I freaking LOVE wearable sex toys! They are a must-have for their versatility and fun if you ask me. They can be used for a hands-free solo sesh, submissive partner play, or the incredible thrill of public sex without the risk of getting caught by innocent bystanders or worse — security!

How I see it, the more taboo the setting the better! Here are my favorite occasions and locations for using your wearable sex toy listed from least to most taboo:

A Bedroom Solo Sesh

Obviously, this one is the least taboo of them all, but it still provides a unique experience and is definitely worth a try as it takes such little effort. The wristband remote is basically like a smartwatch — you can turn the vibe on and off, controlling the settings right from your wrist. The little magnetic flaps to hold the vibe in the perfect place in your panties. It’s so f-ing perfect for a lazy day when you don’t want to do much with your hands. Just wear the teaser and control the vibration with the remote.

Running Errands 

Turn your Sunday errands at Target or Trader Joe’s into a full-on sexual experience with your partner or while flying solo. Personally, this is one of my favorite things to do with my husband.  Grocery shopping goes from a mundane task to a very stimulating, secretive, and thrilling encounter. The wristband remote has a really long range which means you can be in a completely different store aisle and still keep the pleasure going. It’s such a fun way to play while you’re out and about with a partner.

On Public Transport

Although this one may sound a little intimidating — yeah, there might be someone in a business suit sitting right across from you — wearing sex toys on public transportation has allowed me to experiment with exhibitionism while still being discreet. I’ve never felt more powerful than when I wear the panty teaser on my train ride home. If you’ve ever fantasized about public play, you hands-down have to try this! Not only is it the perfect way to multitask, but it will also make your commute a whole lot more interesting. Expert tip — you may want to bite your tongue or inside of your cheek to stay calm.

Date Night

A remote control vibrator is a perfect way to spice up date night! The fact that no one in the room except for my husband knows I’m on the verge of an orgasm is a HUGE turn-on. It adds a layer of submission for me since he is in control of my pleasure and can surprise me with new vibration intensities. It keeps me on the edge of my seat (literally) since I never know exactly when he will push the remote. Sometimes, I can’t help but let out a quiet little gasp of pleasure. It’s fun that no one knows our little secret. And when we get home…it’s GAME ON!

At the Movies

I know it may be a little odd, but I love going to the movie theater by myself. It’s one of the few activities I don’t mind doing alone, especially since my husband and I have drastically different tastes in movies (womp womp). I can’t help but feel a little extra horny when I’m alone in that the dark sensory-filled atmosphere of the theater. My sense of sight and hearing are already stimulated, so why not bring physical touch into the mix? No lie, I’ve experienced some of the most intense orgasms of my entire life while using my vibrating underwear at the movies! And the best part? I’m the only one who knew about it. Shhhhhhhh…

At a Party 

A few years ago, I realized that I didn’t need liquid courage when my sexuality could provide the confidence boost I needed. Parties can be anxiety-provoking, so next time you start feeling uncomfortable while at a social obligation, sneak into the bathroom and quickly vibrate one out, as opposed to drinking a bit too much champagne (or do both, no judgment here)!

Family Get-Togethers

This is the most taboo of all and definitely not for everyone. But family dinners and reunions can be stressful and you may feel the need to release some tension. Notice I didn’t say “sexual” tension — masturbation can help with all types of tension and stress. I’m not saying you should necessarily go full-speed while sitting across the table from your brother — um, awkward. But sneaking away into the bathroom or your old bedroom after a less-than-relaxing dinner for a quick stress-reliever is ok if you ask me. And if you are judging me for this, don’t knock it ‘till you try it. You may be surprised at how much more calm, cool and collected you are around your “crazy” family after you’ve had a quick release.

Best Occasions for Wearable Sex Toys by Miranda Buzzlove originally appeared on CalExotics.com