Limited Edition Unlimited Pleasure Gift Box by Svakom

From teasing to hard play and everything in between, the Limited Edition Unlimited Pleasure Gift Box is a BDSM kit that will redefine your fantasies and allow you and your partner unleash your full seductive potential. . . Ready to play?

The SVAKOM Limited Edition BDSM Gift Box is here to transform your holiday season and fill it with flavor and flare.

Featuring an exclusive selection of sex toy + BDSM kit, this decadent box was designed to make every moment count and inspire you to keep exploring your limits from beginning to end.

Included in the set is the Phoenix Neo Interactive App Control Bullet Vibrator, which is a total art piece that blends technology and sophistication into one smart toy, ready to elevate your pleasure at any given moment, no matter where you are, with its intelligent APP functions and delicate design.

The Svakom Limited Edition Unlimited Pleasure gift box was designed to make every moment count and inspire you to keep exploring your limits from beginning to end–the perfect gift to bring you closer.

The kit features Phoenix Neo–an interactive, app-controlled bullet vibrator, handcuffs, a blindfold and a feather tickler/crop.

Features:

  • Gift box with a bullet vibrator + BDSM kit
  • Handcuffs with detachable chain
  • 2-in1 Feather tickler and a crop
  • Eye mask
  • Textured G-spot vibrating bullet
  • 11 vibration settings
  • Can be controlled using the app from anywhere in the world
  • Interactive video and webcam function
  • The illuminating LED lights on the tail will sync to the vibrations for visual display
  • Waterproof for play in bath or shower
  • Magnetic USB rechargeable
  • Made from body-safe silicone
  • Size of Phoenix Neo: 118 x 32 x 116.3 mm; Weight: 70 g

The Special Edition Line from Sportsheets

The Special Edition line from Sportsheets revamps a selection of four of the company’s classic products to bring customers new features and added benefits.

Special Edition items accommodate a larger range of bodies, increase pleasure and are versatile for additional ways to play.

The Door Jam Sex Sling includes a detachable Dildo and Bullet Anchor Pad, padded seat and foot supports for extra comfort.

The Under the Bed Restraint Set offers comfort with style with the addition of golden hardware including six durable, double sided clasps.

The New Comer’s Strap On Set can now accommodate hips up to 72” and comes with an interchangeable O-ring so couples can swap out dildos. A built-in pocket in the front panel makes space for a bullet.

The Cuffs and Blindfold Set of high-quality faux leather bondage cuffs features golden buckles and connector clips. For heightened tension and sensuality, a blindfold in soft black satin is also included.

All Special Edition items come with Sportsheets’ limited lifetime warranty.

 

Door Jam Sex Sling – Special Edition

You won’t believe what you can do behind closed doors!

This Special Edition of Sportsheets’ classic Door Jam Sex Sling includes a detachable Dildo and Bullet Anchor Pad, padded seat and foot supports for extra comfort.

This luxe swing offers multiple sexual positioning options for standing, sitting and tilting, making it versatile for everyone. To use, simply place the small metal bars of the strap over the top of your solid door, securely close the door and position the fully adjustable straps any way you want them.

To bring your play to another level, incorporate the detachable anchor pad with your favorite flare based dildo (not included) and up to four bullet vibes (not included). Supports up to 325 pounds.

Pair with your favorite suction cup dildo to complete a swing fantasy solo.

Special Edition Door Swing fits over solid door. Supports weight up to 325 pounds. Allows multiple positions for partners, including “weightless sex.” Sling length is adjustable in the seat and foot supports.

Features:

  • Detachable Dildo and Bullet Anchor Pad with 2″ fixed O-Ring and four pockets for bullet vibes
  • Padded seat 32″ wide by 12″ high
  • Padded foot supports
  • Handles with a golden finish
  • Limited Lifetime Warranty

In The Box:

  • Door Jam Sex Sling with 32″(81.28cm) x 12″(30.48cm) padded seat
  • Dildo and Bullet Anchor Pad with 4 bullet vibrator openings

 

Under the Bed Restraint Set – Special Edition

This Special Edition of the top selling Under the Bed Restraints takes play to another level.

Easily incorporate your favorite restraint products utilizing the two additional restraint straps, now totaling six.

Comfort with style is apparent with the addition of golden hardware including six durable, double sided clasps.

Incorporate the lush soft blindfold to add anticipation to play. To use, simply slide the straps underneath your mattress for an instant bondage bedroom. Position the straps around the head of the mattress or around the sides.

A strong nylon anchor connector strap slides under your mattress to secure six adjustable restraint straps. Four straps end in high-quality faux leather wrist and ankle cuffs with golden hardware while two are crafted with loops that promise leverage of all kinds. Position the straps around your mattress just the way you like them, tie your lover down tight, and slip the soft velvet blindfold over their eyes for a session full of surprises.

Features:

  • Fits any mattress
  • Easy to Install
  • Six adjustable restraint straps
  • Four high-quality faux leather wrist/ankle cuffs with buckle closure
  • All golden hardware
  • Six durable, double sided clasps
  • Thicker, more durable center connector strap
  • Added soft blindfold
  • Limited Lifetime Warranty

In The Box:

  • 4 Wrist/Ankle Cuffs
  • 6 60” (152cm) Adjustable Restraint Straps
  • 1 60.5” (154cm) Connector Strap
  • 6 Golden Double Ended Clasps
  • 1 Soft Blindfold

 

New Comer’s Strap On Set – Special Edition

The velvet-texture harness’s adjustable nylon straps ensure a perfect fit up to 72” (183cm) hips, while padded front and back panels protect your sensitive areas during vigorous play.

This set includes a slim, 5.25″ silicone dildo perfect for exploring, and secures via an interchangeable 1.25″ rubber O-Ring. A built-in pocket in the front panel makes space for your favorite bullet vibe (not included). The harness is machine washable making clean-up a breeze!

Compatible with dildos with a 1.25″ flared base. Lube and toy cleaner are your toy’s best friend to keep your toy in the best condition.

Perfect for any new comer to strap-on play! Padded for comfort and includes a slim, silicone dildo that’s ideal for new exploring couples.

Features:

  • Adjustable velvet-texture harness fits up to 72” (183cm) hips
  • Padded front and back panels
  • Includes slim 5.25” silicone dildo
  • Built-in pocket for your favorite vibe
  • Machine washable
  • Limited Lifetime Warranty

In The Box:

  • 4-Way adjustable harness fits up to 72″ hips (183cm)
  • Fixed rubber O Ring 1.25″ (3.2cm)
  • 5.25″ silicone dildo

 

Cuffs and Blindfold Set – Special Edition

These essential restraints are adorned with golden hardware including a buckle closure for adjustability. A connector clip on each cuff makes for versatile play, connect together, or to just about anything your heart desires! Incorporate the included satin blindfold for added excitement and anticipation during play.

Pair with your favorite fur flogger for more extreme sensory play. Lube and toy cleaner are your toy’s best friend to keep your toy in the best condition.

Suitable for both wrists and ankles at 10 inches long. This set of high-quality faux leather bondage cuffs features golden buckles and connector clips.

For heightened tension and sensuality, a blindfold in soft black satin is also included in this set.

These versatile restraints can be clipped to each other for traditional cuff binding, used with other sets for hog-tying, or separated and attached to accessories.

Features:

  • Suitable for both wrists and ankles
  • High-quality faux leather
  • Golden buckles and connector clips
  • Soft satin blindfold
  • Limited Lifetime Warranty

In The Box:

  • 2 – 10″ (25.4cm) adjustable cuffs
  • 1 satin blindfold

Boundless BDSM Collection For Everyone by CalExotics

Expand your product selection with the infinite possibilities of the Boundless collection from CalExotics.

Boundless is an assortment of BDSM products designed to provide unlimited possibilities for everyone!

Each piece is designed to set the scene for vast erotic adventures. All products are made with body-safe material and heavy-duty hardware for all types of play. You can find a variety of BDSM products within the collection, including an eye mask, ball gag, bar gag, ankle cuffs, wrist cuffs, collar and leash, hog tie, bed restraints and ropes.

Boundless Blackout Eye Mask

At a quick glance, to an undiscerning eye, the Boundless Blackout Eye Mask may look like a mere airplane sleeping mask, but take a peek behind the scenes to show exactly what this mask can do.

Ensuring total sensory deprivation of sight, while being constructed to fit with perfect comfort, the Blackout Eye Mask you precisely what you are “looking” for!

Designed to give you the total blackout experience you are seeking but without the itch or cutting discomfort you’ve read about (or felt!) elsewhere, this vegan-leather design ensures the humane treatment of you and your sex life, while giving you a soft, plushy interior for added comfort.

Built with everyone in mind, for singles or for couples, this double-padded, double-stitched, stretch-to-fit eye mask gives a comfortable-but-snug universal feel to enjoy as your greatest desires come true.

Features:

  • Designed for a total blackout experience
  • Stretch-to-fit eye mask
  • Soft and plushy interior with a vegan leather exterior
  • Double padded, double stitched
  • Functional, durable and textured design
  • PU (fabric) Polyester (lining, elastic, ribbon décor)

 

Boundless Collar with Leash

Looking for a “hot lead”? Better get a Boundless Collar with Leash!

This set spices up the kink, bringing into the bedroom a sturdy collar with a detachable leash. This fully adjustable collar comes with a secure buckle closure with a solid buckle design, giving the maximum possible restraint, with the ease of secure, quick adjustment when you need it.

For couples or individuals, the heavy-duty metal chain is designed for the most pure in fun. Universal clasps on a D-Ring frameset allow for adjustments and re-use of all kinds, while the plushy interior gives the wearer comfort, without the wrong kind of rub.

You’d never know how comfortable this collar is just by looking at the solid buckle design, the sturdy chain, and the double-stitched design, but while the double-padded, textured leather announces its presence, the fact that it is actually vegan leather does so in a cruelty-free way.

Features:

  • Sturdy collar with detachable leash
  • Fully adjustable with secure buckle closure
  • Heavy-duty metal chain
  • Universal clasps and D-rings with swivel design for full dexterity
  • Soft and plushy interior with a vegan leather exterior
  • Double padded, double stitched
  • Functional, durable and textured design
  • PU (fabric) Polyester (lining, ribbon décor)
  • Nickel-Free Iron (D-rings, rivets, chain) Nickel-Free Zinc Alloy (buckle, swivel clasp)
  • 19.5” (maximum collar circumference)

Boundless Ball Gag

Your Boundless Ball Gag is waiting for you!

This firm yet pliable, body-safe silicone ball is designed for maximum teeth protection, a tasteless design, and the double-stitched, vegan leather strap will ensure that your down and dirty adventures can occur securely– and cruelty-free.

The fully-adjustable buckles offer a secure closure for even the roughest of play.

For use by itself or with any other adult sex toys, this ball gag ensures complete control over the speech and sexual wellness of your submissive couple partner– or of yourself!

Features:

  • Firm and pliable, body-safe Silicone ball gag
  • Fully adjustable with secure buckle closure
  • Soft and plushy interior with a vegan leather exterior
  • Double padded, double stitched
  • Functional, durable and textured design
  • Silicone (ball) PU (fabric) Polyester (lining, ribbon décor)
  • Nickel-Free Iron (rivets) Nickel-Free Zinc Alloy (buckle)
  • 1.5” (diameter – ball)
  • 25.5” (maximum circumference)

Boundless Bar Gag

The Boundless Bar Gag is coming for you! The build of this bar gag is second to none. The firm yet pliable, body-safe silicone bar is designed for maximum teeth protection, a tasteless design, and the double-stitched, vegan leather strap will ensure that your bound-down adventures can occur both securely and cruelty-free.

Fully-adjustable buckles offer a secure closure for even the roughest of play, ensuring that this bar gag is NOT the experience or the adult toy which is on your mind during playtime.

For use by itself or with any other adult sex toys, this bar gag ensures complete control over the speech and sexual wellness of your submissive couple partner– or of yourself!

One of our most popular items and becoming more public by the year, the Boundless Bar Gag will give you the experience that so many have enjoyed for so long. There’s nothing weird about it. It’s just the world’s best bar gag!

Features:

  • Firm and pliable, body-safe Silicone bar gag
  • Fully adjustable with secure buckle closure
  • Soft and plushy interior with a vegan leather exterior
  • Double padded, double stitched
  • Functional, durable and textured design
  • Silicone (bar) PU (fabric) Polyester (lining, ribbon décor)
  • Nickel-Free Iron (rivets) Nickel-Free Zinc Alloy (buckle)
  • 3” x .75” (bar)
  • 25” (maximum circumference)

Boundless Wrist Cuffs

Just get on the bed and stay there in Boundless Wrist Cuffs.

These wrist cuffs can be bound together with a fully-flexible swivel design, maximizing restraint while minimizing discomfort and giving the wearer full dexterity. The cuffs are held together by detachable universal clasps, allowing you to attach these cuffs together or to any other surface of your choosing.

Buckle straps on the wrist cuffs ensure a totally secure, totally adjustable fit, exactly as tight as you want them to be, while being fun and comfortable to wear.

The high-quality cuffs are made to last even with the roughest play, being double-padded and double-stitched on a durable, textured design to let you know exactly who is in charge. The soft and plushy interior feels great, while the vegan-leather exterior shouts “”let’s get down to business””– cruelty free, of course.

The Boundless Wrist Cuffs truly are world-class, and second to none. Give them a try– if you dare.

Features:

  • Totally adjustable wrist cuffs with secure buckle closures
  • Universal clasps and D-rings with swivel design for full dexterity
  • Soft and plushy interior with a vegan leather exterior
  • Double padded, double stitched
  • Functional, durable and textured design
  • PU (fabric) Polyester (lining, ribbon décor)
  • Nickel-Free Iron (rivets, D-rings) Nickel-Free Zinc Alloy (buckles, swivel clasps)
  • 12” (maximum circumference – each cuff)

Boundless Ankle Cuffs

For those nights that need a few extra shades of grey, the Boundless Ankle Cuffs are exactly what you have been looking for.

The sturdy, double-padded, double-stitched design ensures the high-quality material is securely bound together, and the fully adjustable hook and loop design ensures that the user is, too. Universal clasps on a D-Ring structure with swivel design gives the user full dexterity while maximizing restraint and minimizing pain. Need some extra leg room? The fully-detachable clasps can be removed and attached to the chain or rings of your choice.

The soft and plushy exterior will make these sturdy restraints comfortable on the inside, and the textured vegan leather exterior commands attention in the most dominant way– cruelty-free, of course!

A truly sharable adult toy for couples or singles alike, these cuffs take the buckles off the belt and put them exactly where they should be. Spice up your sex life with the Boundless Ankle Cuffs.

Features:

  • Totally adjustable ankle cuffs with secure buckle closures
  • Universal clasps and D-rings with swivel design for full dexterity
  • Soft and plushy interior with a vegan leather exterior
  • Double padded, double stitched
  • Functional, durable and textured design
  • PU (fabric) Polyester (lining, ribbon décor)
  • Nickel-Free Iron (rivets, D-rings) Nickel-Free Zinc Alloy (buckles, swivel clasps)
  • 14” (maximum circumference – each cuff)

Boundless Hog Tie

If you are serious about exploring your sexual boundaries, the Boundless Hog Tie is the ultimate in adult toys. Bind your submissive partner with their hands and feet behind their back (or in the front) and take full advantage of their position.

The sturdy cuffs and ankle ties included are great for BDSM/Roleplay in full bondage, totally controlled by the dominant partner in the couple.

With 2 fully adjustable ankle cuffs and 2 fully adjustable handcuffs bound with Velcro-style hook and loop fasteners, this hog-tie also comes with universal clasps and o-rings with a swivel design for full dexterity and maximum comfort, while being totally bound.

The soft, plushy interior provides extreme comfort even while your extremities are pointed to the sky, and the vegan-leather exterior looks rough enough to play hard. The double-padded, double-stitched design doubles down on the comfort and rough play, ensuring that this high-quality product lasts for many nights to… come.

If you want to tone it down a bit, the Boundless Hog Tie also disassembles completely and may be used as individual wrist and ankle cuffs.

Features:

  • 4 totally adjustable wrist and ankle cuffs
  • Fully adjustable with Velcro style closures
  • Sturdy hog tie connector
  • Universal clasps and O-rings with swivel design for full dexterity
  • Soft and plushy interior with a vegan leather exterior
  • Double padded, double stitched
  • Functional, durable and textured design
  • Disassembles completely and may be used as individual wrist and ankle cuffs
  • PU (fabric) Polyester (lining, ribbon décor, Velcro)
  • Nickel-Free Iron (O-rings, D-rings) Nickel-Free Zinc Alloy (swivel clasps)
  • 16” (maximum circumference – each cuff)

Boundless Bed Restraint

Beware: The Boundless Bed Restraint may tie up your evenings for a long time to come!

This set comes with wrist and ankle cuffs that offer velcro-style closures and universal claps, ensuring maximum comfort and restraint.

The very-sturdy, adjustable securing straps wrap beneath nearly any size bed mattress, ensuring that the sub is bound to the will of the dom. As one of the rising adult toy product categories, BDSM sex toys have seen a surge in the pleasure products community, releasing people of their pent-up tensions in the most sexual ways possible.

Each of the double-padded, double-stitched wrist cuffs and each of the ankle cuffs are detachable and can be used as individual cuffs, and the soft, plushy interior makes sure that even when someone is completely bound down, they aren’t focusing on any discomfort– they are focusing on their dominant partner and the experience unfurling before them, instead. Built to last, the sturdy universal clasps and O-rings with a swivel design further care for the subs dexterity and comfort, while offering full restraint.

The Boundless Bed Restraint is easily hidden for those visiting guests with wandering eyes. But perhaps, someone needs to be taught a lesson.

Features:

  • 4 totally adjustable and detachable wrist or ankle cuffs with Velcro style closures
  • 4 sturdy, adjustable tethers to fit most mattresses
  • May be used under any bed or as individual tethers
  • Universal clasps and O-rings with swivel design for full dexterity
  • Soft and plushy interior with a vegan leather exterior
  • Double padded, double stitched
  • Functional, durable and textured design
  • PU (fabric) Polyester (lining, ribbon décor, Velcro straps)
  • Nickel-Free Iron (O-rings, rivets) Nickel-Free Zinc Alloy (swivel clasps) POM (adjusters)
  • 63” (each tether)
  • 16” (maximum circumference – each cuff)

Boundless Rope – 32.75’/10 m

BDSM couples can completely exhaust themselves in excitement, using the rope to create amazing human art pieces, binding hands, feet, torsos, and entire bodies in beautiful webbing– all as the sub waits, and remains at their complete mercy.

This restraint will help rope in the desires of couples, chaining you to your animalistic cores– no judgement here. This is Boundless territory, after all.

This body-safe, multi-purpose rope is designed with a 70% Cotton / 30% Polyester blend to have a sturdy hold while still being soft and comfortable against the skin. After all, the purpose is domination, not to inflict pain. The Nickel-Free Zinc Alloy caps top the rope off with a fray-free solution, while maintaining the seriousness of the situation.

Features:

  • Body-safe, multi-purpose rope
  • Made for a sturdy hold
  • Soft and comfortable against the skin
  • Functional and durable design
  • 70% Cotton, 30% Polyester (rope) Nickel-Free Zinc Alloy (caps)
  • 32.75 feet

Has the Pandemic Cause a BDSM Toys Sales Boom?

This year has been full of changes for everyone, including shifts in our intimacy and sex lives. People have had to adapt to the new realities of their own relationships during the pandemic, which has led people to become more creative with how they experience intimacy and sex. According to a survey done by Psychology Today, about one in five people reported expanding their sexual repertoire during the pandemic. With my experience as an adult store retailer, I have noticed that these consumers who are looking to improve their intimacy and sex lives have turned to BDSM for these ideas. This is because BDSM has the ability to be practiced by anyone, anywhere and provides an escape through creatively deepening intimacy.

At one point or another, we have all looked for a distraction from what has been happening in the world, and for many, BDSM has been that escape. Utilizing BDSM in this way has given people the opportunity to better connect with their relationships and their partners. Participating in BDSM makes room for people to communicate, trust and consent in a way that “vanilla” sex and relationships may not always facilitate.

I’m not saying these conversations don’t happen, but it is found to be less common. Having these discussions beforehand can help focus people’s headspaces on their partners and on the activities they are engaging in. Practicing BDSM can also help deepen intimacy by engaging in power play or domme/sub relationships. This is due to one partner giving up some power to another in some way, and trusting that partner to make decisions for them (like how many cookies they can have) or expecting certain things from their sub (like calling their dominant by a certain title).

Another reason why BDSM has been more popular during the pandemic is because engaging in BDSM promotes more creativity in the bedroom because many BDSM items are very versatile and can be used together in many different types of play. For example, a consumer can use a simple sash to restrain someone, to gag someone, or to blindfold them. They may also use this item during foreplay, during sex, during a massage, during a spanking, and in many more ways! This spark of creativity that consumers get with BDSM helps them to focus on their relationships and sex rather than outside stressors by giving them ways to experience sex and intimacy as a creative outlet.

One of the best aspects about BDSM is that it can be done by anyone regardless of sexuality, gender, ability, or distance from partners. Since BDSM can be played with sexually and non-sexually, it opens the door to include people who fall on the asexual spectrum. For example, some people can play with rope bondage sexually by playing into the naughtiness of being restrained and incorporating it into sex or another sexual activity.

For others who may want to play with rope bondage non-sexually, they can be tied up and focus more on the intimacy aspect of it and giving up control to their partner who is tying them up. For some, this may cause an almost meditative state and help them relax by promoting a feeling of closeness, security and trust with their partners. With almost all BDSM play, there is a way to engage in it sexually and non-sexually, which can benefit many relationship styles by promoting creativity and intimacy for all.

According to a survey done by BDSM dating app KinkD, the top three kinks during the pandemic are: virtual sex, dom/sub, and orgasm control. Due to the pandemic, more people have been engaging in long-distance relationships and have been experiencing sex and intimacy through sexting, video chat and teledildonics. Many consumers have been interested in incorporating BDSM into their long-distance relationships, and teledildonics is the biggest contributor to that. Teledildonics has been one of the bestselling product categories during the pandemic. These toys can be used at any distance and usually have secure in-app chats and video chats for consumers to use. These toys have also helped introduce people to the idea of power play because of the toy’s ability to be completely controlled by another partner. This introduction to long-distance power play has paved the way for other BDSM activities to be done through sexting and video chat. Introducing power play and BDSM to long-distance relationships has opened new doors to how people can experience sex or intimacy.

As a retailer, I have found BDSM has served a very important role to consumers with how they are playing with their partners during the pandemic. BDSM has provided an escape during a time at which they may have needed it most. It has risen in popularity during the pandemic because of its versatility and its ability to work for different types of people. BDSM has helped many people become more creative with their partners and has promoted a new way for people to experience intimacy.

Has the Pandemic Cause a BDSM Toys Sales Boom? by Brittany Greenberg originally appeared in XBIZ

What is BDSM really about? Your Guide to Debunking the Scary Stories Behind This Fun Way to Play

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Does the (in)famous acronym BDSM stir thoughts of spike-tipped whips, heavy-duty chains, and a stony medieval dungeon lit by torches that illuminate an array of ancient torture devices? If so, you’re not alone.

But depending on what sort of kinky folks you speak to, this sort of outrageous fantasy could be right on the money, or so far from the truth that your kink-friendly conversation partner bursts into laughter.

What is BDSM?

BDSM, which stands for Bondage, Domination/Submission, Sadism, and Masochism, is a broad-reaching category of bedroom play that can range from the mild to wild, all depending on what each couple finds a sexy, hot turn-on.

People who regularly practice BDSM in any form (or many forms!) are known as “lifestylers”, especially when they heavily interact and socialize with other BDSM lovers, often forming a community of like-minded individuals who discuss kinky play and sometimes get down with other partners or couples.

The BDSM label can apply to many types of sexual play that fall outside of the vanilla genre. Vanilla generally refers to sexual intercourse in the most simplistic manner — sans even the most beginners’ sort of kink toys, like furry handcuffs or a silky blindfold. Yes, this means that if you’ve ever blindfolded your partner with a soft tie or used your lacy panties to bind their hands above their head, you’ve engaged in a light version of BDSM.

Some couples actually enjoy the full Hollywood-style dungeon, complete with a wooden St. Andrew’s Cross to tie up their partner spread-eagle while they excitedly await an endorphin-releasing whipping. That’s because BDSM hinges on negotiation and consent, and the sexual variations can vary wildly from couple to couple.

BDSM and Consent

When couples’ practice active consent, it means they never attempt a sexual act without asking first, and they listen closely to their partner during sex just in case something that usually feels good happens to feel bad.

In BDSM, part of practicing consent involves negotiating the terms of the sexual encounter before any clothes come off and candles are lit.

These negotiated rules can be as firm as, “I don’t like being spanked, so please don’t ever spank me on any part of my body,” or someone can decide to give certain activities a try with the option to stop the scene if they become uncomfortable, either physically or mentally, like “Sometimes I like being penetrated with large sex toys, but I’ve never tried vaginal fisting before. Please go slow, use lots of lube, and I’ll tell you to stop if I don’t like it.”

Because exhilarating, consensual BDSM can take many forms, let’s look at some common aspects of this often misunderstood sexual niche that debunks all those scary and untrue stories you’ve probably heard over the years. Once you get past the rumors, you open up your partnership to a whole lot of kinky fun!

What is Bondage?

A tied-up tart is probably what immediately springs to mind when you think of BDSM. The B stands for Bondage, and it plays an undeniably huge role in most lifestylers’ playbooks.

Bondage can range from a loosely-wrapped tie around the wrists to those gorgeously intricate Shibari rope designs that you might have seen on the internet.

If you’re new to bondage, start simple with silk ties, easy-release handcuffs, or super-soft rope. If you’re both dying for more and want to make art with your rope work, get in touch with a professional rigger — a person who has had years of experience in safely tying and binding with a working knowledge of how anatomy plays into the whole thing.

If done incorrectly, super tight or otherwise body-bending bondage can cause serious injury and long-term nerve damage. We recommend staying away from the rougher stuff until you really know what you’re doing and have been supervised by a pro.

What is Domination & Submission?

The big D in BDSM stands for Domination, one of the core aspects of kinky play.

As you might have guessed, someone who identifies as a sexual dominant – referred to as a Dom with a capital D in vernacular – likes to be the person in charge in the bedroom.

The S stands for Submission, and unsurprisingly still, these folks like to be on the receiving end of domination. Some submissives – also called “subs” for short – simply like a partner that enjoys being on top or tying their hands to the bedposts.

Others need something more extreme to get off, like engaging in breath play or being bent over and spanked. Dominants can be just as expansive in their play preferences, and their favorite sex acts can range from using a sex toy on their partner while they writhe in ecstatic orgasm, or tightly cuffing their wrists and ankles and screwing them silly.

No matter how dominant and submissive partners choose to play, consent and proper communication underline everything that goes on from the moment both people decide that their play session, commonly called a “scene”, begins. The key is to only engage in  BDSM play with a partner you can trust and feel comfortable communication exactly how you feel.

Switching During BDSM

Not everyone feels drawn to only one category of BDSM identity. Many lifestylers switch back and forth between dominant and submissive roles, hence the basic term “switch”.

For monogamous kink couples, partners will swap bedroom roles depending on the day of the week, how they’re feeling at the moment, or sometimes all within a single round of sex. For polyamorous couples or those within open relationships, switches might enjoy acting out different BDSM roles with different partners based on their individual sexual chemistry and preferences.

What is Sadism & Masochism?

Now here’s where you might assume things get scary, but again, remember that nothing bad can happen when you play with a partner who listens to your needs and care about your well-being.

sadist – usually the dominant partner – feels sexually turned on by watching their partner squirm and wriggle from the metallic bite of a Whartenberg wheel or the crack of a paddle.

masochist – played by the submissive – gets off by having those sorts of intense acts done to them.

Just like any other part of BDSM, the level of discomfort or pain inflicted is pre-determined by both the Dom and sub before the actual play begins. Lighter forms of masochism and sadism can involve tickling, using a vibrator to tease your partner while they’re tied up, or lightly scratching them with your nails. More extreme forms can involve intense tickling until your partner begs you to stop, turn the vibrator up to its highest setting and ‘forcing’ your partner to orgasm until exhaustion, or scratching your partners back until you draw blood.

Because BDSM play can involve more than just the usual sexual bodily fluids exchanged between genitals – like blood, urine, or anal mucous – it’s imperative that everyone involved gets regular STD tests and discloses their test results with every single partner. The only folks who can get away with a one-off visit to the doctor are fully monogamous couples who remain committed and honest to their partners.

Impact Play

A popular part of BDSM is impact play, which is a fancy term for spanking and slapping.

Impact play can be dialed down or turned up depending on what feels good. There’s a reason that spanking feel good, besides making you feel like a naughty school kid. When you smack or spank any part of your body, whether lightly or with force, blood rises to the skin’s surface, which then intensifies any sort of touch applied afterwards.

To test this fun little theory, give yourself a light (or hard, if you prefer) smack on your arm or leg a couple times, allow the blood to flow into the area, and then use something tactile, like a feather or a hairbrush, to drag over the engorged area. It feels pretty amazing and sensitive, doesn’t it? If you’re not a huge fan of typical spanking fantasies, you can still use this aspect of BDSM play to add another dimension to your sexual sensations.

Research, Learn & Listen

You might not find these terms so specific to BDSM alone, but they’re the most important parts of keeping all partners safe while you’re exploring this exciting new addition to your sex life.

Even with the best of intentions, BDSM can turn right back into a scary Hollywood scenario if you become overconfident in your skills. Before you and partner engage in any BDSM play, scour the internet for real-life advice on how to safely dip your feet into the pool of kink.

You might also want to see out a local “munch”, a casual lunch meet-up where BDSM lifestylers of various skill sets can ask questions and learn from their peers’ experiences. And most of all, never get so involved in a scene that you forget to check in with your partner. Always make sure that they’re feeling aroused, comfortable, and safe!


What is BDSM really about? Your Guide to Debunking the Scary Stories Behind This Fun Way to Play originally appeared on Rumble & Buzz

Sex & Mischief Fishnet Collection by Sportsheets

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The Fishnet collection from the Sex & Mischief Collection by Sportsheets revamps classic designs and adds a stylish fantasy twist. Fetish has never been more fashionable!


Sex & Mischief Fishnet Paddle

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Your fetish desires are brought to life.

The Fishnet Paddle revamps the classic paddle design with a fetish fantasy twist.

Feel the paddle’s plush design against your partner’s skin and watch their eyes grow upon impact. Delight all the senses when you hear the perfect smack sound when skin to paddle contact is made. Arouse the entire body with playful soft taps or strengthen your swats to heighten your sensation play with the Fishnet Paddle.

Fishnet Paddle specifications:

Material: 60% Polyurethane, 26% Polyester, 10%, Fiberglass, 4% ABS plastic

Measurements: 12”x 4.5”, wrist loop, 6”

 

Sex & Mischief Fishnet Cuffs

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Evoke the passion from within and let the inner deviant come out to play. Entice your partner by adding the finishing touch to your favorite piece of lingerie with the Fishnet Cuffs.

When you’re wearing these this erotic fishnet look your paramour won’t be able to resist keeping their hands off of you. In addition to their devastatingly sexy look, you can adjust the size of these Fishnet Cuffs with the hook and loop closure. Use the easy off/off closure to secure cuffs in place, that includes 2 snap links that can easily be attached to your favorite restraint system.

To make a statement pair with the Fishnet Paddle, Fishnet Collar and Leash, and Fishnet Ball Gag.

Fishnet Cuffs specifications:

Material: 60% Polyurethane, 26% Polyester, 10%, Fiberglass, 4% ABS plastic

Measurements: 12”x 4.5”, wrist loop, 6”

 

Sex & Mischief Fishnet Collar & Leash

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Seduce your master as you hand over the reins to your Fishnet Collar & Leash.

This leash and collar set will turn heads as you show off your submissive while you are out in public. Detach the leash for a more subtle day collar that will captivate

The Fishnet Collar & Leash can be used with your favorite restraint systems or simply be worn for visual/physical stimulation. With an adjustable and easy on/off closure, you will be allowed to control how restrictive this collar can be. Connect the leash or collar to any of your favorite BDSM positioning toys like the Expandable Spreader bar.

To make a statement pair with the Fishnet Paddle, Fishnet Cuffs and Fishnet Ball Gag.

Fishnet Collar and Leash specifications:

Material: 40% Polyurethane, 28%Nickel Free Metal, 25%Polyester, 7% Hook and Loop Snaps

Measurements: 19″ (48.26cm) and leash with nickel‐free chain, 24.5″(62.23cm) total length

 

Sex & Mischief Fishnet Ball Gag

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Their muffled words never sounded so sexy.

Gaze into your submissive’s eyes and hear them whimper, while you see the excitement build in their eyes. Heighten any BDSM submission play by asking your partner to communicate without words using the Fishnet Ball Gag.

This beautiful fishnet designed gag is the perfect accessory for you and your partner’s next play session. They’d thank you for the present if they could. Pair with a Satin Blindfold to play a game of ‘find your erogenous’ zones. To make a statement pair with the Fishnet Cuffs, Fishnet Paddle, and Fishnet Collar and Leash.

Fishnet Ball Gag specifications:

Material: 55% Polyurethane, 30% phthalate-free, TPE, 8% Polyester, 7% Nickel Free metal

Measurements: Gag size, 1.5″ (3.81cm) in diameter

Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure Overload Kit Collection by Lovehoney

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Rediscover the steamy adventures of Anastasia and Christian Grey with the Fifty Shades of Grey Official Pleasure Collection.

Based on the erotic literary phenomenon that introduced couples across the globe to the sensuality of BDSM, selling over 150 million copies worldwide, and spawned three highly successful movies, these carefully curated toys and bondage accessories have been a global success since they first hit the shelves in 2012.

And now, the most popular products from the range have inspired four brand new collections.

Pleasure Overload collection

 

The Pleasure Overload Collection is a range of luxurious kits providing couples with everything they desire to create their own play room.


10 Days of Play Couple’s Kit

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The best-selling Pleasure Overload 10 Days of Play couple’s kit is filled with luxurious pleasure products from the Fifty Shades of Grey collection

Includes tantalizing toys and bondage accessories for couples – perfect for introducing new ways to play together.

Couple’s kit includes:

  • Vibrating love ring
  • Bullet vibrator
  • Kegel balls
  • Mini pleasure plug
  • Nipple clamps
  • Blindfold
  • Tickler
  • Mini flogger
  • Silky restraints
  • Satin toy storage bag

 

Delicious Tingles Kit

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The best-selling precision bullet vibrator with a stimulating pleasure balm designed to increase sensitivity combined with a sensation-enhancing balm infused with menthol for tantalizing tingles.

Discreet and perfect for travel, the bullet vibrator and balm are small enough to fit in a handbag.

Features:

  • Bullet has 3 speeds and 7 patterns
  • ABS plastic chrome-coloured bullet with black silicone detail
  • Balm in a silver Fifty Shades of Grey branded tin
  • Bullet requires 1 x AAA battery (sold separately)
  • Bullet is 100% waterproof
  • Comes with a satin storage bag
  • Quote and logo printed on the bullet, logo sticker on balm tin

 

Sweet Sensations Kit

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The best-selling pleasure products for couples from the Fifty Shades Collection incite romance and inspire new ways to play.

Includes:

  • Fifty Shades of Grey massage oil
  • Scented candle
  • Blindfold
  • Massager
  • Tickler
  • Satin restraints
  • Foreplay dice

Features:

  • Blindfold and satin restraints are soft and sensual, perfect for bondage play beginners
  • Tickler, massager and massage oil awaken nerve endings to heighten sensitivity and build arousal
  • Foreplay dice to inspire and delight couples in the bedroom
  • Designed for couples
  • Logo sticker on massage oil and tin label, and printed on tickler handle, massager and dice. Blindfold and restraints have a printed logo tag

 

Take it Slow Kit

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The best-selling pleasure products for couples looking to explore the exciting world of anal play.

Includes everything needed to get started:

  • Butt plug
  • Anal beads
  • Vibrating butt plug
  • Anal douche

Features:

  • Vibrating butt plug offers 3 speeds and 7 patterns for tailored pleasure
  • Toys have a finger loop or flared base offering peace of mind for beginners to anal play
  • Made from black silicone and ABS plastic. The vibrating butt plug features silver detail
  • Vibrating butt plug requires 1 x AAA battery (sold separately)
  • Designed for couples
  • All products are 100% waterproof
  • Logo etched into the silicone of butt plug, anal beads and douche. Logo printed on the vibrating butt plug

 

Wicked Weekend Kit

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Best-selling toys to inspire wicked weekends with a partner.

Includes:

  • Rechargeable G-spot vibrator, specially shaped to direct vibrations to the G-spot
  • Reversible handheld stroker with stimulating ribs on one side and tantalizing ticklers on the other
  • Adjustable couple’s love ring offering gentle penis constriction and tingly clitoral sensations during lovemaking

Features:

  • G-spot vibrator offers 3 speeds and 7 patterns, love ring is a single-speed vibrator
  • Made from black silicone and silver ABS plastic
  • G-spot vibrator is rechargeable, love ring requires 3 x LR44 batteries (6 included)
  • Designed for couples
  • All products are 100% waterproof
  • Comes with a satin storage bag
  • Logo printed on the G-spot vibrator and love ring

 

Greedy Girl Play Box

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The existing best-selling pleasure products for exploring Fifty Shades of Grey fantasies – combined to create the ultimate kit.

Includes:

  • Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator
  • We Aim To Please bullet
  • Yours and Mine Vibrating Silicone Love Ring
  • Totally His Soft Handcuffs

Features:

  • Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator’s flexible ears deliver 3 powerful speeds while the powerful motor in the curved shaft offers 3 speeds and 9 patterns
  • Discreet chrome-coloured bullet vibrator is perfect for travel, offering 3 speeds and 7 patterns
  • Couple’s single-speed love ring offers gentle constriction for him and tingly sensations for her during lovemaking
  • Velvety-soft handcuffs and blindfold are perfect for bondage play beginners
  • Toys are made from black silicone and ABS plastic, handcuffs and blindfold made from soft satin
  • Rabbit vibrator is rechargeable, bullet vibrator requires 1 x AAA battery (sold separately), and the love ring requires 2 x LR44 batteries (included)
  • Designed for couples
  • Rabbit vibrator, bullet vibrator and love ring are 100% waterproof
  • Logo printed on the rabbit vibrator, logo and quote printed on the bullet vibrator, printed logo on tags on the blindfold and handcuffs, and logo etched into the love ring

ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Collection

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The Doll Designer Collection is an upscale line of BDSM tools that exists at the intersection of beauty and pleasure.

Doll is a collaborative design by Zalo and UPKO that’s romantic and extravagant, and features a selection of gear that brings a sensually sophisticated and luxurious touch to play. You’re invited to indulge in your kinky side with Lace Thorn Handcuffs, Rose Riding Crop, Leather Thorn Whip and the Luxurious & Romantic Bondage Play Kit.

The wrist cuffs, collar and leash, whip and ball gag are expertly crafted with luxury Italian leather, gold metal accents, and designs of branches and thorns on the leather. The ball gag has a removable silicone rose, while a matching metal rose serves as the handle of the whip.

Each item is available individually or in an indulgent kit that arrives in a luxury Italian leather storage case.


ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Collection Rose Ball Gag

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The patented rose-shaped design has a hole which can be used for finger teasing and other surprise gestures.

This feature provides an eternal feeling of obedience.

  • Material: luxury Italian leather, Dow-Corning silicone
  • Ball diameter: 1.57 inches
  • Breathable hole diameter: 0.87 inches
  • Rose flower diameter: 2.67 inches
  • Over the head strap total length: 20.87 inches
  • Adjustable to: 16.15 inches – 18.7 inches
  • Over the head strap width: 0.51 inches

 

ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Collection Leather Lacelike Handcuffs

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The all leather luxurious handcuffs with its tough and elegant lacelike borders are suitably compatible to sexual games and daily use.

  • Material: luxury Italian leather, metal (copper)
  • Length: 9.45 inches
  • Leather cuffs width: 2 inches
  • Lacelike Ruffles width: 1.57 inches
  • Adjustable: 6.3 inches – 7.5 inches

 

ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Collection Leather Soft Whip

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The 33.5 inches whip is all leather wrapped and ornamented with a collection of vigorous blosom with a smooth touch on the surface bringing providing you with sweet and tender pain.

  • Material: luxury Italian leather, metal rose copper ornament top handle
  • Measurements: 33.5 inches long

 

ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Collection Rose Riding Crop

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The sizable measurements of the Rose Riding Crop’s head is hollowed with stunning rose patterns allowing a louder noise to lashings.

  • Material: luxury Italian leather
  • Measurements: 24.4 inches long

 

ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Collection Leather Thorn Whip

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The whip of 33.5 inches is elegantly ornamented with soft thorns and vigorous blossom as an analogy of dangerous love and fearless struggle.

  • Material: luxury Italian leather with thorn pattern, metal rose copper ornament top handle
  • Measurements: 33.5 inches long

 

ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Collection Leather Thorn Handcuffs

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The stunning handcuffs highlight the wrist and hands, emphasizing the slenderness, softness and skin of the user.

The cuffs provide 4 inches in length with a strong metal clip on either side for connecting the cuffs together or to compliment with our additional bondage accessories.

  • Material: luxury Italian leather, mesh fabric, metal (copper)
  • Length: 9.45 inches
  • Leather part width: 2 inches
  • Mesh fabric width: 2.95 inches
  • Adjustable: 6.3 inches – 7.5 inches

 

ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Collection Leather Thorn Collar & Chain Leash

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A stunning decoration for the neck this collar mixes grace with submission, rendering a Dom and Sub scenario.

Being 39.4 inches in length the leash allows for a selection of positions without restrictions.

  • Collar Material: luxury Italian leather, mesh fabric, metal (copper)
  • Length: 16.93 inches
  • Adjustable to: 13.38 inches – 15.55 inches
  • Width (leather collar): 0.67 inches
  • Width (mesh fabric): 1.6 inches on the top, 3 inches on the bottom
  • Leash Material: luxury Italian leather, metal (copper)
  • Leash Measurements:
  • Chain length: 42.5 inches
  • Handle length: 6.3 inches

 

ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Collection Luxurious & Romantic Bondage Play Kit

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Express your sensuality and desire for erotic discovery with this luxury play kit. Your Pleasure is packaged in an Italian leather luxury storage case.

Items included in Luxurious & Romantic Bondage Play Kit:

  • 1 x Storage Case
  • 1 x Leather Thorn Collar & Chain Leash
  • 1 x Leather Thorn Handcuffs
  • 1 x Leather Thorn Whip
  • 1 x Rose Ball Gag

 

Scandal Accessories by CalExotics

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Scandal is a collection of fetish gear and accessories that are beautifully crafted with red and black brocade with high-quality rings and clasps.

The collection is designed for dominant or submissive users and offers products for novice or more advanced play., and allows users to surrender their inhibitions and takes them on a journey of unbridled passion and excitement.

Here are the latest play accessories from the Scandal Collection.


Scandal BDSM Rope

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Make fantasy a reality!

All the tie-up fun of rope yet silky soft and gentle to the skin.

Features:

  • Body safe
  • Multi-purpose rope
    Materials: Cotton and Polyester (rope) Zinc Alloy (tips)

 

 

Scandal Silicone Stopper Gag

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Beg for more with this versatile gag that accommodates open or closed mouth options.

Features:

  • Versatile gag accommodates open or closed mouth options
  • Soft and sensual
  • Premium Silicone
  • Stretchy, comfortable and totally adjustable

Materials: Silicone (gag) Nickel-Free Iron (hardware)

 

Scandal Chair Restraint

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Easy to use and easy to release, this set of 2 double-stitched, luxurious designer fabric ties are comfortable, and feature an adjustable cinch design to hold you firmly in place.

Features:

  • Set of 2 double-stitched, luxurious designer fabric ties
  • Comfortable, adjustable cinch design to hold you firmly in place
  • Easy to use, and easy to release

Materials: Polyester (straps) Nickel-Free Iron (D-ring)

 

Scandal Split Crop

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Offering an enticing split tip design, this sturdy crop offers designer accents like sumptuous red brocade fabric with hand-stitched details.

Features:

  • Sturdy crop with designer accents
  • Hand-stitched with enticing split tip design

Materials: PU (tip) Polyester (fabric) Zinc Alloy (hardware)

 

Scandal Wide Tip Crop

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Offering a full-coverage wide tip design, this sturdy crop offers designer accents like sumptuous red brocade fabric with hand-stitched details.

Features:

  • Sturdy crop with designer accents
  • Hand-stitched
  • Full-coverage wide tip design

Materials: PU (tip) Polyester (fabric) Zinc Alloy (hardware)

 

Scandal Bed Accessories by CalExotics

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Scandal continues to take fetish to a whole new level with exquisitely designed restraints, and accessories that will unearth your deepest desires.


Scandal Super Sheet

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This versatile, high-shine vinyl sheet drapes over most surfaces to protect furniture when you are getting wet and wild during playtime. It’s easy to clean, and fits up to a king size bed.

Features:

  • Versatile high-shine vinyl sheet
  • Drapes over most surfaces to protect furniture during playtime
  • Fits up to a king size bed
  • Easy to clean

PVC. 80″ x 89″

 

Scandal 8 Points of Love Bed Restraint

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8 Points Of Love is a versatile bed restraint system with unlimited possibilities. The set comes complete with four tethers and eight universal D-Rings for the ultimate in customization.

Features:

  • Versatile bed restraint system with unlimited possibilities
  • Bed straps are equipped with 8 universal D-rings for a customized experience
  • Includes a set of 4 sturdy tethers with O-rings and swivel clasp design
  • Non-tarnishing, nickel-free hardware
  • Adjustable to fit mattresses up to Cal King size

 

Materials: Polyester (tethers) PP (straps) Nickel-Free Iron (D-rings, clasps) POM (buckles)