS with Gold Plating (décor)
  • 1.25” x 1.25” (head)
  • 3.75” x 1.25” (overall)

 

Shake Your Ass Petite Vibrating Butt Plug

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Shake and shimmy to the rhythmic vibrations of the Naughty Bits Shake Your Ass Petite Vibrating Butt Plug.

This bold probe has a contoured design and powerful vibe motor meant to flex with your movements while delivering knee-shaking stimulation with the touch of the gemstone button.

Indulge in personalized pleasure while the sleek probe pulsates with 10 vivacious vibration, passionate pulsation and erotic escalation. To ensure everything the exhilarating world of anal play has to offer, we have created a gently tapered probe for the ultimate in comfort and stimulation.

A flexible shape and flanged base allows for easy insertion and removal, while the intense motor make you shudder with pleasure.

The Naughty Bits collection is made to stand out in any nightstand with eye-catching designs and orgasmic features. The ultra-plush silicone and dazzling gemstone button of this gorgeous anal probe will make even the most stylish lover smiling before and after.

The USB rechargeable Shake Your Ass Petite Vibrating Butt Plug is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

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Features:

  • Premium Silicone rechargeable anal probe
  • 10 Functions of intense vibration, pulsation and escalation
  • Powerful motor located in the tip
  • Beautiful gem-inlaid controller
  • State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
  • Security travel lock – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cord included
  • 2 Hour charge provides up to 2 hours playtime
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
  • Silicone (massager) ABS (crystal)
  • 3.25” x 1.25” (probe)
  • 4.25 x 2” (overall)

 

Just The Tip Bullet Vibrator

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The Naughty Bits Just the Tip Bullet Vibrator is all you need to an orgasmically good time.

This easy-to-operate mini bullet is ready to get down and dirty wherever your passions take you with 10 functions of vibration, 100% play area and compact design.

The mini massager fits between your fingers to let you deliver pinpoint tantalization and thrill with rumbling vibrations. Get playful while you flicker through 10 indulgent vibration, pulsation and escalation functions with the easy-touch control button.

The Naughty Bits collection is made to stand out in any nightstand with eye-catching designs and orgasmic features. The feminine floral pattern and compact design of this gorgeous mini massager will make even the most stylish lover smiling before and after.

The slim massager discreet 3-inch size makes it the perfect travel companion, letting you embrace radiating pleasure wherever your fantasies take you. Take your pleasure to-go with the travel lock feature by holding down the power button for 3 seconds to turn on/off.

The USB rechargeable Just The Tip Bullet Vibrator is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

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Features:

  • Compact and discreet stimulator
  • 10 Functions of intense vibration, pulsation and escalation
  • State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
  • Security travel lock – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cord included
  • 30 Minute charge provides up to 2 hours of playtime
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
  • ABS (stimulator) Silicone (button, ring)
  • 2.5” x 0.75”

 

W.I.L.F Wand I’d Like to Fuck

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One glance at the Naughty Bits W.I.L.F Wand I’d Like To Fuck will make you shiver with anticipation.

The high-intensity personal massager will thrill you with the 10 functions of vibration, a wide flexible head and powerful motor.

Indulge in personalized pleasure while the curved shaft shimmies to the rhythm of 10 vivacious vibration, passionate pulsation and erotic escalation. Control this variety of orgasmic options with the easy-touch control pad.

The Naughty Bits collection is made to stand out in any nightstand with eye-catching designs and orgasmic features. The ultra-plush silicone and sleek gold details of this gorgeous mini massager will make even the most stylish lover smiling before and after.

The USB rechargeable W.I.L.F Wand I’d Like to Fuck is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

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Features:

  • High-intensity Silicone wand massager
  • 10 functions of intense vibration, pulsation and escalation
  • Uniquely textured for maximum pleasure
  • Luxurious body safe Silicone
  • State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
  • Easy push-button control – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cord included
  • 2.5Hour charge provides up to 3 hours of playtime
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
  • Silicone (massager) ABS (décor)
  • 8.5” x 1.75”

 

Horny AF Vibrating Cock Ring

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Get in the mood with the Naughty Bits Vibrating Cock Ring!

This stretchy and comfortable vibrating enhancer ring is made to thrill with 10 functions of vibration and teasing nub shape. The powerful pleasure ring is perfect for blushing beginners or erotic experts looking to turn the heat up.

The luxurious Silicone ring works wonders to maximize stamina and increase girth to make your lover moan for more. Increased blood flow means sensitivity throughout the penis increases as well, letting men enjoy longer, more powerful pleasure.

The ergonomically designed stimulator and nubbed teasers pinpoints intense vibrations on sensual sweet spots. Use the easy touch control button to effortless increase intensity for an orgasmically good time.

This astonishing ring knows exactly what you want by using a state-of-the-art memory chip to pick up on the last function used. Use the sleek profile easy-touch silicone buttons to effortlessly control pleasure.

The USB rechargeable Horny AF Vibrating Cock Ring is waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

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Features:

  • Stretchy and comfortable vibrating enhancer
  • Enhances stimulation for you and your partner
  • Added teasers and nubs for extra stimulation
  • 10 functions of intense vibration, pulsation and escalation
  • Luxurious body safe Silicone
  • State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
  • Easy push-button control – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cord included
  • 1 Hour charge provides up to 80 minutes of playtime
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics
  • Silicone (enhancer) ABS with Silver Plating (décor)
  • 3” x 2.5” (enhancer)
  • 1” (diameter – ring)

Neva Nude Fashion Face Masks

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Whether you’re partying on the playa or being a conscientious civilian keeping those cooties at bay, Neva Nude has you covered night and day!

Neva Nude DMs get an A+ for fashionable face coverage that is both comfy and cool!

These masks are made with a flexible elastic trim with an easy looping structure for both quick covers and rapid releases.

Hand selected, breathable fabrics allow you to take a deep breath, don your dystopian best, and head out into this Brave New World.

Features:

  • 30 Styles to choose from
  • Comfortably cover nose, mouth, and chin – it’s like a hug for half of your face!
  • Amazing selection of fabrics and freaking awesome designs allow you to look like a dystopian dream!
  • Not intended for medical use, but may help prevent transmittal of gross germs and cooties!
  • Stretchy elastic trim allows for quick coverage and rapid release without giving you dumbo ears.
  • Black liner provides maximal breathability and can even double as a reversible look. NAILED IT!
  • MADE IN USA – FEMALE OWNED AND OPERATED, BOOYAH!
  • Each mask is handmade and therefore unique!
  • Hand wash, lay flat to dry

The Importance of Self-Care for Professionals

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It’s been amazing to see the resiliency at every level of our industry. Stores and distributors have had to quickly close their doors to weather out the storm, with employees being furloughed until they are able to re-open. Some can stay open by carrying essential items like medical devices such as hand sanitizer or lubricants. Stores that can stay open are having to host customers with extensive social distancing and sanitizing measures. Some manufacturers have been able to quickly modify their production to incorporate hand sanitizers to fill the giant void mass-market production has left on store shelves across the country. I don’t think my family has ever been prouder of me than when I was able to tell them that hand sanitizer was on the way! Both manufacturers and retailers are working tirelessly and in tandem to ensure that we not only preserve our industry but continue to bring incredibly important wellness items to the end consumer.

With people being at home full-time, self-love and promoting self-love is becoming more important than it has ever been. It frustrates me to see the social media memes shaming and insisting people not cut or color their own hair for example. I know that these memes and content are meant for fun and cosmetologists may not look forward to color correcting, but to me they are missing the big picture. We need to encourage people to take care of themselves, to love themselves more than ever, and most importantly practice self-forgiveness when we feel scared or anxious.

In my mind our industry sets the example of what self-love looks like, primarily through branding and marketing content. We use imagery to show how our products will make someone look and feel desirable, that they are wanted. We show products that will make us feel strong and powerful, give us confidence and skills as lovers or partners. We continually create couples’ products to keep intimacy alive and sexual relationships healthy and fun. These are all super important and integral parts to adult business, but they stray a bit from what matters most. Self love.

The #selflove hashtag on Instagram currently has 40.3 million tags to give you an idea of how many people are talking about it. I agree that self-love can be a bit of a catch-all phrase, and gimmicky when used in poor taste. Self-love and self-loving campaigns have never been more important. Evidently it takes a pandemic to come around and make some of us see the importance of such a simplistic phrase. We are all at home practicing social distancing and learning to adjust both physically and mentally to the changes that come with being home a lot. Now is the time to get engaged in the self-love movement, and it isn’t just about vibrators!

Self-love by definition is the regard for one’s own well being or happiness, but so often that takes a back seat to whatever else is going on in our daily lives. As an industry we are poised to help people navigate self-love better than most. Not only that, but we recognize self-love isn’t just about vibrators and masturbating. It’s about processing feelings and thoughts we may not want to. It’s about forcing ourselves out for a walk when we want to lie in bed. It’s deciding it’s OK to color your own hair because the only person you need to make happy in this moment, is you. It’s about recognizing that output does not equal worth, and that we are all worthy of the love we owe ourselves.

Before working in this industry, I can be honest that I was not able to articulate for myself to others what I wanted physically or emotionally. I know I’m not alone; I also know I’m fortunate to have been educated working with all of you that I have learned to speak my words. I’ve learned how to recognize wants and needs, and how to ask for them. We teach people that, it’s amazing. We instill confidence, teach vocabulary and provide tools for others to learn these same skills. We pay it forward not because it’s our job, but because we love what we do. We teach self-love to others because it’s something we’ve learned; we often don’t give ourselves enough credit. I’ve been in stores and heard the heartfelt and honest conversations our retailers are having with customers, and my heart breaks each time I hear shame and confusion. We don’t recognize how much each of has personally overcome to pay it forward and help others, but it’s amazing when you think about it.

Our industry will continue to develop and adapt through this pandemic from a business perspective. We will rally and help each other until we eventually see the light at the end of the tunnel, whenever that is. In the meantime, may we be kinder and gentler to ourselves to show others self-love is OK. May our sex positivity and body positivity be as strong as the self-love we need to support them.


The Importance of Self-Care for Professionals by Danielle Seerley originally appeared in XBIZ

 

Zumio E High-Precision Oscillating Clitoral Stimulator

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Zumio’s new model E features an innovative design for high precision exploration with rotation, not vibration.

Whereas the models X and S function with circular rotation, varying in intensity, the Zumio E offers a “new spin” on exploration.

The Zumio E features a curved, rigid stem and small asymmetrical SpiroTip tip that offers high precision stimulation, without the buzzing or numbing sensation sometimes caused by vibration. These features, coupled with Zumio E’s high-impact black casing, are certain to appeal to a wide variety of consumers.

Zumio E features eight speeds for customizable pleasure and is 100 percent waterproof. Just like models X and S, Zumio E has been specially designed to adjust its intensity depending on the amount of pressure that’s applied. Push gently for rapid rotation and intensity, or push harder for slower, deeper, and more intense stimulation.


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Exploration with Rotation, Not Vibration

Unlock new sensations with Zumio E, the only toy that uses ELLIPTICAL rotation – not vibration – to deliver pinpoint stimulation exactly where you want it.

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Zumio E’s curved, rigid metal stem and precision SpiroTip deliver an intense stimulation, while its elliptical pattern, 8 speeds, and pressure-sensitivity put you in complete control of your pleasure.

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Get to know Zumio E:

Elliptical Rotation: Zumio E’s stem creates a unique elliptical rotation that allows you to vary the sensation depending on how you hold the toy.

Intensity: Zumio E has a rigid metal stem and precision tip, providing a uniquely intense experience.

Rotation, not Vibration: Zumio’s rotating motion provides stimulation without the numbing or buzzing sensation that vibration can cause. Also, you’ll never feel any unwanted vibration in the handle.

Solo Use: Zumio is designed to let you explore your body like never before. Thanks to its precision tip and fully customizable intensity, you’ll be able to discover new sensations and pleasure points.

Partner Use: Zumio’s small size and ergonomic handle make it perfect to use during foreplay or intercourse, allowing you to deliver pleasure when and where you want it most.

Pressure Sensitive: Zumio’s mechanical design adjusts the intensity based on the pressure you apply. Push gently for rapid rotation and intensity, or push harder for slower, deeper, and more intense stimulation.

Customizable Pleasure: Zumio has 8 speeds you can choose from using the simple and intuitive controls.

Submersible: Zumio is 100% waterproof, which means you can safely enjoy it in the bath or shower.

Perfect for Travel: Zumio’s Travel lock feature and safer battery technology go well in your carry-on luggage.

One-Year Warranty: Enjoy Zumio with confidence knowing it’s backed by a comprehensive one-year warranty.


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A Totally Natural Experience

Zumio’s inventor understood that self-pleasure needs to feel natural and intuitive. Our ability to adapt the speed and pressure of our own motions is so instinctive, we don’t even realize we’re doing it. This is what makes Zumio so special. The precision SpiroTip mimics the rotational movement of a finger, and its pressure sensitivity adjusts the depth and speed of the stimulation as if it was reading your mind – all without needing to adjust a single control.

Selecting Your Zumio

At the heart of every Zumio you’ll find the same long-lasting battery, pressure-sensitive assembly, and powerful motor that delivers exploration with rotation, not vibration – but that’s just half the story. What makes each model different is its unique stem and tip design:

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Zumio X

  • Rotation Pattern: Circular
  • Stem: Long, straight, and slightly flexible
  • Tip: Medium sized sphere
  • The Result: A more intense experience and uniform feel when held at different angles

Zumio S

  • Rotation Pattern: Circular
  • Stem: Short, straight, and slightly flexible
  • Tip: Large sized sphere
  • The Result: A less intense experience and uniform feel when held at different angles

Zumio E

  • Rotation Pattern: Elliptical
  • Stem: Long, curved and rigid
  • Tip: Small, round and slightly spoon-shaped
  • The Result: High-precision stimulation and variable feel depending on how it’s positioned

Can I Become Addicted to My Vibrator?

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The simple answer to this question is NO, you cannot become addicted to your vibrator.

Merriam-Webster defines addiction as a “compulsive need for and use of a habit-forming substance (such as heroin, nicotine, or alcohol) characterized by tolerance and by well-defined physiological symptoms upon withdrawal.”

First of all, vibration is not a substance, it is a tool to enhance an experience. While you may enjoy and look forward to the release of feel-good chemicals as a result of orgasm, these are beneficial substances from a healthy source which will not bring you harm. It is akin to the feel-good chemicals released by walking in nature on a beautiful, sunny day.

Next, you will not become tolerant to and need increased amounts of vibe in order to orgasm, although, you may respond best to a certain vibration intensity.

Lastly, use of vibration will not produce withdrawal symptoms. Instead, what you are likely to experience is increased desire to have sex, because good sex begets more good sex!

Vibrator addiction is a myth


Will too much vibe ruin me for non-vibe orgasms?

Rest assured, you will not alter your pleasure nerves with vibration. While numbness from prolonged vibration in one spot at any given play-session can occur (hence, the suggestion not to use the vibe for more than 15 minutes at a time), the numbness subsides when the vibe is taken away.

There is no right or wrong way to experience an orgasm. The way you enjoy them is up to you. Give yourself permission to take advantage of technology and its many benefits, just as you do in your nonsexual daily activities. For example, you can blend heavy cream with a spoon, or you can use an electric mixer…but it will form stiff peaks easier and faster with electric beaters. Get the picture? The choice is yours.

 

What if vibration is the only way I can orgasm?

That is fantastic! Better to orgasm than not.

Some people are only able to orgasm with vibration, such as people with nerve impairment from spinal cord injuries, Multiple Sclerosis and Diabetes. Sometimes menopausal women will experience shorter, and less intense orgasms.  These people need extra stimulation (and the intensity of vibration seems to fit the bill) to elicit orgasms and there is no shame in that.

 

So, what is the issue?

More often than not, the real issue is that the partner feels left out. Their ego demands that they must give their partner an orgasm in order to be a good lover. But truly, orgasm is the responsibility of the person experiencing it and not the responsibility of their mate.

That said, partners can be invited to assist. Additionally, they can be reassured that there are other vital things they can do…like holding their partner, gazing into their eyes, talking to them, and letting their partners know that they are exciting and loved.

 

Suggestions

If you are bothered by the inability to experience an orgasm without vibe, try removing orgasm as the goal and avoid the usual mode of stimulation that rushes you to a quick orgasm. The problem is that we become so used to quick and predictable responses that we get frustrated and give up if they take longer than expected. So, stay out of your head and merely focus on the enjoyable sensations happening in your body. Slow down, experiment, and let pleasure be your guide.

Use your hands to explore what feels good. If in a relationship, allow your partner to manually and orally pleasure you, giving them explicit instructions on what turns you on. After experimenting, if you then need vibe to send you over the edge to orgasm, by all means, use it. Show your partner how it is done, and if mutually desired, allow them the pleasure of using the vibe on you.

 

Let go of shame! Enjoy your orgasms regardless of how they are experienced.


Can I Become Addicted to My Vibrator? Originally appeared on Rumble & Buzz

Tremble Dual Density Massagers with Body Resonating Motors by CalExotics

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Feel the energy and put seismic pleasure in the palm of your hand.

The body resonating motor sends vibrations deeper into the surface of your skin to reach the entire clitoris, including the parts you don’t see.

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The Ultra-Soft dual-density silicone and soft, flexible body are great for exploring sensual sweet spots and intimate pleasure points with ease.

Get playful with 10 indulgent vibration, pulsation and escalation functions with the easy-touch control button. Effortlessly control pure pleasure with an easy-touch silicone button and hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off.

All Tremble vibes feature:

  • Ultra-Soft dual-density Silicone
  • Body resonating motor
  • 10 Seismic functions of rumbling vibration, pulsation and escalation
  • State-of-the-art memory chip resumes on last function used
  • Easy to operate single power button
  • Security travel lock – hold for 3 seconds to turn on or off
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable – charging cord included
  • 1 Year warranty provided by CalExotics

Tremble Tickle

Tremble Tickle

With rumbling vibrations and a flickering tongue tip, the Tremble Tickle is made for fluttering pleasure.

4” x 1.5” (massager)

5” x 1.5” (overall)

 

Tremble Tease

Tremble Tease

With deep, rumbling vibrations and a round, bulb-like tip, the Tremble Tease is made for pinpointing complete pleasure.

3.75” x 1.25” (massager)

4.75” x 1.5” (overall)

 

Tremble Please

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With rumbling vibrations and a fluttering rabbit teaser, the Tremble Please is made for deeply satisfying pleasure.

3” x 1.25” (massager)

1.25” x .75” (stimulator)

4.75” x 1.5” (overall)

 

Tremble Kiss

tremble Kiss

With rumbling vibrations and a full coverage body, the Tremble Kiss is made for total arousal.

3.5” x 2.5” (massager)

4.75” x 2.5” (overall)